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female
age
30-35,
*ubyrose
writes:so im 21, this is my first "relationship" (although we're not exclusive)-- been going out with this guy for a bit over a month (6 dates).. i am a virgin waiting for love, but i havent discussed my history with him yet... i want to take the physical side of things slow.. he seems to get the hints when i move his hands away (he tried to get under my shirt when we were making out).. i dont know if i should talk to him, and say that i dont mean to be a tease and actually hear that he is ok with going slow? or if it should just be left unsaid and see that he follows my lead?//how would i go about saying it?/ what should i say? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Its best being honest with him, am sure he has picked up on your signs but he is a man and he will keep trying his luck, so the next time he tries something like this tell him you need to talk to him, tell him you are enjoying getting to know him but you would like to take your time on the physical side until you are ready. Am sure if he likes you he will understand and take things at a slow pace, there are many girls out there who arent virgins but still want to take things slow its the best way and good for you for not rushing in to anything.
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