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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Why put forth all of the effort to just change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - About a year ago i dated this boy for about a year, we were both 17 at the time. I broke up with him during the exams because we were both really stressed out and werent getting along. Neither of us got over it for a long time, we havent seen each ...

Has moving to another country destroyed my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. I moved to Europe so that we can stay together. But since moving here our relationship has been falling apart. We have spent a lot more time together since moving (Since neither one of us friends ...

Is this normal and if not is there better out there?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - In my relationship - i have to ask for affection - hugs and kisses. I have never had a meaningful conversation - we talk about trivial stuff only, We never do anything together or go anywhere together, we have nothing in common and cannot find a ...

I feel like I am trapped I want to leave but don't know how to go about it....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Sorry for this being long but you need to know the story beforehand- I have been with my partner for about 4 years and brought a house together about 3 years ago. We were happy for about 2 of these years. We always argue, he likes to order me...

How do you come to accept the sexual side of yourself??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - How do you come to terms with your sexuality? I have difficulty with this. Once I had a few too many beers and things went gone further than I would have liked with a guy that I had met and a girl friend of mine. Full sex wasn't involved. I feel ...

I'm really confused, she keeps changing her attitude towards me!! I'm really working hard to make things better...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - well this past week things have been going great positive convo on the phone she actually called me 3 days in a row and told me she misses me we got together one night we did stuff and i helped her with her computer and things around the house that ...

Why doesn't he show that he cares??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Im 15, He's 16. We like each other, but were not going out just yet. We are on the verge of going out though. Im totally unexperienced, and he is experienced, he has had sex more than once, and i haven't gone out with a guy, i haven't even kis...

I don't want to break his heart again so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have ben dating for 5 months we dated before that though and the first time we dated i broke up with him and it broke his heart i started missing him so i got back with him now this time that we are dating im starting not ...

Getting married in a month, but I don't love my fiance! I know we'll be divorced in a couple of years....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My fiancee and I have been together for almost 11 years, engaged for a year and a half, and are getting married in a month. I don't think I have ever really loved her. Its hard to summarize our history, there's a lot and not much of it is pretty....

My Boyfriend Is Pulling Away...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - If anyone has advice or is in a similar situation, I would really appreciate your comments or feedback. I've been with my boyfriend for a year a few months - and believe me, it has been a rocky relationship. We sort of got off to a rocky start: w...

My husband said he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My husband said he didn't love me anymore about 2 1/2 months ago. Then I kicked him out because I was fed up with his crap. I did not think he would stay gone this long and I have tried along with our 11 year old son to get him to go to counseling ...

After four years - could he still feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hmmm its more of a venting type thing but I would appreciate some input. Ok my best friend from forever ago just appeared on myspace. I remember when we used to hang out like it was yesterday :) but the thing is last time i saw him was like fou...

I am suppose to be going on a date tonight, but I don't feel the want to go? I don't know why

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I met a guy 2 weeks ago at my local pub. We've kept in touch by txt. I am suppose to be going out tonight with him. He is 30, 7 years younger than me. We have nothing in common, he likes to drink frequently, used to do drugs, and doesn't have any ...

My bf still has his ex on his friends list on myspace...even when she keeps trying to break us up!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend have a second myspace account and he refuses to remove his ex from his friends list,he removed her from his top friends list but he wont remove her from the friends list I have not invaded his pprivacy the page is public... his ex h...

Am I stupid or has it been too long since we onced liked each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - well i used to really like this guy and he liked me too but we were both really shy and nothink become of it. we used to hang out all the time and we would talk on instant messenger every night untill i ended up kissing one of his friends and he was ...

Do these things mean he is losing interest in me and wants to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 1/2 everything seemed to be doing great, until recently. It seems that he is losing interest in me.. and getting to the point to were he cant stand me. He points out to me, what wrong with ...

I've been married for 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake I've ever made...how quickly can I get a divorce??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - hi am only married 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake i have ever made want to know how quick i can get a divorce since am only married a short time?...

She likes me but doesn't love me...how can I make her love me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - 40 and i love lady how is 24yers old but she send me email taling me {that you know that i like you, but i dont love you}. so pls how cain i make hemer loves me...

Help! I might want to break up and still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have lived together (rented) for two years and have two cats together. We have the same friends and our families love us. I have been feeling uncertain about us for about 5 months and now it's get...

After 10 years, it's starting to bother me she's the only sexual partner I have had. Is this a mid-life crisis??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - My partner is 6 years older than me and we have been together for the last 10 years. She is the only g/f I've ever had but she has had sex with at least 25 boyfriends prior to our relationship. After 10 years, it is only just starting to bother me ...

Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

Is there a way to win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi i need some help. recently me and my boyfriend split up because our relationship was fading and when we did, i was relatively okay about it: it was mutual and we stayed friends(even though things were weird for a little while). this was in May....

Will he ever realize that we're meant to be, or will he forget me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid.... My ex and I broke up two months ago and I am still devastated. I have cried everyday since. I go out with my friends, see my family and have even been on a few dates! but, when I am driving or in bed I cry. I miss his laughter...

After 17 years, he says he doesn't feel the same. This breaks my heart, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I need help with a relationship that has lasted 17 yrs. A couple of weeks ago he said to me that I love you to death, but I don't feel the same anymore. I have no reason to believe he is cheating, there is no signs at all. He won't commit, he has s...

Can I win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - hi i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and we lost are virginity together and because the relationship was becoming a bit mediocre we decided to be just friends. but ever since that, i think that im in love with him and i ju...

I'm beginning to find my girlfriend less attractive. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm 19 and I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. To start with I loved being with this girl, however now that we've been together for so long I'm starting to feel like it's not going anywhere. Embarrising as it is to say she...

She couldn't carry on the way things were...but how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - I feel as though i really want to be back with my ex girlfriend, we have been split up for about a month and a half now. I feel that she is going through a busy time in her life with uni etc but she told me that she couldnt carry on like we were ( ...

Is our relationship fading out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - good morning. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years, recently we split up and got bck together and said we would start a fresh. ive only been with him since the split for about 2-3 weeks. every weekend i dont see him he has had good ...

I love him, but I'm sure I've lost him. how can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) - I have problems with my bf. Or maybe soon to be ex. Probably soon to be ex. See, we have a long history of issues because in my past I was with some guys he knew. This was way before I met him, but when we started dating I never told him, even t...

I've just told him a few minutes ago I wont be calling him again.Should I try calling him again or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - okay well I've been talking to this guy since March we talked everyday over the phone.but lately the conversations were starting to get boring after an hour and before we used to talk all night..well he hasn't called me or anything for the past 2 ...

Am I just being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - MY ex is giving me mixed messages. He tells me he just wants to be friends but then he calls me at night to talk about everything going on in his life, invites me out to see him (he moved to another state), and still wants to sleep together. Shou...

Been with my bf for nearly 2 years...but lately it seems as the the slightest thing he does annoys me...Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, i really liked him for ages before we actually started going out...but he sort of messed with my head - saying he liked me then going out with other girls etc, he really hurt me! Howeve...

I miss the romance! Is he losing interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We started out as friends and slowly (VERY slowly) progessed into a comitted relationship. In the beginning he would do such cute, sweet things for me. For example, he brou...

Does anyone have any soul searching suggestions, aside from the obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - Heya, i'm a bit of a mess at the moment. Basically I just split up with my girlfriend of 1 and a half years last friday (i did the breaking up). The reason being, she wanted me to spend more time with her which on reflection was completely just and ...

I don't think I love him any more but he begs me to work it out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Well...Where to start! I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we are both 16. We haven't had sex, and he really respects me, he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together...

Let the sleeping dog lay and see where things end up.........what does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Okay there was this guy I was pursuing and i found out that he was not interested in me. He gave me mixed signals so I continued to pursue him until I just told him how I felt. He said he just wanted to be friends. Although Im really "pretty and ...

I recently broke up with the man I love and I really need your help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I am writing this because i need advice, from either people who have been there or for people who think that they may be able to offer me support. I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend and we were together for almost 2 years. I love him...

How can I get closure? I still love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex, we broke up almost three months ago. He is dating, and i am too. I think he is really into this girl, as for me - i still miss him and love him. He still has some items in my home, and i have to stay in contact with him ...

I pursued my career rather than love...so haven't had many relationships...what are the signs that he likes me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - I usually a loud, confident person but because I chose to persue my career instead of love I have not had many relationships, this has left me unconfident in this area. Other the past few months I have started to fall for this guy. What is the best ...

Do you think when he comes back from Europe we have room to negotiate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5995 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. He pursued me in the beginning and convinced me to give him a chance. We both fell really hard really fast. At the end of May he told me that he felt he was under too much pressure (his exams were ...

I know he's right for me BUT I always find flaws and worry too much. I'm even starting to doubt my love for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - I overanalyze everything and my new topic of overanalyzing is my bf. Im starting to doubt my love thinking, what if i dont love him? Is this a fear and how do I stop this fear down? Before this, I was SO HAPPY and still am but now when i meet him ...

Why is it men run when things get serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Hi. need some someones perspective on this please. i'm left feeling very down and confused. Why is it that men run when things get serious? and this guy is 40! I been online dating for a while now as i don't get much time to myself and my friends ...

Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - My wife has sold her engagement ring and has left the state, she even had a change of address 3 weeks ago, then, this week I filed for divorce. Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce? ...

I'm in a relationship, but I think its failing...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

20 June 2008 (M) - For the last 4 months I have been in a relationship however in the last 2months my girlfriend (And best friend) has been "Off" with me, certain things have been buging me, for example she says things like "I hate love" and "I don't trust anyone" ...

How can I make an honest effort in saving my long-term relationship without telling him the fact that I was seeing someone else behind his back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with the fact that I had an affair and whether to fess up to my man or not. I was a total slut; I was seeing another guy for 8 months so no, it wasn´t a brief fling or one drunken mistake, I was completely sober and ...

I love him but I don't know what to do!! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriends for 4 years now like every relationship we have had up and downs we have gotten into fight where he tells me he donest wnat to be with me and all this crap but then things get better and we get over it. i know how he ...

Why would he change so quickly?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - ok sorry for the long message but this guy confusing me and it best if i explain what we did for dates then u can see why he suddenly gone off me day1 meet in town walked around went to his watched film had sex (weak moment from me)then he walke...

Was this long distance relationship a fantasy and a farce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - I am gutted as my long ditance g\f broke with me but friends say it was a farce. What do you guys think? * In jan 2007 I had 10 days with a girl in NZ, full of passion and affection. I am from UK * Between Jan 07 and April 07 we email and ph...

Meeting this guy just reminded me of how good I could feel. I really miss feeling loved.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a month. He is depressed a lot and isn't at all affectionate (sp?), but I love being all cuddly and kissy. Sometimes I will ask him to kiss me and he says "no" or he "feels like i'm forcing ...

Lately me and my husband argue constantly, I want to save my marriage but don't know where to begin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married 7 yrs this yr with 1 child from my 1st marraige whos 11, and one from our marriage who's 6, just lately i don't know what's happened, we seem to argue constantly, we sit on opposite sides of the room, we spend no ...