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writes:Well ill try and make this as short as possible. About 3 months ago I was really into this girl(girl A) for a little bit then I got introduced to her friend(girl B) through friends of mine and I ended up devoloping feelings for both of them, so I talk to girl A about my confusion and she ended up understanding and stepping aside so I could be with girl B. Now after 2 months of dating girl B we broke up and I started talking to girl A again and we've been hangin out a lot and even fooled around a lot lately, but at one point she told me she just wanted to be the girl to show me that there are other girls out there and she wouldn't be more than that, but I told her that I had made a mistake and made the wrong decision to be with girl B. And I told her that I wanted a relationship eventually and that I would try my hardest to show that I am devoted to make things work with her. Now after she said she didn't want anything, since then we continue to hang out and get a little more "comfortable" with each other, and she hinted to the fact that she will be hard to win over. I'm extremely interested in making a relationship with this girl.I just want some opinions on where you think this thing between girl A and myself are headed?
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reader, MayMay1  +, writes (16 November 2010):
personally i think you have a definite chance with girl A. she is just trying to make you work for her love, and its kind predictable for her to do this. She's only doing this because you went for girlB and now you wanna come back so she wants you to make extra effort just to be with her.
Look if you really are into this girl, then by all means take all the necessary steps to win her over. Flowers, romantic dates and so on. Plus she is interested in you, if she wasnt she wouldnt be spending so much time with you. She said it would be hard for you to win her over-she never said it would be impossible. therefore it can be done. If you feel that you want to have a future with her then PULL OUT ALL the stops and try your hardest. What have you got to lose?
GOODLUCK!!!
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