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36-40,
*eccamega
writes:I was going through some stuff the other day and found some mememtos of my relationship with my ex. I ended up throwing them out, I don't like keeping stuff from exes.I've told my story here before: He dumped me completely out of the blue one day, by phone. Then he insulted me by text. Ending with "i should've dumped you a long time ago". Great way to end things hey? The way he did it was completely callous. I never begged, pleaded or contacted him once.I was a good gf and never cheated. He always makes sure that he's the dumper and never the dumpee. He jumps from woman to woman as well. I wish that one day someone would leave him in the place where he left me. If that happened would he perhaps or maybe understand what it's like to be the dumpee for once?
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reader, meccamega +, writes (8 May 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your answers, they were very helpful to me.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Maybe he just doesn't have an ounce of feelings for the girls he dates, so it's easier for him to dump them then it is for then to realize that he is a cold unfeeling smuck?!
Let it go. Put him with the mementos.. in the trash.
Accept that it wasn't you.. it was him. And that he never deserved you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): Its human nature to wonder whether someone who did you wrong and mistreated you will get their comeuppance but honestly that should be the last thing on your mind.
Rather concentrate your efforts on the most important person around which is yourself. Your happiness should be based on your achievements, your accomplishments, your inner sense of peace and self love and acceptance rather than on an ex lovers karma or misfortune.
As hard as it is, just let everything go and move on whole-heartedly! You recognised that he has problems in relationships and surely he shall reap what he sows, its just a product of cause and effect but rather than dwelling on that, focus on yourself!
All the best!
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