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She said she's not in the mood for me, does this usually happen in a relationship? I'm considering leaving her.

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Question - (24 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A male South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi guys please help me decide what to do,today my gf simply told me thats she's not in the mood of talking to me and when I called her to ask why she simply said thats buzy she cant talk,I've done nothing wrong to upset her we having a long distance relationship as I'm studying and she's working

I personally think that my chick simply doesn't appreciate what I do for her as I'm alwyas a undrstanding guy and always try to make her happy and now I feel that she's manipulating me trying to make me guilty coz she knows I really love her and I'm crazy about her

so please tel me what should I do about it coz its really hurting me that she tels me she is not in the mood of talking and so on to me,does this usually happen in a relationship or what.I feel like leaving her and getting on with my life no matter how much I already invested in our relationship would that be a good idea

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntit sounds like shes got some issues and maybe just needs some space give her some time and see how that works and if she still feels the same then maybe you have to look at your options. give her some space and then if you dont feel like shes not apprieciate you then talk to her about that because you have feelings to not just her. or maybe walk away, you have to do whats right for you even though it may hurt. im sure when the time comes you will know what to do. thats my opinion hope it helps

aphexy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

I wouldnt leave her, maybe she is just feeling alone. I always say to my friends who have arguments - remember you only have your side of the story you dont know anyone elses thoughts so dont jump to conclusions. I think you should just see how it goes and then, maybe have a talk with her - dont do anything hasty! Hope this helped.

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