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30-35,
*utiepiesensei
writes:I love my boyfriend very much and have been with him for about a year now. The issue is, I think we look weird together. I'm 5'8.5" and he is 5'3"-5'4". He's not really skinny though and I wear a size 3. The thing is, I LOVE high heels so I look like a giant when we are together (he would come to an inch above my shoulder) and even when I don't wear heels (please note though that the highest heels I have are 4 inches) he comes to about my nose. I never notice this though when we are together just us two, but when we go out in public we get weird looks and when I look at both of us in a mirror together, it does look kinda funny. I think it may be partially because I have a bigger head/face than he does and have really voluminous hair (like beyonce style). One of the reasons I originally didn't want to date him was because of his height, but I cared about him so much that I eventually said yes. I just want to know how to get over this. It doesn't bother him at all but it bothers me a little bit (when I see us in a mirror anyway). I don't want us to get married and me not able to wear heels or for us to look really funny in our wedding photos (because we just don't look right in pictures together because of me being 'bigger' than him).
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reader, ChilledOut  +, writes (17 November 2010):
You seem to have a lot of concern about what other people might think - how you look together; what wedding photos would look like and so forth.
Considering that your relationship is something most important to the two of you (as opposed to the rest of the world,) the real issue should be whether the two of you are happy together and this is what I would urge you to concentrate on.
So, if - as you say - he's happy with his height (and there's no reason other than the easily-ignored evils of society as to why he shouldn't be) then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): dont worry bou it!
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