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writes:Hi. I moved in with my boyfriend in jan, we hav been together nearly 4 yrs. Since moving in I have been feeling pissed off with him as he drinks much more than I knew about and he doesn't seem to want sex when he has had a few! He is never a nasty drunk but it seems he wud rather drink wine than have sex with me. My confidence is shot at right now and I feel he has no interest in me sexually. He is motivated to our relationship in other ways such as wanting us to buy a house together but I'm starting to resent him and fear I'm falling out of love. I crave sexual attention and would even consider an affair. I'm also beginning to get jealous of the women on the porn sites he visits sometimes and also women on tv because I believe he has interests in them that he doesn't in me. I cry more now than I ever have, despite this I want "us" to work. Can anyone offer advice? Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): I've been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2, him and his mom just moved in. Ever since I feel that he dose'nt want to be with me, on the weekend that am off he goes out with his friends. We don't go out like we us to I miss him. We us to go out at least once a week for dinner and that day he would tell me how much he loved me. Now I woke up every morning at 3:30 a.m to fix his lunch and sometimes he dose'nt eat it, it's not that I don't cook it's because little details that I forget, like the dressing in the salad or he didn't take a lunch ect. It was his birthday and instead of saying thank you.... he said are u sure this is the one..it made me feel bad. He dose'nt know what I went threw to get him that present. Maybe am over reacting... We usually have a movie night with beer, pizza and hot wings. But last time we did movie night I felt like he wanted to Be somewhere else. What should I do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Drinking so much can often affect a person's libido. It's also very unhealthy. Have you tried talking to him about his over drinking?
Having an affair is never a good idea.
Put in some effort into being sexually attractive to him. Try something new and kinky. In the morning (before he can get a drink) pounce on top of him and tell him that you want him.
You could try buying a book about on how to seduce your man and reboost your sex lives.
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reader, jackie69 +, writes (25 May 2008):
 Act sexy and then u will be sexy to him!
Make him persue and chase you!
go out with friends make arrangements without him.
Dress actractively. dresses, earings, make up etc.
MAKE HIM JEALOUS!
he will soon come round.
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (25 May 2008):
Well, if he has a drinking problem you should talk to him about it. Is there anyone else you can go to? A relative, mutual friend, etc. that can also make him see he has a problem. It's the first step I guess.
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