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*imisoph3
writes: please help me i cant help but think about him and our situation herefew months i met this guy at a club i had a thing with his friend nothing expect flirting and exchanging numbers. few weeks after that the guy added me and weve talked also exchanged numbers. he never texts me im always the first one then i gave up and stopped, we still poke each other on facebook everyday for three months now, and everytime im online he says hey beautiful, one time we even talked about our future together. since we are thousand of miles apart he talked about me coming up to where he lives and it was a serious conversation ,,he then said he'll come spring break. im so confused on this guy he calls me beauitful always ims talked about making me his wife but never texts me. im afraid of getting hurt or him just playing me. i even asked him about weather his playing me and he said that i was too beautiful to be played with.i used to have this guy exactly where i wanted him now sadly he has me wrapped around his finger. ive never been in a relationship but i would try it with him in a second.what do i do? do i keep talking to him and try to get him more interested? or do i just let him go? please please help
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 December 2010):
saying things online is very easy to do. people can say things they dont mean. they can also be chatting and flirting online to otehr people too. remain friends with him of course but be aware that it may never be more than this. keep your options open with other guys too and you might meet someone that you can be really sure about and who will be happy to text you first instead of someonelike him who doesnt bother but is happy enough to reply i woudnt take his coversations about a future together that seriously unless he does something that proves he means it. you have known him for three months which is really not a long time. enjoy the friendship and the flirting and maybe one day something more might develop. dont put all your hopes into it though in case it doesnt
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