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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, i really liked him for ages before we actually started going out...but he sort of messed with my head - saying he liked me then going out with other girls etc, he really hurt me!However, we finally got together and ever since he has been perfect, he is such a gentleman and i know he loves me from the bottom of his heart, he has never pressured me into having sex which i really respect him for...plus he is extremely good looking which of course is a bonus.The first year of our relationship was amazing, we have so many memories together, but recently i have become confused! It now seems that the slightest things he does annoy me and i tend to go in moods with him more easily, i can't help it! I have now started having feelings for another person, i feel quite bad but i cannot help how i feel. I don't want to make any rash decisions and end up regretting dumping him, likewise i don't want to be used by this other guy! Some days i wake up feeling like i need to split up with him and others i have my doubts. Is it normal to feel like you don't want to finish a long-term relationship even if u believe in aspects it is the right thing to do?I seriously need some guidance, any opinions will be great! Thanks x
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Perhaps the best thing to do would be to talk to him about this. Not saying you think you like other guys, of course. That wouldnt help. Just ask him (carefully) how he thinks you two are doing etc. and if it turns out he's in a similar position, maybe it is time to end the relationship. If you are worried about regretting things, make sure you can easily start up again if you both want to: maybe you just need a break from one another.
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (24 June 2008):
Perhaps the best thing to do would be to talk to him about this. Not saying you think you like other guys, of course. That wouldnt help. Just ask him (carefully) how he thinks you two are doing etc. and if it turns out he's in a similar position, maybe it is time to end the relationship. If you are worried about regretting things, make sure you can easily start up again if you both want to: maybe you just need a break from one another.
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