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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I stayed faithful, but he is ending our long-distance relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - After 2 and half years in a relationship (12 months long distance - not my choice but his) my boyfriend has decided that its over. He told me that if I was not able to be with him (re-locate overseas) he is calling it a day. He has been ruthless ...

I can't forget my ex. Help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey... i am with this great guy... so happy ... but i can't forget my ex...i don't love my ex but i can't get him out of my mind...verywhere i look... everything i do.... what should i do????? can anyone help me????...

My long distance GF is moving close to me but I recently started feeling that we are totally wrong for each other!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I have been seeing my gf for 7 years. We began dating in college and continued to date through grad school but at that point it was long distance. I guess we have had a long distance relationship for 4 years. Now she is finally moving to be near me ...

My husband always waits until I am at breaking point to say how sorry he is, the niceness then lasts for only weeks! I'm at my wit's end!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for ten years, married six. we have 2 kids. sex was never brilliant, he has ed, but the first year was great, then it slowly got worse. i will cut this down for the average reader!!! I have over the years caught him ...

Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...

How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and just realize he's just jerking me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me, and I feel torn apart. I can't seem to grasp my mind around the fact that we are not together. I need help moving on, finding my footing again, and regaining the desire to leave my house. Perhaps provid...

He treats me like a child and is controlling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i go out with this guy who i thought id really like. i had fancied him for ages as he's really gorgeous and kind. about a year ago we started dating. at first it was absolutely fantastic and the sex was the best ive ever had, but about six months ...

I want my ex back. Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...

He says the spark is gone, and doesn't believe that I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't believe that I love him and he says the spark is gone, how do I change this?...

I'm faithful to my husband, but have been chatting online with an ex. Should I see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 14 years and I have been 100% faithful. He does treat me well, and does everything as far as housework and cooking. Here is my problem. I spoke to my ex boyfriend like 3 weeks ago, and have been almost everyday. ...

I'm getting bored with my girlfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - My name is Anthony, and I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. Without getting too graphic, certain area's of her body have changed since I took her virginity and we started having sex casually. I don't find her as attractive anymore ...

Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...

He says the relationship has faded, and I want him to be happy. Should I let him be or keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - he says the relationship has faded and that he likes someone else. i dont know what to do about it i dont think its faded or gotten less but i want him to be happy with whoever he wants to be with and i love him that it will hurt so much if he ...

We keep arguing and she gets really hurt by this...the thing is I don't feel the same about her anymore...should I end it or carry on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - me and my girlfried have been dating for a year and a half. I really love her but for a while we've been having problems. we never had a single fight for almost a year but now we fight all the time because she thinks i dont spend enough time with ...

We had an abrupt break up from a long distance relationship...we haven't talked in 3 months...should I call him? I'm confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hello I used to be with this guy that I deeply loved for a year and half. then things started going downhill for the last 6 months and hung on as long as could. I hurt him a lot and then he ended up hurting me back. we finally ended it, abrupt...

Is it better to ignore his calls till he gets the picture or talk to him and tell him it is over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hoping someone can help me here. I would appreciate it very much. My ex and I split a couple of years ago. After the split, which was painful for us both, he moved to another city, met someone else and was with her till last October. We have been ...

How can I make sure it's better this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm sorry this is long, but it's quite complicated. Please hear me out lol! I got back with my ex 3 days ago. We had been split up for 3 and a half weeks and had been going out for 1 year before we split. I really loved this man, I still do and I...

He is even more distant than before, is it over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...

He explained that he thinks he loves me but doesn't really know what love is or if he wants to spend his whole life with me!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years, we haved lied together for a year and a half and have a 6month old son together. I am very much still in love with him and simply can't imagine not being! Although we've had a lot of problems in the past, ...

She has lent me her car and cash but I don't really have any feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - dear all. i am seeing someone who is realy charming. at the mo i am short of cash because i have gone from weekly pay to monthly. on weeks pay has had to last for 5 weeks. she has lent me £500. does other things for me, but i cant fall in love. i ...

Can I save our relationship??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyf for 4 years today. We moved in together last Sept, and starting planning to build our house, discussed having a baby, getting married... we were so happy and content. About a month ago, he went quiet. He was working really long...

My girlfriend is very distant, does not reply to my texts or make time to see me, yet says she loves me! I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Hey guys i am in a bit of a struggle here i've in a relationship with my girl for about 8 months already, ok basically i am a bit lost because we dont live close to each other i am a Marine stationed in DC and well she lives in Roanoke Va anyways we ...

I feel unappreciated and unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I moved in with my boyfriend in jan, we hav been together nearly 4 yrs. Since moving in I have been feeling pissed off with him as he drinks much more than I knew about and he doesn't seem to want sex when he has had a few! He is never a nasty ...

Should we be friends with benefits or just completely call it quits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. We do love eachother but last night we called it quits. We just feel like our personalities clash and we have different hobbies. I thought I would be okay with the situation because he ...

She said she's not in the mood for me, does this usually happen in a relationship? I'm considering leaving her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys please help me decide what to do,today my gf simply told me thats she's not in the mood of talking to me and when I called her to ask why she simply said thats buzy she cant talk,I've done nothing wrong to upset her we having a long distance ...

I'm married, so how do I supress the feelings for another man? Is becoming friends an option?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I am happily married for nearly a year with my partner of almost 12 years and I love him lots. I am worried about the feelings I started to get for a guy at work. I am almost certain that this is just an infatuation but I feel so bad about this, ...

The magic has gone in my relationship, it seems. Recently I keep thinking about another guy, what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - omg please will someone help me, i really need some advise, so please please please ! read this for me, thank you. ok so ive been going out with this guy for nearly two years (he is 21, i'm 19) and although we had a rough start in the relationship...

Is it normal after being in a relationship for a while for it not to feel so 'loved up'....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) - I'll keep this short and sweet. Is it natural to feel this way? I've been with my bf almost 2 years now, but our relationship isnt as wonderful as when it started out. we used to absolutely adore the time we spent together, but now we fight a little...

Since starting work he's got enough time for his friends but not enough tme for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 1 year and a few months now. Things were soo good in the beginning..and i got really attached to him, i thought things were going to be like that forever. But then he got a job, so we couldnt see eachother as much. ...

I'm having a baby. I feel my lover is neglecting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Sometimes I feel extremely unhappy with my lover mostly because I feel that he is neglecting me on an emotional level. Physically he cares for me superbly and I could't ask for someone better. He buys me everything I could want and/or need. He has ...

Our time together is getting boring, we're not living together or married, what will it be like if we were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. We do not live together but we spend every weekends together (I go over to his house or he comes over to mine). During the weekdays, he'll call me at night and talk to me. I know I'm lucky he is still doing ...

He couldn't get enough of me, but now he's gone AWOL.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Hello, Yes, I recently had 3 month fling with a guy who I met online. All good fun but we decided to cool off due to distance. We then kept in touch by email, text etc. However, in the past 2 months I haven't heard from him! I've emailed a few ti...

I'm feel like I am living in a lie because I want to be with some one else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I am very troubled. Everyday I pretend to be happy, I feel like I am living a lie. I've been with this man for 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I was 16 when I had my first child and 19 when I had my second. We only knew e/o for 3 months and ...

Confused!!! In an unhappy marriage and wanting someone else...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - I am confused and need advice...from someone that doesnt know me or my husband. We have been married for 8 months now and I feel very distant and out of love with him. When he touches me or kisses me I dont feel anything and it really scares me. I ...

Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having problems. I asked for some closure because he told me that the relationship has been damaged and it can't work. It's been three months since we been together. So why does he continue to stare at me when we are in c...

I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy. Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy wh...

I'm not attracted to him anymore, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated for almost two years now. He is still very attracted to me, but I am not very attracted to him anymore. I feel awful, and it has affected our sex life. I love him, but getting to know him well, I find his lack of ...

Falling out of love with my boyfriend! Should I try again or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got re...

Should I cool off for a while and not make an effort to see what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been to this site before for advice and go some really good answers, so I am back! I have been seeing my bf for about 18 months now. When we first started out he was so into the realtionship. He bought me flowers, send random cards say...

I'm bored and disconnected. It's as if he isn't there. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We've been together for well over a year now but the problem is I've been feeling sad, bored and disconnected from him. We've only had sex 3 times since december 07. I've tried talking to him but it's as if he's not really ...

In it for the kids, how do I choose a life of my choice instead of a life for others??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - THIS IS WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE... QUOTES I FOUND ON LINE.. HOW DO I CHOICE A LIFE OF MY CHOICE INSTEAD OF A LIFE FOR MY CHILDREN? I can choose to stay married until the pain of staying married becomes greater than the pain of...

What do I do about my bullying husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - my husband is a bully. ive been married just two years and things are horrible at home. everytime we have a few words he flies off the handle and then starts calling my family. he never takes me out but when weve had an arguement he goes out to our ...

We've been married for 7 years, yet he rarely kisses me or tells me he loves me...is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - okay today we are married 7 years, together for 8. he sleeps on the couch 99% of the time.never kisses my except on occasion as he is leaving for work.doesnt hold me,rarely says he loves me. and he tells me i get on his nerves. now he swears he is ...

Should I send her this email telling her that I'm sorry if I pressured her? She's still hung up on her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 May 2008 (M) - hi i met a girl a few weeks ago that is still a bit hung up over her ex. he slept with someone behind her back but its her first bf and they've been together for years so she finding it hard to get over him. anyway we both like each other and...

We've been together for more than 10 years but I'm determined not to forgive his infidelity, what do you think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I found out my husband had an affair a year and a half ago. The only reason it's over now is because the other woman ended it. The whole thing lasted about a month. He was angry that she hurt him, not sure if he tried to win her back or anyt...

In a long distance relation but starting to develop feelings for a man at the gym, who is committed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for over 12 months now and he is loving, attentive, caring etc...all the things women crave. BUT i have started to fancy/think a lot about a man i have recently come into contact with on a regular basis at ...

I still have feelings for him, but I'm also scared that someone may get hurt. SOMEONE being me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6062 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I dont want to over analyze this situation , but for some reason I cant help to. I have a guy friend whom at one point I was very close to we use to talk everyday , hang out from time to time , this eventually led to us sleeping together a few times ...

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

18 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too...

He moved on and married, and I'm engaged. Should I talk to him if I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - hello, i meet this man 9 years ago when he was my pe coach and i fell in love with him but i never told him because he left but i told him after 5 years . then he told me that he was not good for me and that iam a good girl.then he travelled we ...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend, what should I do?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years and we love each other a lot, but I think that we are starting to draw apart from each other. he want to take some time apart but I really don't want to because I'm afraid that one of his best ...