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writes:So, I met this guy about two weeks ago and we had so much in common. We had both just gotten out of a long relationship with similar issues and I opened up to him really fast although I usually take a long time to do so. We were talking everyday for two weeks then all of the sudden two days ago he didn't answer my text. I texted him again later on and he did not answer. We had plans to hangout the next day and I waited to see if he'd text me but he didn't. Also, he hasn't tried talking today either. I was really starting to like him and he was really helping ease my pain plus he was so sweet... I didn't do anything wrong why would he just stop talking to me? I know its only been two days but I really don't see him and I talking again but I just don't understand why. Its so hard for me to trust someone and I feel like when I finally start to something bad always happens.. =/
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Just an alternative perspective. Sometimes it's just as aunt honesty said and I think that's probably the case here. The alternate perspective is that he met someone else and hit it off with her and decided that she was who he was going to try for. Guys will often keep multiple girls "on the line" but when they make their decision, they discontinue contact with the ones they didn't choose. It's a way to avoid the awkward semi-break up conversation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow thanks so much that makes alot of sence :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Ok well you barely know this guy just remember that, i think that maybe you opened up to him two much to fast, and guys and girls deal with break ups in different ways, you probably just got a bit to much for him and he needs space to get over what he is going through and his own issues, by all means try and stay friends with him but dont be to over whelming, dont contact him now until he contacts you and dont contact each other every single day, take things slowely and build on the friendship slowely dont rush in to each others pockets at the moment. I bet he just felt overwhelmed, so dont text or call him let him come to you.
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