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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I moved with my family in Turkey to be near my bf. He has proposed to me but the fact he at times ignores me for days is confusing to the point I'd travel back to UK. Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Ok before I even start I know I am stupid for putting myself in this situation but I dont know where to turn or what to do. I have been with my turksih bf for over a year. we are living apart however i moved to turkey just over 3 months ago with ...

If I feel that there's nothing between us on my side any longer, how can we carry on? Has the relationship reached the end of the line? How should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I really don't think I want to remain with my partner. We don't live together or anything and after splitting up earlier this year, we got back together in September. He was the one that kept contacting me to see if we could try and sort the rel...

My husband left me telling me he is not in love anymore, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - My husband left me three weeks ago and has told me he is not in love with me anymore, what can i do??...

Am I silly still liking him after what's happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I started working in this bar from July time to end of October and I'd always liked the manager that worked there. I knew he had a girlfriend and always did but he's like the only person I could think about. About the beginning of October I finshed ...

Should I fight or give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Been in and out of this relationship for 19 years. He was my first love as well as I was his. We have a 17 year old together. 2 years ago he finally proposed and we have been scheduled to be married Feb 2008. I have been there with him through drug ...

No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...

She won't have any further contact with me after six years. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years just left me 5 weeks ago. She was with me all the time right after work and weekends. She seemed fine and same as normal. On saturday night she came over then went to baby sit like she always did now and again. I spoke to ...

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

How can I stop him blackmailing me, as I am becoming scared?? We've had a turbulent relationship so far, now live together as lodges.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I have been in my current relationship for 6 years, living together for 3 of those. We have had a turbulent relationship to say the least, it has been a 'can't live with or without you' type. We decided last xmas to split, however, we have been...

My wife's sister is giving me wibes she wants me to initiate something, and since I'm in love with her and not my wife I would really like to, so why do I keep blowing my opportunities every time I get the chance??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - i am an unhappily married man wanting very badly to have an affair with my wife's sister...but i keep blowing the opportunites that i am getting. i am feeling very regretful and angry. i know she wants me to initiate somthing, but every time i get ...

What do I do about growing apart? Should I move on or work at what we have left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I am 22 years old and have been with my bf for over 5 years, we have been living together for over 3 years. Everything has been amazing, but we have just grown apart. We have totally different interests in life right now, I have changed (grown as...

I love my husband but there are lies and unreciprocation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - My husband of 3 years tells lies. I work and travel alot and I discovered that when I am out of town he watches porn. I found hookup sites that he forgot to clear and approached him, he denied. then his hotmail password was changed-well it all ...

Following my attempt to discuss his having distanced, my lover told me he is "mad" at everything. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - AGh my lover is ignoring me sexually but still talks to me in a friendly way! It's been 6 weeks! we see each other everyday at work but no longer seems interested in me. Attempts at discussing his distance was futile he said he was just "mad" at ...

My live-in gf only enjoys masturbating together but gets defensive over intercourse. Haven't had sex in yrs, I'm tempted to accept my colleague's sexual insinuations?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - I haven't had sex with my girl since 2003. We live together. We were from a long distance relationship. I love her. I cook for her. I make her feel good. But everytime I try and engage with her intimately, she brushes me off. Then less than...

I have just moved in together with my long distance partner, and paradoxically we're still distant. How do I bridge this distance? Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met a man and we had a long distance relationship for over five years while we settled our divorces and children's issues. We have just now both relocated to a new state and moved in together. He is adjusting to his new job and I have been setting ...

I have started to develop feelings for my boyfriend's best friend. Do I act upon them? Is it a crush? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Recently, for the last past weeks I have started to develop feelings for my boyfriend's best friend. I do not know if it is a crush or not. I like his confidence, his style, and maturity. All these that is not in the eye of my boyfriend. What ...

Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I hava a boyfriend who has a short temper who I luv very much little confused, an incident occured yesterday where he got so pissed off because he wanted my son who is 13 to help him with some bags. I told him that I would take care of it and then ...

I got sexy underwear and my partner (62) told me I looked like a prostitute. We haven't had sex in years and we plan to get married. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - My partner is not interested in sex. We have been together 4 years. At first things were Ok but got worse and worse.I tried to pep things up and got some sexy, tasteful underwear, but he told me I looked like a prostitute. We have had sex about 3 ...

I don't want to be with him anymore, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - How do I tell my partner that I no longer want us to be together? My partner and I had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split up in February. He then kept texting me and desperately wanted to give our relationship another go. ...

I am a married woman falling in love with my lover, what should my next move be?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - i have been married for 12 years there has been nothing between my husband and i for about 2 years and I have been having an affair for the past 12 months with a man who is also in a relationship. Iam falling in love with my lover and think he has ...

I still have feelings for my first love, and I've heard she has feelings for me too, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 December 2007 (M) - hey i been thinkin alot recently and its about an old girlfriend of mine that i broke up with bout a year ago now n she has a new boyfriend now but i hav heard from my best mate.. hu is also her best mate that she still has strong feelings for me n ...

My ex wants me back but his feelings are bigger than mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - Latley ive been confused.. i just started getting regrets with my last relationship. he texted me a few weeks ago saying that it has been an amazing 5 months that we have been going out and that we should do something to celebrate.. this really ...

My ex says he wants to be friends but ignores me...Should I just forget him and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up but we still talk and go out together. He moved into a new apartment and had a party. He didn't want me to go. Then on his birthday he made plans to do things and I wasn't included. He asked me to understand but I can't. ...

He says he loves me, but?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - Well my boyfriend and I use to be tight and everything but lately it seems I can't do anything right....it all started out when my ex came back and told me to chose between him or my boyfriend and so I picked my boyfriend and when I told him he ...

How can I make my husband interested in me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - How can I make my husband interested in me again? Ever since fell pregnant with my 3 year old daughter my husband has never come near me. We havent had even so much as a quick cuddle in bed since she was born. I am becoming frustrated and ...

Our relationship was fine to start with, but we've recently started arguing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

14 December 2007 (M) - First off, I'd like to say that this is a wonderfull site, I have read alot off of it, and have learnt much. I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 16 years old (we are 4 months apart in age) Both are juniors in highschool. We have been dating for ...

Should I wait for my bf to say is over before I take any step with the new guy? (I love my current bf but he is harsh and uncommunicative)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - hi,i've been going out with my guy for almost a year,it seems he doesn't care about me anymore. He doesn't call but when i call him, he talks to me in a harsh tone. i've now meet a new guy who has an interest me and wants to introduce me to his pare...

Is it wrong to be with a guy you get along with perfectly but he does not pay attention to your sexual needs so you obtain the pleasure elsewhere to balance your life??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - I am just about to cheat on my boyfriend of one year because of the lack of sex and affection from him. I am so disappointed as he is just such a nice guy and I love him so much and in any other ways he is perfect and I do not have any problems with ...

My life was great until I met him...and fell in love! Now that he's gone-I can't get back to my old life! Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - I'm a single woman, mid fifties, - I look after myself, make the most of myself and am confident I look good. I have a great job which I enjoy, grown up children who I have a great relationship with, and a circle of good, close friends. So, what's ...

She's talking like we are back but she acts different. What is going on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - Hey, Well my girl had broke up with me a few weeks ago, but I wrote her a heartfelt letter and drove 60 miles and put a tiny christmas tree on her car. She called back real happy the next day and the following day we went out to dinner and she said...

We broke up a month ago, but I still really love him. Should I forget he ever existed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - Hi There, My ex dumped me after two years a month ago. He said he just didn't feel the same even though I was due to move in with him (he asked me) and we had been going to family dinners etc, a couple of weeks before he was suggesting routes for ...

I have fallen for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I'm 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. After spending the last year working away, and hardly ever seeing him we moved in together in July. I thought things were ok until I started having feelings for a work collegue. It was just a c...

I have moved out of our house, but I really want to break up completely. How can I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm 40. I have been in a relationship for about 8 years. There has been allot of water under the bridge. About 5 years ago, we got engaged and bought a house together. She suffers from chronic depression(even before I met her) and it was very...

3 yrs of dating, and suddenly he hangs up the phone on me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years, but here's the problem. He went to his country which is Haiti, we talked a couple of times over the phone, but all of a sudden after Thanksgiving I have never been able to speak with him again. When I ...

We're both confused - what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year totally just dropped off the face of the earth, he does not return any of my phone calls or texts. He has depression issues where he has done this for a few days or so, this is the longest i am really worried or has he ...

I am not sure how I feel for my wife, she loves me and we have a young daughter together, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6190 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - im not sure how i feel for my wife now.i don't want to hurt her,but at the same time i had feeling for someone else.we had been married for 7 years and had 5yrs old daudhter.my wife love me a lot and she did't want this marriage to end.what should i ...

What is my next step after she said she needed a pause? Could it be because she's unemployed, living with parents, confused about her goals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - I have been in a relationship for over a year now. I love her and she says she loves me and I believe her. Our biggest problem is she keeps going with her friend on these work trips she gets. It keeps her away from me alot. Evertime she does this I ...

How can I get the "NEW LOVE" feelings back?

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8 December 2007 (F) - My husband seems uninterrested in me...I've tried the love notes,cookin' his fav.meal,showering w/him,going on dates...etc. How can I get the "NEW LOVE" feelings back? ...

Talk more about our problem or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6192 days ago

7 December 2007 (F) - Hello, I came from a family where you have to respect someone who respect you. I'm a very nice person and seems like everyone around me in general, just doesn't know me the way I want them to. My boyfriend and I though we had something there for ...

He doesn't ever want sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

7 December 2007 (F) - I could really use advice. My boyfriend of seven months went out to sea this summer for two months. I met him in a port and he proposed. I happily accepted. Since he returned from sailing things have gotten bad. We have fun hanging out with each ...

I think she has feelings for me....but shes doing everything she can to kill them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6193 days ago

7 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2,5 years. I am 31 and she is 26. We had a great relationship until the past 6 months when she quit her job and started thinking what to do with her life. At the same time I was working really long hour...

My ex, my new love... I love things about both of them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm confused.... I'm not sure whether to listen to my head or my heart. I am 29 years old and met my first love when I was 16. We went out for 3 yrs until I was 19. They we broke up and got back together when I was 22, we went ...

Should I give up on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - Right, so I thought everything was going really really well with this guy, I let my guard down and I fell in love with him. I felt that he felt the same way about me too, he used to say things like that all the time. But recently, he has been ...

My bf and I are drifting apart - how can I stop this from going too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6195 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to be drifting apart. We're young-18, but I love him more than anything. Things just seem to be getting in the way of us lately- I know he's not cheating or anything, thats not what I'm worried about. What do you think I can ...

6 years together, and now he says he doesn't feel for me anymore. I'm so confused, can you help?

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5 December 2007 (F) - The man that i have been with for 6 years tells me he does'nt feel the same way about me anymore that he does'nt love me that way, we have a 4 yr old son together and i cant understand why he feels that way, he cant tell me why he feels that way and ...

I want to go out and have fun...but he always wants to stay in....I feel like we've grown apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've bin with my boyfriend for over a year now but i think i dont love him anymore. We have grown apart, i what to go out and have fun but he wants to stay in and watch tv. I do enjoy a night in but not all the time and when i do want to go out i...

My partner with whom I've been living for 15 yrs has asked me to leave his house (but I will not.) Does he truly love the other woman? What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 15 years and have lived with him for all this time. My partner has had several affairs over the last 12 years, these have always happened at time when we have been under severe pressure from other areas whether it...

Me and my bf live together and are suffering a relationship crisis (not talking). We've always had a volatile connection, lately worsening.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am in an awful state at the moment. i am living with my boyfirend for the last few months and in the last few weeks we keep fighting with each other, and now at the moment we're not talking to each other. I don't know how to sort these ...

My bf is still communicating with his ex, and is upset about my spying. I've also heard he's been married once, which he denies. Do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My fiance has been hiding his cell phone from me but picks mine and reads my messages frequently. I recently read messages from his cell phone and realised that he was stil communicating with his ex girlfriend who is already married. This really ...

What do I do if he left without explanations, even if he promised he would not?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - what should i do if someone whom i love dearly, just left me with out even saying goodbye, i just do not know where he is, no calls, no messages, nothing. i was left all alone and seems he doesnt care anymore and it hurts me that much. i love him so ...