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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so there is this boy and I've liked him since last year.And I've never had a boy friend before. I finally got his number this year and we started texting eachother. I asked him out the first time and he said yes so we started dating turns out the first time we dated he lead me on and dumped me but was very sweet about it. The second time we went out he asked me out and of course I said yes. Well then I got scared and I was afraid he was lieing to me again so I dumped him. Turns out this time he actually developed feelings for me and I hurt him. And gosh I feel so guilty right now that I have just gone insane. Well somedays he acts like he cares about me and will sit close to my lunch table in the morning with his buddies and stare at me. Well recently he texted me saying he was with someone else,and it was the third time we have texted since the breakup reck I have caused, and I already knew about from my friends. And him staring at me is confusing because I don't know if he cares about me still or what's going on. Well today he has acted like I don't even exsist anymore and he won't look at me or nothing so I think his girl talked herself into his life, but yet they don't hang out with eachother because they go to a different school. I really want to get back together with him because I love him lots but I don't know if he has moved on or what? And I know i sound clingy but I really care about him alot. I went out with someone else to three days after he told me he was with someone else and it just didn't feel right nothing I do feels right without him anymore.And my friends say that everytime they talk about me in class he looks sad or nervous and I really do feel bad I hurt myself for doing this to him but mostly I hurt him but I didn't know what to think I was scared and I listened to my guts and not my heart and now this is the pain I deserve and get. So my questions are.....is there any possible way I can get back with him or am I just being stupid? And do you think he has really moved on or is he just using the other chic as a rebound from what I did? And if there is any possible way I can I would really appreciate it if you can help me out I am in dire need of wanting to be in his arms again!!! Help me please!!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Well the first time he lead you on and dumped you, then the second time you broke up with him because you were afraid he would lie again. So why do you want to go out with him a third time if you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times? You haven't fully let him go, that's what's wrong here, you need to fully move on with your life. He's moved, he has a new girlfriend. Stop looking into him staring at you or sitting next to you, instead get up and move across the lunch room. Your friends aren't helping either..ask them to stop giving you updates of his apparent mood. From your post, it sounds like you did nothing wrong and you haven't hurt him because he's moved on but you still haven't. Move on, third time is NOT a charm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): ~EASY SOLUTION~
Be honest and tell him how you feel.
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