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writes:I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got really busy with school and was having a lot of problems so he started acting very distant last month and hurt me alot. I tried so hard to make it work and he kept rejecting me so I broke up with him. He now realizes that there is def a communication problem, and has been kind of trying to get things back on track by saying we need to talk, he still cares about me, etc. And I'm sure that all of those things are true, but I already feel so unloved and he doesnt try very hard either which makes me feel even more unwanted. I dont really want to try anymore (this whole situation has made me pretty depressed) and the same time, I still dont want to let him go, so the relationship is kind of in this limbo. Should I try again or let it go? Or is it that time apart has made my feeling for him dissapear and I just dont want to let go.. I'm pretty confused.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 May 2008):
It's easy to drift apart if you are long distance.
Only you know how you feel. But from what you have said here if sounds like your love has faded, and suddenly you are finding fault with him so you have an excuse to break up.
Talk to him, long and hard. Tell him honestly how you feel, and break up with him for good on good terms.
Don't cling to memories of how good it was when you were together. If you can't do the long distance thing then it is not going to work.
Good Luck!! xx
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