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age
41-50,
*raveler76
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for 2,5 years.I am 31 and she is 26.We had a great relationship until the past 6 months when she quit her job and started thinking what to do with her life. At the same time I was working really long hours and became very stressed out, sometimes I started arguments for no reason.One day after she come back from a ten days trip with her family, I went to pick her up for dinner and she told me we had to break up.After that we spoke on the phone few times and explain her the situation. Things between us can be easily worked out but she believes that I can not change and that she is tried of trying.We were supposed to see each other next tuesday, we spoke on the phone yesterday and she seemed happy to talk. Ten minutes after she called me back and told me that she was not ready to see me, that it was too soon and needed more time. I think that she has feelings for me but she is doing everything possible to kill them.What should I do? Let her go? If she still have feeling for me, why she wants to move on without giving a chance?She is the love of my life, I don't want to loose her.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (7 December 2007):
 sometimes i need a minute to like...articulate to myself what my issues are in a situation, rather than just going off gut feeling. respect her wishes and it may still work out.
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