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writes:What should I do about this guy? Does he like me?So my brother invited me to his church convention and there was this guy there I liked. I found he is my brothers close friend at church.After the convention on the coach coming back this woman said I'm a pretty girl and she loves my personality and there's someone she would like to set me up with.I saw her speaking to the same guy and asked me to give him a lift home. I agreed and he carried my bags. So last week he came to my house and he was such a gentleman opening car doors for me etc:I told him I wanted gospel music and he said no problem. So he made a copy and gave it to my brother to give to me.I think I like him. But he's different, serious and loves God. So I doubt he'd make any move.What should I do? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 November 2014):
 I think the woman at the convention did the set up out of a caring heart, but little did she know that setting people up can cause a lot of awkwardness because it puts people in the spot light, it draws unneeded attention which he might not appreciate.
I would approach him as a friend and do more things together (but not at church) casually. Let him see your easy going side. Then slowly ease into gentle touching or flirting.
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