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He says the relationship has faded, and I want him to be happy. Should I let him be or keep trying?

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Question - (27 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

he says the relationship has faded and that he likes someone else. i dont know what to do about it i dont think its faded or gotten less but i want him to be happy with whoever he wants to be with and i love him that it will hurt so much if he leaves but if he does its to be happier so i dont know what to do about it should i let him be or keep trying?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

I would let him go, let him do what he feels he needs to do, because if you desperately hold on to him, which I would completely understand, he might just go after the person he really wants right now and cheat on you, so just let him go. Ask him if he wants to make the relationship work even though his love has faded, and if he says no, you know what you need to do. But still, the decision is yours. I wish you the best of luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

You sound like such a good girlfriend, putting your boyfriend before yourself.

I agree with the "A female reader, anonymous".

Good Luck. X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

try to talk about why the relationship has faded. find out if you can rekindle what is was that he liked about you.

relationships are always worth trying to save, cos you have nothing else to lose :)

good luck, remember TALK to him, work out whats wrong and then fix it !

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