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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

If I make him feel better why did he inbox his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Is my boyfriend being genuine about his feelings? The other day, my boyfriend was a little sick, not dying sick, but sick. I went to the hospital with him and he made a post on Facebook posting a picture of his hospital band and captioned it say...

My family want me to continue dating this really nice guy but I feel no attraction towards him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

28 April 2018 (F) - I'm dating the most amazing, nice guy but I don't feel any physical attraction towards him. I'm confused because I haven't met someone so nice in a long time. I don't want to miss out..but then I don't want to settle. What do I do? I feel pressure ...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Is my time to get pregnat running out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - Can I have children later on in life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 this year and I have no boyfriend and no prospects. I believe I would like to have children but I always fear time is running out. Honestly I HAVE tried everything in the dating ...

What is something special I can do for my gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - I love my gf, things are great for the most part. Im not good with remembering anniversaries, birthdays and dates as such, nor am I the romantic type; so I choose to rather to show it everyday, or most days. She has said in the past "I am the best ...

My best friend tried to kiss my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - Hey guys. Last night my best friend (of like 8 years) tried to kiss my fiance (of 10 years). We were all out drinking, but I had left early because i was feeling gross. I had no trust issues leaving them. They didn't know i was there, as i had ...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I gave up or wait more time to approach my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - I broke up with my boyfriend one month ago, the reason of the break up was an accumulation of many reasons and things he did. He is 25 and I am 35 years, we had up and down relationship , with great moments and bad moments. I give him a lot, I r...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

26 April 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

Partner's dad flirting with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - I've been with my partner for 4 years. I have noticed in the past few months that his dad may be 'flirting' with me. We get on pretty well and I find it easier to chat with him than his wife. We tend to laugh and make jokes. Sometimes, I notice him ...

I cant get the "cloud 9" feeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2376 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - hello dear aunts! Don't want to go too long or detailed about this. I'm going to cut it short. I 'm seeing someone who is great. He is known to be an honest and decent guy. I've known him as a friend for a long time but we started seeing e...

He earns three times more but wants to split the bills 50/50

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - my boyfriend has recently asked me to move in with him. we had a conversation about our finances and his expectation of what i should contribute to the household expenses. He wants to split everything 50/50. We got into an argument over this because ...

Boyfriend upsets me then gets mad at me and ignores me instead of making it better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a LDR for a year and 2 months. It started out slow but now we have spoken about marriage, a child and me moving to his town. Trouble is - in 2 is our most recent fights - he did something to upset me, I got upset, and then...

Why the mixed signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - Me and this guy have been casually seeing each other for a year; he would come over from nights out etc and we would just cuddle and kiss and act romantic even though we were not together. We got close in the sense that he started to trust me and we ...

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could ...

Why does this woman I barely know keep texting me to vent ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I’m a single and quieter living gay woman. I’m pale and average looking but feminine and not manly. Not looking for manly women. I’m on an app for Gay and bi women. Like all apps there’s players and catfishers Straight women playing games...

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to ...

I think I am having a mid life crisis ... or something.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I think I'm having a mid life crisis or something. I'm 30, cohabiting with my long term boyfriend (nearly 6 years). Just about to move into our first house purchased together. I hate my job. I'm on medication for depression and anxiety (the latter ...

I want out of this relationship with a married man but he is making it difficult.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - In September I moved to a new area for work, shortly after I started my job i had a coworker that started flirting with me. He is really cute and sweet only problem is he is married. He like me moved to the area for work, his family is actually four ...

My boyfriend said he liked my skinnier self and now I'm very hurt.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I need help. Just had a big fight with my boyfriend of 5 years. We are in a hotel room travelling to Memphis and we were enjoying a week long road trip. I've put on some weight since we met. But then so has he. He had once told me he would...

I'm tired of being the other woman but love him too much to let go.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I have been seeing A married guy for nearly 8 months. He spending every free moment with me we do things we go away sometimes, we talk on the phone multiple times a day every single day. He has been great fI me, He’s caring, attentive, Generous ...

He canceled our second date and hasn’t rescheduled! Should I ask him why or just forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - Two weeks ago I met a guy and we had a great date, he asked for a second date while we were still out so we made plans to meet up the following week. The day of our second date he cancelled because he had a cold so I didn't think anything of that, I ...

What is going on with me? How do I end this weird relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - I don’t understand what happened. I am in my 30s, I fell in love once when I was a teen 14 yeas old. It was so intense and somewhat had a feel of overwhelmingness and it didn’t end up too well even though we had a crazy run of about 5 years tog...

Every relationship ends the same way ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel ...

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going ...

Why doesn't my heart race when I kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

21 April 2018 (F) - So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have dated 3 guys (and have kissed all of the ) and the guy I am with at the moment is my first love, we have kissed many times but my heart doesn't race like his does. The first guy I dated took my first kiss, and I ...

Shall I just go along with this as it is and see where it goes, or ask now what he's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2413 days ago

20 April 2018 (M) - Hey, so I'm 24 but pretty new to dating in general - I came out of a long-term relationship with my (thus far only) boyfriend back in September last year and only recently felt ready to start dating. In any case, I've been seeing some for the las...

I'm wondering how some females can manage not being jealous and I'm wondering how some guys don't see how this affects their partners?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

20 April 2018 (F) - I'm single, so this isn't something I'm writing out of emotion, but something I have pondered in the past. I came across a lot of articles online lately about what guys like and dislike in relationships and it seems as though a lot of guys mentioned ...

He phased me out but got angry when I moved on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hey :-) im sorry that this is such a long one guys. About 6 months ago I started casually dating this guy who I had known for a while. It started because he pursued and chased me and I started to like him back. He told me how he thought of me 24...

We're both single now and he's invited me on an adventure... is he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - I can't believe I'm 30 years old and asking this question, but my social skills are not the greatest so here goes. Tl;dr "does he like me?" A few years ago I met this guy in passing at an event I basically strayed into while out walking around. ...

He said he loved me but then he dumped me out of the blue! Do I just walk away and forget it all?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hi Everyone I have a really big dilemma and don’t know what to do. Long story short. I was seeing this guy for a little over 2 months. Things were going amazing, we got along well, we wanted the same things out of life, we had many of the same ...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

What can I do to make my Facebook account more respectable so that my boyfriend doesn't take things the wrong way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hello. After a few years of being single minus one short relationship last year, I've found someone I want to get serious with. We've been dating a few months now and I've put a lot of thought into the type of partner I want to be. I've no problem ...

My boyfriend doesn't listen when I tell him I am not materialistic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. I'm trying to get other's perspective. I come from a wealthy family, and my boyfriend think that i should be always spoiled with gifts. He's not too rich or poor, he's in the middle ...

Why is my co-worker taking care of his female friend after she just had a baby? Does he like her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hello there, I am 32 years old and my coworker is 41 years old. We starred to talk around January only at work then we found out that we live 8 minutes away from each other. Our days off rotate and march 16th him and I set the date to go to lunch an...

A guy I was seeing went quiet on me, he says he is following legal advise.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Im just wondering what are peoples thoughts. I was seeing a guy who went quiet on me we had been seeing each other for 6 month. i heard from him a handful of times in 2 month and didnt get to see him . I didnt sit about waiting for him i got on with ...

My boyfriend is all about himself during sex, but never about me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I was hoping I could ask for some help regarding my sex life. I have a wonderful 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. Genuinely feel like I've found the one for me, I think he's amazing. However, he's the first person I've slept with...

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and ...

His piercing means no kissing for 10 weeks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend got a new lip piercing last week and said that we can't kiss for the six week healing period, which I am happily enforcing because his healing is my priority and I don't want to hinder that process in any way. Coincidentally at the end ...

How do I handle my girlfriends past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - I would like to start out by saying that I consider myself very open minded. I am divorced from a 6 year marriage and am on good terms with. I have even made good friends with my ex-wife’s boyfriend and we hang out occasionally. My current ...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

Am I being self sabotaging or are my feelings enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I feel like i'm going through a bit of an internal crisis and i can't understand why i can't just be happy. I'm 23 and only been with my boyfriend 7 months, however I knew him for a yr before that. It took me a while to take the plunge and allow ...

My eccentric fiance's behaviour is starting to concern me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Hi... I am looking for some outside advice/perspective on my relationship with my fiancé. We've been together for two years and are just recently engaged. When we first met, we clicked immediately and have been mostly insperable. I grew up in a v...

He compliments others and insults me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My partner of many years verbally attacked me for the things I do to 'beautify' myself such as have hair nails and skin appointments etc done . I have never had cosmetic surgery and am not going to. He says I'm insecure and he wants someone who is ...

Should I try harder to make up for his lack of effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But for the past year now, I feel like he's been neglecting me. He's a hard-working man and I love that about him. But he doesn't ...

I'm still sexually attached to the guy that my ex pretended to be. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - Thank you for reading this. About 10 years ago, I broke up with this guy after a few months when I realized he was abusive. I felt betrayed because we had supposedly been childhood friends. I broke all ties with him. Like most abusers, at first he ...

Is it normal to lead such separate lives, but still have a relatively strong relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we lived together for 2.5 of those years. We met through working together until I left the company 5 months of us dating (separate reasons, not related to our relationship). Anyway, I've n...

I'm dating a 48 year old man who lives in utter filth and doesn't know what he wants from life

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - I've Been seeing a 48 year old man for about 5 weeks now. He is not physically attractive in anyway. I looked past all this because I am actually pursuing a serious relationship and my criteria isn't based on looks. It would help but doesn't matter. ...