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anonymous
writes:Hello,Yes, I recently had 3 month fling with a guy who I met online. All good fun but we decided to cool off due to distance. We then kept in touch by email, text etc. However, in the past 2 months I haven't heard from him! I've emailed a few times etc but no reply whatsoever. Quite strange really, a guy that couldn't get enough of me and now has gone AWOL. Do guy's do this? One minute they are into you like mad and then total closure? I'm quite disappointed in him for not at least saying hello especially after 3 months of close contact and sharing! I find it rude and I am disappointed that he had his pleasure and doesn't at least acknowledge me! All thoughts or experiences appreciated! Thank you.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 It is possible that when you both decided to cool things off he was checking out and over the past few months he was parting ways but not telling you. Seems he had his closure and made his decision and I agree with the others, how rude not to tell you what's going on with him. If he was always good about answering your emails, texts, etc and now that is gone, you've tried and it is time to move forward. Chalk it up to "had an great three months, but it was the wrong guy or the wrong time."
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Be strong and move on, you can do it girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all three of you! At least I'm not the only one that fell for this. What disappointed me was how polite and easy going he was. He respected me and my 11 yr old son, bought us dinner, gave thoughtful xmas presents, always put my son first and was such a gentleman. always replied texts and emails. Like I said he couldn't get enough of me. How disappointed I am with him!! And oldersister..he hasn't been on the news. So the penny has kinda dropped! How disappointed I am in his behaviour. shame. Keep thoughts coming, thank you. xx
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reader, lotsofgiggles123 +, writes (23 May 2008):
 maybe something happend to him like a death to dearly beloved or something bad happend to him so it brung him not to contact at all or much maybe you should try contacting him some other way if not maybe visit to see how he doing.hope dis helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): What other contact did you have with him? Did you have his home address and his home telephone number, i bet not. This happened to me ages ago, oh i understood why, when my friend bumped into his wife and kids. Sorry but you have had a lucky escape and dont try and keep in touch with him.
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