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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

I think she wants me to pop the question but I'm terrified!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year. We have become very close over the course of the past year. Recently, she has let me know that she is ready to move onto the next phase of our relationship, i.e. she wants me to pop THE ...

What can I say to him via text to turn him on???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...

Relationship status???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do you know when you have been seeing someone on and off for 17 years, what the actual relationship status is? It started off as just sex, but now it seems to be growing into something more...or at least to me. He talks to his friends about me, ...

Does a life threatening illness affect your decision to enter into a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have met a really lovely guy. We have only had two dates so far but they have both been amazing. However before our dates I found out he has a few girls on the scene that he calls just for sex. He knew I knew about it so the conversation came up. ...

I need help! What can I do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i'm with my bf 16 months, at the start we were both very shy, it took a lot longer for him to come out of his shyness. we'll we started having sex after 3 months, i'm very happy with our sex-life its just i always make the first move, our sex just ...

Does the army change people???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before ...

The constant worrying is driving me insane!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers my boyfriend and i started having sex about 6 months ago and he uses a condom every time, but the thing is im always very concerned that it will break! he doesnt seem to feel the worry i do and probably thinks im being rediculous...

Fiance cheated, take him back or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn ...

Help!!! Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend of one year is addicted to porn. Well I think he is. I used to think it was ok but now I'm not so sure. WE used to watch porn together and have fun with it but lately it seems that he prefers to please himself to porn rather than being ...

WHY does he want anal???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...

I can't help but think that he's not in it for the long run.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hi, I met someone, things started off shaky just cause when things get serious i start pushing people away just to see if they'l stick around and he didn't he just became distant. I felt bad because for a while he was doing and saying all the r...

Is there recovery from cybersex/emotional infidelity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently found out about one of my boyfriend's cyber sex partners while we were vacationing together. I was using his computer to email my family when a woman named Rachael popped up on his skype to talk to him. I told she was asking for him and ...

He wants nothing to do with me or the child but I want him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an ...

Help! I can't seem to get past his mistakes...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he tells me all the time that he doesnt want anyone but me but i find it hard to believe. never was there actually cheating but more so expressing to others the things he wanted to do with them ...

I'm getting tired of him always being busy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his ...

Am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing what some may call my "boyfriend" but not official for about 5 months. This gets complicated so hopefully I can make this clear enough to understand. I started working at a strip club, yes, dancing right after my 20th birthday...

Should I stay with my boyfriend... or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Am I wanting to stay with my him(bf)? Every time that I he gets close to me. It just doesn't feel right. I don't even let him kiss, hug etc. No more. Sometimes I will let him kiss me b4 he go to work. Cause usaly that what would a couple would do ...

How do you pursue? Confused...

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31 January 2011 (M) - I've been seeing this woman for about 2 months. We've went out, but I've been seeing her about once a week since then. At first we both were planning things, but I was taking it slow, and really didn't mention that I was interested in her. I'm ...

I'm afraid of making my boyfriend bored when we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I recently become sexually active with my boyfriend. I'm in my early-twenties and it is my first time having sex with anyone. I feel kind of insecure about my body and too shy to let my boyfriend see it. Whenever we have sex (it has only bee...

I want to do something sweet for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is in the Military. He is stationed in the US right now so I want to send him something sweet for Valentine's Day. I don't do sexy from a distance so nothing like that, just something sweet to let him know I am thinking of him. ...

He says my past disgusts him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am 24 years old and I have had multiple partners some of whom know my current boyfriend. He said that my past disgusts him and he can't be with me because he can't get over the thought of people knowing what i am like in bed. Is it wrong for me to ...

Still struggling after the breakup...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi , I am going through a really tough time at the minute my boyfriend broke up with me the day before new years after nearly 4 years together and i am still absolutley devastated. things were bad for a few weeks beforehand, he felt we were dri...

I don't know what to do... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and we moved in together 3 months ago, and i feel like the relationship is not what it used to be he does not cuddle with me as much as he used to does not pay attention to me as much as he ...

Any ideas on how I could start speaking to him again?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly seeing as we got really close i would just like some advice ...

When is too soon to move in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - When is too soon to move in together? I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We are both happy together and I feel he is 'the one' and says he feels the same. He's 34 and I'm 30, he still lives with his parents and I have my own place. ...

Drinking is spoiling our nights out!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we have a good relationship and get on great, apart from when we go on a night out and drink. We aren't violent or abusive to each other but we both wind each other up or start talking about ...

He's completely avoiding me now and I don't know what to do...

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31 January 2011 (F) - Help Me!! I'm 23 year old and i fell in love with my classmate. He is 22 years old, and also in love with me. He was the one who first kissed me and gradually our relations got strong... v both have physical relation. Our cast is diff and even age ...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

Nearly 20 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I will be turning 20 years old soon. And I have never had a boyfriend. I am kind of shy in showing my feelings towards guys, and I don't really have any guy friends. Actually, I have none at all. The first and only time I have ever made out with a g...

I just want to tell her how feel the next time were alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Ok so there's this girl I've liked for a while now and a sortof got the feeling she liked me but I was to nervous to do any thing when I used to see her I was nice and happy but eventually my feelings became so strong that being around her was very ...

What are "the jealous rules"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends ...

Does it sound like they're going out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i think one of my friends is going out with my best friends ex in secret. she walks home with him and on more than one instances ive seen them hugging and holding hands also this weekend i went to the cinema and he was kissing a girl and she had the ...

Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relation...

How do I ask her out on a date for Valentines Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - People it's been like 3 years and a half I like this girl, she knew that I liked her. Thing is I would like to have some tips, I mean after some awkward interactions with her I could use some tips on how to ask her on Valentine's day. Thank you ...

I asked him out, he said no, and now it is rather awkward.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So I asked this guy out that I have liked for sometime. He declined but was very nice about it, and said that he would like to hang out more etc etc and not to take it personally. I told him I didn't do that sort of thing often so I was sorry if I ...

How do I get him to see that I am his ideal girlfriend?

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31 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am crazy about a boy that is three years younger than I. We have been flirting like crazy and about a month ago we kissed. Since then things have been a little different, we haven't mentioned the kiss since. And before he would talk to me ...

Do these two girls talk about me?

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31 January 2011 (M) - Girl A texts me....she's just a friend doing small talk. It ends up a talk about work and I tell her I'm leaving and won't return once I've finished uni. She tells me that's a shame and I'll be missed , then adds ''you've only begun to get to know ...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

He's 22 but asked if I had a boyfriend, what is he looking for from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok so this guy just added me on facebook but hes like 22, and im 16 so its kind of an age gap, and we've talked and stuff , he seems nice but then he asked me if i had a bf.. i mean does it mean hes looking for anything? im not sure whether i should ...

Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hookin...

He's my friend but I really like him and he thinks I'm not a virgin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So i'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. Within this group is a guy who I really like, I can't go a day without thinking about him. I have a feeling that he likes me as well, he treats me nicer than the other girls in our group ...

Is he interested in getting to know me? or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My aunt introduced me to this guy that she works with, she thinks we'd be a perfect match. When i say introduced..i guess i dont really mean introduced. she told him to add me on facebook. we chatted for a while the first few days and exchanged ...

Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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31 January 2011 (M) - I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it. There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantl...

First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...

Should I sms him again or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok, so was dating this guy non-exclusively for 2 months before i went away for a couple of weeks.. he is the first guy ive been out with for that long, but i'm unsure whether i enjoy his company as a friend, or whether i could fall for him... I...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

I've pushed him away by my jealousy and by trying to control him way too much...How can I make him interested in me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hi i need help, my co worker and i have had a thing for each other for the past year. I have realized that i really do love him and i dont know what he thinks i felt that he felt the same as well but for the last 3 months he has been distant. He ...