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*omana
writes:should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya i know i should break up but the thing is i'm scared that i may one day regret my actions ,because before all what happened we used to have a really nice relationship.... Reply to this Question
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reader, jomana +, writes (12 May 2007):
jomana is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to all of you for the advices , seems like you all come to the same conclusion. right now , we're not on a break but he's in a diffrent city so we aren't seeing each other but we still talk so i'll see how it goes , and the only thing that i'm sure of is that i still have feelings for him so i really need the time before taking any actions.
really thanks
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 HI Well after what you have told us, it seems better for you if you broke up with him. After all you seem to have a bad relationship with him. Although you tell us that youve had a good realtionship together im sorry to say that people change, relationships change sometimes for the better sometimes for the worse. My advice to you is to find someone who you actually can trust and you are compatable with. Of course you will regret it, you wouldnt be human if you didnt. However relationships come and go and you will have loads of other regrets because thats life for you. If you truelly belive that you have made the right decision wether you do or dont break up, you should be happygood luck x
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (12 May 2007):
 huni the fact that your doubting your relationship with him and have so many reasons to split with him tells me that you know deep down wat to do.If its not a good relaionship then why hold on to it only because you are worried that you might regret it one day??everyone has those people they wonder if it was right to split with but then youll find the guy you know you shud be with and be glad that you got out of that relationshipgud luck huni xxxx
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reader, love-him +, writes (12 May 2007):
 i think your relationship is going through a 'rouch patch' where you say, you fight a lot, if you mean arguments, then all relationships have arguments, some more than others. i do understand how you are feeling, and i think maybe you should break things off for a bit or maybe go on a 'break'? to see what life is when he isnt around. because if you find that life is better and easier when he isnt around, then maybe you are better without him. Hope i helped x x x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
You know you should break up with him, so do it. I think you will regret it more if you DON'T end things. This relationship doesn't sound like it's going anywhere positive and I think you can find someone else you're much more happy and compatible with. You might regret breaking up with him for a little while, but that's only normal and that will happen with anybody.
Don't doubt yourself and do what's best for you, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 May 2007):
 There will always be regrets whether you break up on good or bad terms with someone. Life will be rubbish for a little while after breakig up and it will make you wonder whether you did the right thing, but if you know in your heart of hearts that you have done whats right for both of you then the regrets will be easy to deal with.
CD
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