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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I Care About My Lack of Title With Special Guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I am a single mom who is on disability due to my advanced rheumatoid arthritis. After some bad experiences dating several years ago, I decided to focus on my kids since dating was a hassle. Despite my R.A., I am quite attractive, and am able to ...

I sexted another girl ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend 5 months now and i have really strong feelings for her but a while back i did something i'm not proud of...i sexted another girl.This is my first relationship so I don't know how things work or what could possibly ruin ...

I've become that "once a week" girl and don't know what to do? I've tried cutting ties before. Do I express what I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I've known this man for a year. In the first 5 months he would contact daily, see me as often as he could, do huge romantic gestures. He even told me once I gave him "too much space". 6 months pass and we had a falling out that left him embarra...

I'm too scared to ask her her boundaries. Should I be so hesitant to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, and me and her both really love each other. She's chosen abstinence, and we've made out a couple times, and she's given me a handjob, and I've fondled her breasts, and that's as far as we've ...

What did she break-up with me out of the blue? Ex bf, new dude or was she not done playing the field yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I am a 44 yr old man, got dumped over a month ago, by my gf of 13 months. she was the love of my life. we were in-separable, did everything together, intimacy was awesome, I felt it was for her also. hours upon hours of conversation about anything ...

Even after five years I don't have the nerve to discuss the future with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3683 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I know this is going to sound terrible, and it is, but I'm still nervous about bringing up the future with my boyfriend after 5 years together. I used to try to bring it up, but he always said 'maybe one day' and other such non-committal things and ...

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3683 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I ...

We rushed in too soon but is he backing out now? Was he ever serious? How should I approach this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I have less than 16 days to do something about this relationship. Please help. I met a guy on a double date five months ago. We hit it off and we talked everyday even though he moved back to the UK the day after we met. I did caution him that...

Has he used the "love" word too soon? Am I reading too much into his message? We've been casually dating for three months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - A guy I've been casually dating for the past 3 months told me that he is thankful to have me in his life...and he has "nothing but love for me." This was in response to me messaging him on Thanksgiving letting him know that I'm grateful to have met...

Would pride stop him from giving a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Hi, a question for the men:- Is a man who is into casual sex with a girl, always interested in having it with that person? If I turned a man down for sex for whatever reason - whether it was because the time wasn't right, or I wasn't sure he was ...

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3683 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other ...

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I've been dating this super amazing guy for almost a year now. We both want to get married and were both looking for stable relationships. I ask every man I date if they've ever had any homosexual experiences. I usually ask in the beginnin...

How can we help my Bf's brother to take control of his eating and drinking habits that are affecting his health?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are great. His brother is our problem. He has severe health issues and my boyfriend and I want him to take better care of himself. We just don't know how to go about it. The guy drinks 4 x 2 liters of Diet Coke a d...

Good sex versus Bad sex. Why is she so unwilling to try to oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - I'm writing this for guidance. I've been dating my girlfriend for just 4.5 months now. We are in love and talk about how we're definitely going to marry each other all the time. She asked me if I wanted the relationship originally. my g...

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior...

He lied - should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - theres a guy i like n he likes me or so i thought we were supposed to be seeing each other and going out tomorrow , he said for a joke about going on a dating website he knew i wasnt happy about that and he said he wasnt really , ive just discovered ...

I don't know how to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - OK, so let me give you a bit of background. 25 year old male, was very shy and socially awkward as a teenager but I've improved so much over the last year. My way of getting over being socially awkward was just to be very friendly and polite to ...

I told him I was a virgin, but left out lots of details

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Thanks in advance for your advice. 4 months ago I met an incredible man and we have been dating since. He is 23 and I'm 22. We have a great relationship and I can feel that he truly loves me. Both of us know we share something special and I don't ...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

My boyfriend hasn't responded since our argument 2 weeks ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a widower and we had a few words during a row after i complained to him that he does not repond to my calls for days and up to a week at a time and 2 weeks ago i said to him that i could be dead and he would not care and have not ...

I don't know if I like him or like the idea of being in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I am finally dating a guy I liked for so long. I feel great being around him but lately I've been doubting if I'm attracted to him. He's gorgeous and am attracted to him but I'm just doubting little things like I didn't like the way he ...

Sometimes I wonder if a long-term relationship means I'm missing out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than 1 and half years, and even though we've had some small issues it's been really good. He was my best friend before and is such a great guy. The problem is that I'm starting to freak out ...

Would it be weird if I waited a whole year to date just her, knowing I like her? Or do I date other girls in the interim?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - There's a girl I really like in my school, (I'm a freshman in high school) and she likes me too, but her parents won't let her date until next year when she turns sixteen. What should I do? Should I date other girls? Would it be weird if I waited a...

My Gf does not want me to see her naked when we make love. How can I help her to overcome this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend is overweight and its not from over eating its from a medical condition that runs in her family. I have told her that i understand thats she is over weight and have told her that i dont have any problems except when we make love. S...

Soon we will be in a LDR. So far one month together. Is it too soon to say "I Love you" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now. We started talking online and we talked for about two weeks before we met and we went on 3 dates before we started dating. He is an amazingly sweet guy, he makes me feel amazing, and I have nev...

Crushing for her, yet don't know if she's gay. If I make a move I could lose my Boyfriend. Should I tell her? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - So I have posted about this before but my head is still a mess.. Anyways, I'm a 20 year old girl, (not bigging myself up here) but I have a good job I've worked so hard for, and a boyfriend I've been going out with for 4 years who I know loves me ...

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a coup...

Is it inappropriate to ask a guy to take an STD and HIV test before we date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I haven't dated in a long time but I decided if I should date again would I be wrong to bring up front about taking STD and HIV test.My health is in great condition and I want the same for the new guy.Thanks ...

Why would you leave the best relationship you ever had over a surmountable problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hey guys, This past Friday my boyfriends of a little over a year broke up with me. Despite my embarrassing pleas he would not reconsider. The reason he gave for the breakup was that despite my having been the best girlfriend he had ever had and...

Should I follow my instincts and just walk away before it's too late, or tell my G/f up front that her lack of interest/effort is becoming a cause for concern?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - Hello all. Just wondering what people's thoughts were on this situation: My g/f and I have been together for just over a year. We live about 25miles apart, and we usually see each other once or twice a week and every other weekend. The...

I don't care about what he's done to me but he cant just abandon our child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Looking for some guidance on what to do here!! I have posted here before about this waster of a man I've spent the last 4 yrs with and I got some great advice. Just to quickly give u some back ground.. i'm 26. I've been with a man 14 years my seni...

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad ...

What's the deal with this girl I met online? Is she pissed at me? Buyer's remorse? Or is it simply a change of heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - Hey everyone, So, I met this girl on OKCupid. I made a profile with a contrejour picture (basically a picture with the shadow of a person against the sun) and was fooling around with the website. Then we struck and conversation and she suggeste...

Why can't I stop thinking about my ex ever since I found out that he is engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I just found out that my exboyfriend just got engaged. We've been separated for about 2 years and 6 months now. We were together for 11 years and I broke up our engagement because I got fed up with his lies and cheating. He tried to get back to ...

She's taking dancing lessons with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of about 4 months teaches ballroom dancing, and is still learning -of course. Overall, our relationship is good -- we acknowledge we love each other all the time. I don't dance, but that's ok. Here's the problem. Once a week she driv...

Have you ever felt drawn to someone you wouldnt usually find attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - iam not a shallow person in any way but have you ever felt drawn to someone you wouldnt usually find attractive? there not usually your type but something about them makes you feel all warm and happy? my friends cant believe im going on a date with ...

I like him but I don't think he'll make a move! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - What should I do about this guy? Does he like me? So my brother invited me to his church convention and there was this guy there I liked. I found he is my brothers close friend at church. After the convention on the coach coming back this w...

How important is 'the spark' in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - How important is 'the spark' in a relationship? I ask because I've had a few relationships, but only had the spark with 2 guys - one was my first love and the second was another ex. He was no different really from any of my other relationships bu...

How do I get out of the rut I am in and make changes for the better? Feel like life is passing me by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - This year, for a number of reasons,has been quite difficult. Not one to remember. I feel like I'm in a rut and I just can't seem to get out of it. I want to make positive changes to my life and lifestyle. I know the person I want to be,...

But is it the right time? I think I may have found my soul mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - So I think that I have met my soulmate. We were introduced by my godmother at a family party on Saturday. We immediately clicked! I have never had the experience of looking into someone's eyes and feeling like I can see their soul. I felt like I ...

Extreme jealousy- Do I need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - I've been having trouble with extreme jealousy in my relationship which is gradually getting worse. It's mainly things like when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend, and something remotely sexual appears (e.g a naked woman or something even as normal ...

New to dating in my 30s and I don't understand the blowing hot and cold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - I am recently divorced after a tumultuous marriage that began in my early 20s and I am finally ready to date again. I am finding that the women I date and get somewhat interested in all seem to have one characteristic which is that they all star...

I feel like I would be killing a cute lovable puppy saying "no" to him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - I have been single for 4 years now but have got to a point where yes I miss companionship but I am not desperate. I recently met a guy online, we talked for about 2 weeks and met up. Ive now seen him couple of times and he is lovely, he is 3 years ...

I'm a straight guy who's been told his approach to sex is 'feminine'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - So I've been tossing with this for a while and I really just want some other people's perspective. So the best way I can describe how they feel is; I feel sexually like a woman. I know its not a perfect description but I'll try to elaborate Bas...

I don't want him to feel he can disrespect me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Me and the guy I'm seeing were having a phone conversation. I'd be feeling a little down because he's not very affectionate and generally i feel like he takes me for granted. While I was speaking on this I could hear him watching a girl's snapchat ...

Still trying at 38! Never been in a relationship

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I am a 38 year old British male, I was wondering if anybody has any advice that works, I have never been in a relationship with a woman in my entire life. I have tried 12 different dating sites wasting thousands of pounds, I have been to speed ...

Present ideas for my 14 year old boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - So I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and I don't know what to get him for Christmas keeping in mind were only 14! But I do love him (yes young love) got any ideas? ...

Am I moving on too quickly, rebounding, or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

22 November 2014 (M) - Hi, it's been three long years since I've been here, but last time I was here I was talking about possibly getting with my lab partners let's call her "Vicki". We were in a relationship for the past 3 years and it just ended 3 months ago. We e...

How do you tactfully raise the question of STD testing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3691 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I have only had sex with one person in my life, we were both virgins and never slept with anyone else. We broke up a few months ago. I was not very concerned with getting any kind of disease from him because we were our 1sts and only partners, b...