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Archived questions from: 29 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over ...

I have a tendency to fall for people really hard and really fast! How can I get a grip on that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have a tendency to fall for people really hard and really fast. I hate it because I always end up semi-heartbroken! I feel a lot for this person and the relationship is new, too new for me to feel the way I feel. At times they are okay and at ...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he ...

Are we 'tying the knot' too young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years now, and i know in my heart i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and he feels the same since he wants to get married and have a child. i want that as well but im 19 and he's 21 but my mother is r...

Is he gay? Sex with him isn't normal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i've been with my bf for a few months but i'm starting to wonder if he might be gay. He told me that he nearly once kissed a guy, also he says he has an arse obsession. He seems to enjoy sex but the only thing that makes him hard is if he touches ...

What's the best way to split up when you live together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years and we are currently living together. I know that I want to get married and have a family however I know that I do not want these things with her. She is my best friend and has been so since long ...

Is this picture really that big of a deal? My girlfriend is freaking out over it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I ask this because I want to make sure that I'm being reasonable, because I don't want to be that guy who only thinks of himself. My girlfriend took a picture of me sleeping in my underwear with my hand down my pants (hilarious!). She sent it to s...

How do I get to know my art mentor better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and in love with somebody who seems inappropriate for me, because he's 47 years old. He's also my mentor of art performance in the school. I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. When I first met him (the year bef...

My friend from myspace is obsessed! How do I let him down easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ok i have a problem.a friend of mine who i first met through myspace is obsessed with me.the only times weve met is when he came to my work a couple times,and that was a long time ago.we still chat sometimes but i dont talk to him much becuz ...

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my ques...

She hasn't told her mom about us yet so she keeps getting set up on dates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay here is my problem me and my girlfriend have been together for like 5 months now and she hasn't told her mom yet. Then her mom set her up with some guy and she had to date him and she was still dating me!!! This really hurt my feelings but I ...

How do you 'make out'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...

Does he love me? He didn't say it back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hello I have a question here, yesterday I was cuddling with my 8 months boyfriend, and I told him that I loved him for the first time, his response was that he hugged me really tight, but he didn't say anything, should I be concerned?. Our ...

How do I do the right thing and remain understanding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been living with my boyfriend for a year and he is seperated but not divorced from his ex wife. He pays her a huge amount of 'child' support every month and we know that she doesnt spend it all on the kids. She kept the house which is real ...

What is considered 'normal' in starting a relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone i’m an 18 year old Canadian living overseas...my question is regarding how to go about being in a relationship with a guy i am interested in...but i’m going to give a bit of background information to help out with my question....i moved ...

How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...

How can we be sure we're ready to move in together? It's a big step...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. (We've known each other for close to 5) And while we've gone through some sticky patches in our relationship, as all couples do, we have a pretty good relationship overall. We have our ups and ...

I really like this guy, but there are rumours he got a 14 yr old pregnant, I don't know who to believe...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok Guys, theres this guy a really like he is just a year older than me and he is actually amazing. He isn't the nicest looking guy but he means the world to me, he has the nicest personality ever. Recently his pals have told me that he got a 14 year...

I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've ...

My boyfriend doesn't wake me up to join him in bed at night, if I fell asleep somewhere else. I don't see why.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I was just wondering what other peoples view on this is... When I go to bed at night, if my boyfriend has fallen asleep somewhere besides bed, I always wake him up to come join me in bed. Last night, I had kind of fallen asleeep on the couch. I...

Do women kiss more passionately than men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ...

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I g...

How can I make each day we are not together special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey all. Im in a longdistance relationship for 2 years now. The last year was tough. But after this vication with him. Im sure about my feeling ext. I want him to know how i feel each day im not with him. I want it to be special. Any ideas how to ...

Why haven't I had an orgasm yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Well here goes; Me and my bf have been together almost two and a half years now. In that length of time he has never given me an orgasm (I’m not complaining by the way), but yesterday he got really upset about it, and I would like him to be a...

My LDR isn't working and I don't know if he's cheating or just not that into me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...

I'm really into this girl but I don't know whether to tell her how I feel?

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29 September 2008 (M) - I'm really into this girl and we have been talking everyday for 2 months but i don't know wether to tell her how i feel. We have been out together a few times on her suggestion but i don't know if she thinks we're just friends because she mentioned ...

He seems a bit intense. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks and by his own admission we aren't technically boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm not even sure if I like him. But I think I could. The problem is that he always wants to be around and says things like, you kept ...

How do I date someone at some point when a male friend still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So I have chatted casually to Andy, same age as me, 2 kids too in the pub for a couple of months, just amongst others too. A few months ago i met a guy, Jack, 8 yrs younger than me in there and we txt most days, just asking if we've had a good day. ...

We didn't really get together before but how do I get him back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - If I have turn a guy off in other words dosen't like me anymore..knowing it was both of our fault we stop talking but you want him back beacuse you care and you have no way of getting his attention then how do I get him to like me again???...

Whats going on? why is he acting this way? and what does my mate mean when he says he probably hasn't admitted it to himself? is this all because he likes me but is confused??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey ok could you explain this for me please. Basically theres a lad i like and in the past i thought he liked me because he was always staring at me, showing signs and people seemed to act like they knew that he liked me or knew something about us, ...

Should I pull out now completely (not even friends) and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for five months. He is 32 and I am 27. In the beginning we both wanted to be free and enjoy life and time together without labeling our situation. I warned him that as we progress my feelings could change and I may want to ...

He says he feels pressure but I feel like the pressure is on me!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I just got into a relationship with this guy. We were in a friends with benefits situation for months and now we are official. I saw him yestersay,we were supposed to hang out today, but he canceled at the last minute and told me we will hang out ...

Why did he ask me if I would marry him if he does not even want to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I am just looking for some advice with a guy I am seeing. I met him 4 months ago, I was 17 and he was 23. At first he was concerned about the age difference, but I turned 18 in August and I figured that would ease him a bit. I don't have ...

I thought he would be ready for casual sex but he started shaking. Why, do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been sort of dating this guy from Germany. I bumped into a bunch of his friends when I was walking my dog. They were a bunch of law students having orientation. Well I hung out with him a lot more because we got along so well. But I had just ...

How do you know when you should get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfried for 4 years and we live together. We have talked about getting married but it still has gone no where. I am 27 and he is 34 I feel like it is time that we move on to the next step in our relationship but now I really ...

How do I give my boyfriend a blow job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Well i tryed giving my boyfriend a bj and hj but its like im hurting him but yet its not my first time doing this and i have no clue what to do! i want to give him the best cause thats what he does for me but it seems im just hurting him ...

She wants the relationship a secret and I don't. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and I knew her for about 7 months before then. We get along really great and we really care about each other. I'm 25 and she's 21. Overall, I'm happy with how our relationship is but there is one thing ...

How do I get over these feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - About 2 years ago I started having sexual thoughts about a friend. Nothing ever happened, as we're both female, and I wasn't sure what i really felt about her. (up until this point I thought I was straight) The feelings were getting pretty strong, ...

Found out he sent flowers to another female, a long time ago. Should I confront him or just drop it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I recently discovered that the guy i've been with for two and a half years has sent a girl flowers and a teddy to her work office about 6 months into our relationship but he's never done anything like that for me, i found out he had been online ...

He hates my past so he calls me ugly and disgusting! How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend hates my past. Even though it wasn't terrible, I mean most people would think it's mild (the worst I did was give oral sex to a friend once). So yeah, but it bothers him. We were arguing, and he told me how ugly and disgusting I am....

Do I confront him about the suggestive text messages, he's sending her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, Thanks for those who replied to my last message.lt was about my husband of 31 years sending sex texts to a woman (18 years younger than me) whom he knows through work but doesn't work on the same premises. When I discovered some ver...

What should I do about my friend's boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My friends boyfriend is sexually attracted to me and i dont know what to do? ...

I really like my ex bf's buddy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have decided to end our relationship. It's a mutual decision and we're going to stay friends. We're still together at the moment, because we're sorting thing out first... Anyway, the thing is, I've had a thing for one of his m...