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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Do you think I should drive to his home and confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years (2 hours distance). I'm forty years of age but have never adored a man as much as this guy, who was 8 years younger. For me it was a wonderful relationship and felt as though I would've spent the rest of my ...

I told him I wanted to to be more assertive and say NO to sex with just anyone. Yet he took advantage when I got drunk! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Im 17, im pretty and have a nice figure however i am very insecure about myself.. i cant go out with out makeup and take so long to get ready in the mornings... ive slept with 5 people between now and last June and i no this is too many, and i ...

I moved overseas w/ my bf of several months - he just broke up w/ me and said we can live together as friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in September and we hit it of immediately. He was then offered a dream role overseas so he left to pursue it 6 weeks later. In December I moved over to be with him and we moved in straight together - yes far too soon but we ...

After two years together I just don't feel the same way. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - well me and my gf have been living together for 2 years no im 20 and shes 18 we live in my mums house. the problem is she loves me more than any thing but i just dont feel the same way wot should i do??...

I got treated bad by him and now I cry almost everyday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I need help Im a teenager and almost eveyday i cry and get upset about someone who i really like who ive done things with in the past he says he likes me on the day but he just f*cks me off the next day and hes admitted he has used me. Were really ...

How do I really know that I made the right decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone - your help is needed! I split up with my partner of 4 years over two months ago now. I had been feeling confused over my feelings for him for a good few months before finally ending things. I think I have changed over time and don't ...

Not sure if he's the one I want..however, a new guy looks interesting! Should I go on a 'break'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, and things have been great. but recently they have faded pretty badly. I know i love him and i want to be with him but i think things are going to burn out. There is another guy i know ...

He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...

I am vegetarian and my boyfriend told me he has a job... CHICKEN CATCHING!!!! I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Even though my boyfriend knows that I am a vegetarian for animal welfare reasons, he has accepted a job offer and gone tonight chicken catching in a chicken factory. I was appalled at his decision and asked him not to go (It is a cash job for one ...

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...

Her guilt is eating me alive but I DON'T want to get back with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hello! I asked a question a while back: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-22-lesbian-and-in-a-relationship-with.html Anyway. Here's a followup, and a new problem. I managed to leave my girlfriend, but now she won't stop calling me and sending m...

My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...

My wife says she loves me like a brother and it's tearing me apart.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - What is wrong with my wife? I love my wife very much. I love her as a person and adore her physically. I am very warm and affectionate to her. However, I do not feel that physical bond towards me. She says she loves me but so does more so like a b...

How can I get my wife to feel more sexually attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this?...

Is there anything anyone can advise doing to get the spark back into our relationship and make us become closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - ive been dating my boyfrend over a year now, and at first everyhing was fine. we got on well, the sex was great and we always had a laugh. we were so close, with each other all of the time and seemed to trust each other loads. now everything has ...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I? From these questions i have received many hel...

Do we have a chance at getting back together? I really thought he was the love of my life and I don't want to let go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I can send you the whole story if it will help to give better advice. This past week my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up w/ me. He said he was bored although I had no indication anything was wrong. I was never given any info about how he was feeling and ...

What are the signs of falling out of love with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - HI i am in a bit of a dilema. My husband and i have been married for 2 yrs and 3mths, but we've known each other for 4yrs. I am not happy any more. My husband and I want different things in life! I am 23 and he is 32 he wants kids, and i dont (not ...

I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months. She takes her mum for granted a lot and she constantly asks her to buy her presents. She asks me what I have gotten her for her birthdays and christmas before...

I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

27 May 2007 (?) - I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance. For those of you interested there are a few background posts on the OW thread. But the issue right now is that I am fed up with overlooking everything he does. I'm tired of pretend...

Now that he finally likes me back..I'm not sure if I like him anymore! any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - i love this guy more than life, i even did a spell to keep him when i lost him to my best friend. i no right pathetic! but it seems to have worked now this guy really likes me and is asking me back out. But now im not sure if i still love him! ...

Scared to break it off... I know she loves me but she never, ever shows it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - I am with my first girlfriend ever in my life. I am 20 and she is 18. Every other weekend we see each other, (because we don't drive), she doesn't french me anymore, and we don't even make out anymore. She spends most of her time on my computer ...

We spend time 24/7 together for 8 months... now he wants space but not sure I can do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi there My boyfriend and i have hit a rough patch, we used to spend 7 days a week together for the last 8 months until it started to cause problems like when he wanted to go out with out me i presumed it was because he didnt want me around anymor...

I'm scared that I get bored with my romantic partners way too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I have this terrible fear that I may be the type of person who gets bored with my romantic partners too easily, but I don't know what to do to change my behavior. I got bored with my husband very early in the marriage and had a string of affairs. ...

My husband says he's "b urnt out" after our 11 year relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My husband says he is burnt out on our 11 year relationship, i dont want to just throw it all away..am I only dreaming that this will work out?...

Just got back from Iraq but my girlfriend has gone very cold on me... is it a phase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - I guess I have a fairly complex question. I suppose thats due to the complex situation :P. Basically I've been in and out of a relationship with this girl for almost 3 years now. I just did a tour in iraq, came back, and we got togather again. But ...

I've been cheating on my boyfriend... what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i am not in love with my boy friend anymore and have been seeing someone else behind his back what should i do ...

I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him. He can be a really sweet guy, but he can also be a jerk. He has money problems, but he is really ...

I feel he's going off me, should I say anything to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Is this normal Have been seeing my bf nearly a year Started off long distance so always made most of every sec together now he lives closer coz of work and he dont seem as pleased to see me I worry hes going off me i feel low about this I know hes ...

What can I do to help get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hi i am in love trouble i like this boy in my class and we had flirted for a few months but for the past few weeks he just ignors me it is really upseting and i think he is after this girl who i really hate they went out months back and she doesnt ...

A month ago, he found out from others that I like him.He hasn't made any move so am I wasting my time ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, A little while back, I wrote to you asking for advice on my newest crush, Ethan. Well, now, there's kind of a new problem involving him. I might just be flipping out over nothing, but this is something that's really got me pretty wo...

My partner of 6 years had a fling in november, and after 5 weeks of me not knowing if he was staying or going, decided that he would make a go of it and would help alleviate my insecure feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - I am writing again as helps to read others thoughts - so i hope you don't mind. My partner of 6 years had a fling in november, and after 5 weeks of me not knowing if he was staying or going, decided that he would make a go of it and would help a...

I found out that my old college love is engaged and I am heartsick! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6395 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - I spent my Junior and most of my senior years of college dating a guy who I was going to spend the rest of my life with. My last year of school was stressful and my guy is 5yrs older than I so he was at a very different point of his life, which was ...

I'm missing the passion that I don't feel with my current boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6397 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - hello, I need some advice please, i was with my ex for 18 months the relationship was hard work to say the least, but now im with a new partner we have been together for 4 months early days i know, but i find it too boring even, i hate to say that ...

She says she loves me but feels that there is "something more" out there... How can this marriage be saved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

16 May 2007 (M) - I have been married for 6 years and I love my wife. She told me that she loves me and I am her best friend, but says she feels like there is something more out there. I always felt we had a good, stable, and honest marriage, but she asked me for a ...

We've been married 19 years but my wife goes to clubs to meet single men!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

16 May 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for about 19 years. She's 39 and I'm 44. For the past 6 months she's been hanging out with her recently divorced cousin (female - 44) and they have been going to nightclubs for the past 6 months about 2-3 times/we...

I'm 22, lesbian and in a relationship with no intimacy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

16 May 2007 (F) - Hello, people who may be able to help me. Here is where I am going to whine about my problem: Okay, so, I'm twenty-two, lesbian, and have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. At the beginning we had our ups and downs, as in all relations...

My partner wants me to move out to give us "space"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - Hi I have just looked back at all my questions on this site and they are painting a bit of a picture. It is all what he wants ie My partner wants me to move out to give us "space" but I don't want to go as he says he can't stand being around...

How can I get her to want me again, sexually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

15 May 2007 (M) - is she making a fool out of me? why wont she cater to me anymore? i cater to her now and i spoil her, but i cant even get any sexual attention from her. she wont even make out with me anymore. she used to love sex, she used to be almost as horny as ...

How do I get over someone I am in love with when I know that he obviously doesn't feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - How do I get over someone I am in love with when I know that he obviously doesn't feel the same. We have a kid together but we have been broken up since before he was born. I've been in lo with him for all of my adult life (9 yrs.). I'm tired of ...

I love him but he keeps letting his gf make a fool out of him. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - I have two friends, I'll call them Jack and Sarah. We're best friends and its always just been us three since we started high school. This year they started dating in January. Jack was completely in love with Sarah but Sarah never really liked him. ...

He said he can't make love to me if his heart isn't in it. Where do I go from here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - ive been living with my partner for 30 years over the past 5 years our sex life has gone downhill. we have tried talking about it but we go round in circles. my libido is higher than his and more sex would be nice but for some time he has not wanted ...

Are these warning signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - Are these warning signs? After two years of being a couple, my boyfriend still doesn't remember my birthday; doesn't notice if I get my hair done (and I'm talking blonde highlights on otherwise dark brown hair) I've had my hair cut, highlighted, ...

What do I do here... stick with my boyfriend or give this other guy a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - Hi there! Hopefully you guys can help me. My question is: What do I do? My problem: I have a boyfriend whom I like a lot, possily even really love. He and I have been going out for a year and a few months, much longer than any of my other frie...

I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya ...

I've been thinking of moving in to my own flat and leaving my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am very fond of my boyfriend and care for him a lot. We have been living together 3 yrs and my feelings for him have always been the same. I have been on my own for most of my adult life and am ok being single. I am a loner and enjoy my own ...

He keeps making excuses that he can't see me. Does he really like me or is it all an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6403 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am going out with this boy who I really like !! But Sometimes I get the impression he doesnt like me that much :( because he uses a lot of excuses that he cant come and see me, like for example he sent a text saying " Ive been feeling really i...

Who should I choose, my husband or my mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Recently I found out that my husband of twelve years has had an affair with my brother's wife for just over a year. My brother and i were devastated by the news and trying to work through our marriages. Problem is that only a couple of days ago ...

Is this relationship worth wasting any more of my time on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Hi im a 23 year old female. I have been with my bf for 4 years now and we have a 5 month old baby. im really unhappy in this relationship and have been for some time.he is 11 years older than me and has a long past some of the more explicit de...

I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all sorts which is making me miserable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6403 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - basically me and this guy were friends then i went to another frends house who happens to be his brother and we started pleasuring each other and we were gonna have sex but I bottled it. I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all ...