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*iciousdave
writes:I am with my first girlfriend ever in my life. I am 20 and she is 18. Every other weekend we see each other, (because we don't drive), she doesn't french me anymore, and we don't even make out anymore. She spends most of her time on my computer and not touching me or paying any attention to me. Do I brake it off or what else? This is my first girlfriend, I'm extremely scared to break it off, I love her and she loves me too, but she doesn't show it like I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, viciousdave +, writes (26 May 2007):
viciousdave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. Things are much better now, I talked to her and we just need to be more open, and we definetly more open now. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007): it sounds like this girl could be just getting bored of your relationship. maybe you should try something different instead of staying at your house, take her out for a walk or take her to do something that will rekindle your love! If push comes to shove, ask her if shes sure she still loves you, this will b the best way to deal with it. If she says yes then the problem is sorted if not then, your going to have to do the obvious brake it off. Nobody wants a relationship without love especially as its your first. If she trusts you she will open up and talk about it
gd luck
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reader, DontFlirtWithSuicide  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 unplug ur computer tell her its "broken" sit down and talk or when you meet dont go back to your place go somewere fun were she will enjoy and see what happens then just ask her if she still loves you if she says yes ask why you dont kiss anymore
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reader, nologo  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 This sounds like your girlfriend is using you.
She is with you only because she needs a comp.
Another explanation in this case would be hardly possible.
"She spends most of her time on my computer and not touching me or paying any attention to me"
You can take her out and pay more attention to her, but if she doesn't reciprocate - it's the end.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (26 May 2007):
 It sounds like she's using you to talk to someone else on your computer. Break it off.
DV1
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