A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm 23 in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (21) and I have been together for a lil' over a year. We both love each other dearly and we communicate well with each other...however, there's a lack of intimacy in our relationship. I'll give her kisses and she'll give me one or two back. She says that she doesn't want to kiss me. We've had similar situations with cuddling. And she doesn't know how to respond to it. She says that its not "Me" and that I shouldn't be upset and that she doesn't know why she doesn't want to kiss me. We used to kiss passionately but, now its like me doing all the work. We can lay down and cuddle. There are always "I Love You"s. :) I would think that its the changing hormones due to her being pregnant (7 months) but she's acted like this a few times before she was pregnant. I give her some space so I'm not crowding her. I don't know what's wrong. Any input would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, jackie rose  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 i think she is depressed about somethings in the past. though it might take a while to forget it..what you can do is lay her down give her a break. give her therapy. like massages. don't give her too much trouble.. or maybe its because she is pregnant. don't make her mad or she'll get into her bitch-mode . give her chocolate and maybe nice flowers and a book. write back and tell me if this works!good luck.and congrats!
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