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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have a lovely relationship, but he never texts me back! Only if I'm in a bit of a mood with him and then he texts me loads! It's really annoying because I can't get in touch with him, and it feels as if he never thinks of me.If he wants to see me, he texts me, but doesn't bother to ever text me back. help! x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Yes I think that you should sit down with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Maybe if he knows then that you feel like this then he mat start making more of an effort!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Away for a week and no text huh..
That's a guy who is really into his own life. His hobbies, his buds, his job, his pets.. etc. but not that into you. You should have gotten a lovey dovey message and the question "Hope you are being a good girl" which is just a light jibe on how much someone wants you to be thinking about them. But this guy only shows up with his needs on his time. You have good reason to be concluding that you are not enjoying his behaviour. However, it is his behaviour, it's who the guy is. Do you want him now? Up to you entirely, but ask yourself where you draw the curtain, the line, the mote, whatever you draw though you should keep to it. Your limitations are important to your happiness and if your not happy no one around you will be. Misery loves company, maybe that's why he's showing up. LOL have a good long conversation with yourself and make a choice and stick to it like glue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hardly text him anymore anyway. But when I do, he doesn't reply. It makes me feel like he only texts me when he wants something :/
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Try backing off on the texting and see what happens. Maybe if you only used it when you really needed to, he would respond more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou! Well we used to text 24/7 when we first got together. and now it's a case of, when he wants to see me, he's all lovey dovey and 'awh i miss you gorgeous, when am i seeing you?' but he never texts back to normal conversations or questions.i was on holiday for a week last week and he never text me once, or replied much.and we used to call, but not so much now as i'm usually always staying at his, or he's at mine anyway.should i tell him that it makes me feel like he's putting no effort into the relationship?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 May 2011):
Well maybe it is just a case that he doesnt like texting. Some people dont actually like sending messages. Therefore maybe you could both call each other more instead. If he doesnt call you either well then you need to question does he actually care about you and he is not just using you for whenever he wants to see you.
Talk to him about this issue and tell him how you feel. It must be very frustrating being ignored and explain that he needs to make more of an effort in the relationship in order for it to work.
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