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writes:Ok, I have sort of a problem. I've been dating this guy, we'll call him John, for almost a year. I love him so much and for the most part we seem to mesh well the only problem is is that its sort of a long distance relationship. He lives about 2 hours away and we're both in college and only see each other on the weekends. Well, when school started i met another guy, lets call him Luke, and Luke is such a charmer. He's so sweet, he listens, he's caring, and all the girls love him. as in ALLL of the girls want him (manwhore!) I love hanging out with Luke but it always makes my bf upset with me. For the past few months i've been thinking about what it would be like with Luke even though i know that i wouldnt want to date him i still really want to do things with him and its getting really hard to hide. i know that luke feels the same about me (and every other girl) but idk its just a problem.my question is, what do i do here? i dont want to lose my boyfriend but at the same time i really want to experiment with this new guy... should i just try to push the feelings aside? or ask for a short break?? help!
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Thn maybe you should keep him as a friend..
If you and your boyfriend split up later then you can have your fun with him then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut the thing is my bf DID say that to me before! and i do love him but i also care about luke hes one of my best friends.
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (16 November 2010):
Listen to what you're saying.
You want to break it off with your boyfriend of nearly a yr, so you can go and mess around with this womanizer bloke, who probably won't call after he's had his way with you. Then, feeling rejected, you'll go backto your boyfriend saying you want it back on again?
Think about how you would feel if he said this to you:
"I want to go on a break so that I can experiement with this girl. If it doesn't work out we can get back together again".
Doesn't sound fun does it?
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reader, Darksilver  +, writes (16 November 2010):
I don't think you understand that word 'love' cos if you do and you trully love your bf,i don't think you'll be asking this q. . . .if your bf should want to do something like this to you,how will you feel. . .forget bout luke,cos you don't love him and he don't love you:) .
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