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writes:HiI have just looked back at all my questions on this site and they are painting a bit of a picture.It is all what he wants ie My partner wants me to move out to give us "space" but I don't want to go as he says he can't stand being around me and i am dragging him into a dark place he doesn't want to be in...he says i am a depressive and am always negative.OK - the reason I am is becuase for months now, he has secretly texted other people (the ones i found out about have been women - one who he had a "fling with" and the other his young apprentice.The reason I have rung him is becuase he can text other people when he is with me but wont ring or text me - so that's another reason he says he doesnt want to be with me, because I ring him when he is away (Stalk him).Well, I don't want to be with him now and even if he came in tomorrow and asked me to try again, I wouldn't, because I couldn't bare to go through this again and all the blame according to him is my fault.He is also messing around with my head by saying he loves me and always will, but can't stand being with me and he doesn't want my daughters in HIS house and will make their life a misery, by being nasty to them...and I should protect them and move out...BTW today I found out the house is OURS not HIS.and I dont have to go anywhere.Not sure if I can put up with the constant demanding for me to move out, and threats towards my children (which may amount to nothing) but don't want to make it easy for him and let him think he calls all the shots
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reader, kmc  +, writes (14 June 2008):
I have a qfew questions for you. Does he yell at you when you try to talk things over in a rationale manner. Does he belittle you and tell you he loves you but treats you different? Has he caused you to be depressed because he stopped showing you affection and started ignoring you but denies it? Does he give you mixed signals\? Do you feel like you are losing your mind because oof it ?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Again, I must agree with Penta 100%.
Nothing to add.
-FBK
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reader, penta +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Contact a lawyer. Make sure the lawyer knows he's threatened your children. Take the lawyer's advice.
You have a right to half the house, and a right to make sure your children are secure. You're fighting on behalf of your children now; do not let this loser take what belongs to them.
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reader, Nasty Ashman +, writes (16 May 2007):
If it was just the two of you then I would say: "If he has a problem, let HIM move out."
BUT you have children and you've said he's threatened them. Regardless whether or not the threats a empty, I think you'll have to bite the bullet and move out with your children and let the police know that he's threatened them.
Once the safety of your children is sorted and secured then you can worry about who has more rights over the house. No doubt you'll be able to do something if your name is on the legal ownership.
First things first. PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN!!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 May 2007):
 If the house belongs to both of you then you are entitled to half of it. Tell him you have nowhere to go and want to put the house up for sale. If he refuses then tell him you want him to buy you out. If he still refuses then go to a lawyer where you may be able to force a sale! The lawyer will be a great help to you and will be able to tell you exactly what rights you have. Don't give in to him, fight for what is yours! And of course if he ever touches any of your kids then you have him charged immediately!
Eve
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