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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

5 years together and planning to move to another state, but we're having problems. Should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 years, not engaged, ugh, but I do love him very much. We lived together once around the 3 year mark and broke up because he wanted to spend every waking moment with me. I mean, I love him, but I needed ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

My ex is in an online rebound relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey there. I really need someones help. I'm 19 years old. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. We been together for almost 2 yrs. Before we ever started dating, I had gotten out of a relationship a few months before we stared dating. I was in high ...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

She broke my heart! How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - "I need time to think." Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a combination of a nerd and a ...

How do I fall back in love with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old (please don't judge on my age, I'm very mature for my age and know what I want) and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. At the beginning, I was madly in love with him. We had so much passion, so much ...

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't ...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if ...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

I am still resentful that my wife left during a very low point in my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I am a 24 yeare old male. I got married about 3 and a half years ago. Within the last year I feel that my marrage has realy taken some difficult hits, and I just feel like I need to vent or gain some perspective on feelings I am having. The histo...

What if I never get married because of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i can really like a boy for a really long time then when it finally comes to when we go out , like after a week ill lose all the strong feelings i had for them . i dont know what it is . like even if the boy acts the same way he did befor we started ...

Is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him ...

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...

He was my friend but all he cares about now is popularity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally in to someone else at that time, that i never notice that he like me. ...

What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ...

Is there hope for my ex-fiance and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - My question is very simple. I am in love, deeplyin love. I went through a rough break up. and usually I handle breakups well, this guy was going to be someone very special to me and a few weeks before our engagement planning he broke up. I was very...

I feel so alone. Week before Christmas he left because he needed 'space'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - On Monday, only 5 days before Christmas my husband and I got into a huge argument. It was really over nothing, he was drinking and going on and on about nothing. I asked him to be quiet so I could get some work done at home (I work from home) and ...

My attraction to my girlfriend's sister is getting more every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - i am with my girlfriend we have 4 children together, but i find myself falling in love with her sister. My girlfriend's sister is exactly like me. In every way we like the same things. Want the same things in life, even my girlfriend said i'm with ...

She's my best friend, but not my GF now. How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I guess I am here to try to mend my broken heart. I was in a long distance lesbian relationship with my ex for four and a half years. We hardly ever fought and I thought we got along really well. Yes, we were very different in our interests, b...

Did I hurt him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - its really a long story but im gonna make it short so i have a crush on a guy 4 almost a year and we re both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to ta...

We can't seem to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I want to break up with my boy friend.It is a 11 years relationship and we are still good friends. We both feel that there is no future in our realationship. we are not staying together.I want a commitment from him and he is afraid of marriage...

How to move on when your heart has been tossed in the trash can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I have been in love with a man for 4 years, we have been LDR. Well, today Christmas day he erased me from his Skype contacts without saying a word. I text him and he didn't replied. I feel like he threw all we shared and all he promised during this ...

Should we break up or get hitched?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now about a year and we were both obese and I got really fit and joined the army, now im back on leave and she wants to get married in the next week but I dont feel attracted to her anymore, she doesnt ...

He talks about making me his wife yet, he never texts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - please help me i cant help but think about him and our situation here few months i met this guy at a club i had a thing with his friend nothing expect flirting and exchanging numbers. few weeks after that the guy added me and weve talked also exch...

I never got to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I really like this boy i've know him for a year but i don't know how he feels about me. Not to long ago he move an hour away and we haven't talk but i still like him so much. We use to talk all the time and he wouldn't really talk to anyother girl ...

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...

Situation leaves me at wits end. My 8 year gay marriage failing, partner cheating, and care for adopted son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I am in a bad situation-help I am a gay male who is in a gay marriage,for over 8 years. Just recently he started cheating on me. I followed him to a bar. His new friend was there they were kissing, very passionately. I walked up to them, and left. ...

Can ''fate'' be used as a valid excuse for our break-upp?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - It was a long, committed relationship. Now she keeps blaming "fate" for breaking up with me, and refuses to talk about it, as it is her own decision (which it is). I already cut contact with her, but she keeps writing to me trying to justify the ...

Should I stay with BF or go with my mutual attraction with his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I am soon to be 14, and I have a bf. We r somewhat in "love" but I don't think it's working out. My other guy friend, Garrett has been acting weird around me lately also. Like in band me and Garrett both play percussion, and whenever one of us ...

My strategy failed: I lied to my bf saying I was pregant to try to get him back. Would telling him I miscarried work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - OK; soo i Have an ex boyfriend and i am still in love with him... i would love to know how to get him back ? he is my very first love, but i think i made a mistake. Because i lied to him and told him i was pregnant, just to see if he would come back ...

Guys should I tell my ex that I really like him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Ok this question I mainly for guys but girls can answer too:) so I really really like my ex again... But he started dating this girl recently.. He only asked her out because I said no..(he was in love with me) But now he really likes her. Me and ...

I have a new guy, BUT keep thinking of my ex, even though my ex bullied me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I am extremely confused with my relationships at the moment. My boyfriend of two years split up with me two months ago and then a month ago, after becoming close with another boy we got together. My problem is I keep thinking of my ex and I'...

It's Christmas, but how to break up with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship for 19 months and at first, the 6 months and counting was fantastic. Not a problem whatsoever. But now, all we seem to do is fight and argue. She tells me that I annoy her whenever I try and speak to her and when ...

How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments. But I found out,...

I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...

I don't love him, but should I stay with him because he is safe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - im 22 i have a 2 year old with a man i dont love, we were together a year when i fell pregnant, I was stupid 19 year old thinkin "it wont happen to me" although i cant say i regret it as i love her so much! But about a month after havin my daughter ...

Why did my ex treat me like garbage? How can I forget about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I was in love with my ex and would've done anything for him. But all he did was treat me like dirt. He'd insult me in front of friends, ignored me at parties, flirt with other women in front of me, always put me last, and was never once romantic ...

I feel she's going to dump me. And I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for 4 months now and I love her more then anything. But she never seems to notice me. I mean I got her a nice £8 watch for Xmas. She got me the black eyed peas album. I feel like I haven't got her enough. She doesn't ...

My boy friend's asking for closure

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago and now he wants to meet to "answer any questions we have about us or any clarification." why? What does this mean??...

My boyfriend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - What shall I do!? This is going to sound really pathetic and I'm pretty sure what the answer is going to be. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, the thing is he does not like me as much as I like him. I get very jealous...

She claims she's never horny, but get super wet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I dont understand how my gf is never horny. We have alot of foreplay and she gets dripping wet all over but yet she says she doesn't feel horny. Also it seems that she never initiates sex or anything sexual, i always have to start doing ever...

I have feelings for four other guys, plus my ex, still.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I have no boyfriend at the moment but I am getting feelings for like 4 guys. I don't know what it means :/ I had a boyfriend a year and a half ago and I broke up with him. BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER. I didn't get over him for ages. Now he annoys me becau...

Why do I always end up with cheating jerks? I want to be loved for who I am

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Nowadays I'm feeling down, and i have relationship problems. I'm a nice girl, have manners, I'm honest. But why am i always the one that ends up with a jerk of a boyfriend! A boyfriend who always tends to break my heart. Like right now. I just got...

Is delayed break-up sex such a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Let's say you dated someone who was a very close friend of yours. You broke up, but feel like you have unfinished business sexually. As in, you were both very enthusiastic and had plans/ideas that never got to be acted out (though you did have sex ...