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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend wants me to masturbate for him, I do not think I do it right, could I have some advice regarding this topic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - My BF Wants me to masturbate for him1!!!! i cant do it! any tips on how too i mean i masturbate but i think i do it worng! help me...

My boyfriend's ex is threatening to steal him from me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - My Boyfriends Ex Girlfriend Told Me That She Has Seriously Thinking About Dating MY Boyfriend. She Told Me The Only Reason Why I Still Have Him Is Because She Knows Hes HAppy With Me. Heres Part Of The Converstaion fatel1: (09/21/2008 06...

My girfriend and I have been together for four years and we have had a great relationship, but recently she wanted some time from me, to figure out if she really wants to be with me, she feels the spark is not there anymore, I love her sincerely, is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I have been dating my gf for almost 4 years and we both deeply love each other. We have been through it all together and it has made us and our love stronger. Recently after things had been going great she felt as though the spark was lost and that ...

My boyfriend wants me to take pictures of myself in my underwear. Is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend(8months) have a really good relationship atm, we havn't actually had sex yet as i want to wait 'til i'm 16, but we mess around and that, i'm fourteen and he's in the year above. i'm really not into all the sex stuff but i know he ...

I want him to like me for definite. Should I play hard-to-get?

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22 September 2008 (F) - There's a boy I've liked since June now. He's a year older than me - 17. He's really sweet and caring. A great friend to me through thick and thin. He's gorgeous and basically perfect boyfriend material. And he knows I like him. I confessed to...

My girlfriend and I have broken up again, we have small fights when we are together, but I think we would be able to get past them if we try, I don't know if she wants to do this, how can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Ok, recently my girlfriend of almost 2 years have broken up (1 year 11 months). I ended the relationship a few days ago because we have been having so many little fights that it's not enjoyable to spend time together. Immediately after I realized ...

If he and his girlfriend did split up, should I go after him, or wait to see if he decides to come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - There is a guy I've really liked for a while, and I've been told that he likes me as well. But he already has a girlfriend and two young kids (one with his current girlfriend, and another from a previous relationship). Obviously a relation...

He dumped me after 2 days!!!! I couldn't believe it.

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22 September 2008 (F) - Well. My story is quite long. I met this boy who i didn't really like untill this party, and i just couldn't stop looking at him, i don't know why. He already had a girlfriend, but then a couple weeks later he figured out that i fancied him. beca...

My boyfriend wants me to stop shaving!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend said he wanted me to stop shaving! He said he doesn't want me to look like I'm pre-pubescent. Do you think he really means that? Or is he trying to control me? It's really embarrasing for a girl to have hairy armpits and legs. Should...

I'm keeping a major secret from the guy that could be my childs father, is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so i know you are gonna think i am a slut but please dont judge me. I don't sleep around and before i got myself in this mess i hadn't slept with anyone for over 8 months. So I knew this guy at we had been friends for ages but we live in diff...

Does he like me the way I like him? I don't know where I stand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - this may not seem like a big problem to some but it is to me. i have fallen for this bloke who comes in to my work, he is really hot and a really nice guy. the problem is that iv told him how i feel about him thru a txt message, and he replied ...

Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them (like me!) or do they prefer an outgoing girl that always can start a conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i know everybody has different opinions, but what do guys typically look for in a girl? Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them?(like me!) or do they prefer an out going girl that always can start a conversation. Cuz I really ...

How can I strike up a good conversation with this girl at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - i've become stricken with this girl at work, and am in dire need of help. unfortunately, striking up a conversation with her couldn't be more awkward. aside from the usual things such as the mild embarassment and finding stuff to talk about (which ...

My boyfriend is convinced I'll leave him, but puts me down all the time too. Why is he acting like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year started acting weird a month ago. He puts me down a lot verbally (that's I'm fat, act dumb, etc.) and I tell him that it hurts my feelings but he just says "you know I'm only kidding, I love you for you and wouldn't be with ...

I'm getting married, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I’m getting married, but I feel like a mid-life crisis waiting to happen. I am engaged to a wonderful woman who loves me with all of her heart, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get. Hell, I’m scared to death! I a...

My partner's adult (and married) children dislike me and I feel he should stand up for me more. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i have been on this site alot of times since i started dating the man i am now with. he is 69 years old and i am 65 years old. both of our spouses are deceased. my friend introduced us 3 years, and 9 months ago. I stay with this man almost all of ...

I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i ...

Men, are you put off when a girl takes initiatives, always starts conversations, etc? When guys don't make the effort, does it mean they are not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I will not go into detail about my own problem just yet, i just needed to ask this question: Guys, are you put off in any way when a girl is usually the one to make a first move? I know guys are generally lazy and some are blind to see that a ...

How do I handle a guy who's telling other male friends of mine to back off and then they avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - How do I handle a guy who's telling other male friends of mine to back off and then they avoid me? This guy has a girlfriend so why is he doing this? What should I do? Please help!!...

Does my ex-girlfriend want me back? How will I know and when?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago - we were together only for 2 months. She broke up with me for no reason - she just said it didn't feel right and that was that. 6 months later she got a new boyfriend and was with him for 16 months ...

We only spend together 3 months a year and it's amazing! When we're apart though it seems we are two strangers. How can I make our phone conversations more fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now and im very much in love with him. He is 18 and im 21. He lives in a different country and comes every once a year for 3 months. Thats the only time i get to spend with him. When we meet its just amaz...

He's all I ever think of and he's just asked me out, why can't I bring myself to accept his invitation??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - hey y'all this guy im like head over heels for, asked me out earlier this morning in school, we've been talking for months. But why can't i get myself to say yes to him? even though he's all I ever think of? im major confused. love ...

I refused to give him my phone number, we often travel along and I like him, should I be friends with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i m 17,i travel to college by train.since 2 months there is this guy who travels along with me.we often stared at each other. A week ago we spoke to each other.he is working.must be 24-25 years old.he even asked for my phone number but i refused to g...

Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for...

I'm worried my stretchmarks will wreck my relationship with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what...

Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...

I would give her one of my kidneys if she needed it, because I still love her so much! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys, this is a fairly common question but its worth asking because it's tearing me up at a very stressful time. Basically I was madly in love with this girl for about a year and we kept goin out for a year and a half. I loved her so much but ...

He's gone abroad for I don't know how long - should we break up or should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hello. I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a guy my age for 4 months. It was brilliant - I don't belive in soulmates, but he's pretty close. For both of us, it was the best relationship we'd had, on a whole new level. A few days ago he told me ...

My ex broke up from her boyfriend and is all lovey-dovey with me, why then she turns me down? Is she playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Ok, just another Question needin an honest outside opinion. My ex and i were dating for almost 2 years. She gets jealous of me dating other girls and she is still very physically attracted to me. She says she never wants to be with me again, but her ...

He almost never replies to my texts, but I want to know how he feels about me. What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi Cupid, So, there's a guy at school in Yr12 and I have been in love with him for about a year now, and recently I told him who I was, and that was ok, and I text him maybe once a month, because I got his phone number from where we work. Anyw...

We broke up because he moved away for college, but now I live close to him and we slept together again. I still have feelings for him, so how do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i went out with this guy for about 8 months ( First bf and lost virginity to him). We hooked up for about 3 months after. We broke up cuz he was going to college and we didn't want to do the long distance thing. It was really sad cuz we both still ...

I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...

God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June ...

How can I survive being the 3rd wheel when I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - This is some much a question then the fact that i just need some re-ensuring that what im doing is right.. ok here it is, my best friend likes another one of friends, and she likes him (they have both admitted it) ... them like eaching has just...

What can I do to get my relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for over four years now. Nine months ago my partner and I moved in together and away from our parents from the first time. We also moved with two mutual friends of ours. My partner has become increasingly ...

We planned our future together but now that she's in college..she doesn't want that anymore! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Ok so this situation is very complex but me an my girlfriend have been together for almost two years and we have talked about marriage and having kids down the road and everyday she would tell me how much she loved me and sending me messages that ...

This female has sent me nude photos and claims she's pregnant with my child! It's not true...how do I convince my gf that this other girl is a liar??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupids, I have a bit of a strange problem. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and a half. I love her and (hopefully) she loves me. But that's not the problem. Before i started seeing my girlfriend, I was set up on a ...

I have started seeing a great guy. but my son and mother have a problem with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - about 3 wks ago,i started romantically seeing a male friend of 6yrs.so it was AMAZING to start with - the sex has been totally fantatsic, i was always fond of him and he of me but now we are getting really close and we cannot wait to talk to each ...

We flirted a lot - what now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I work at a grocery store and the power went out so I was sent to help pack customers bags to get the out of the story quickly because it was closing. Well I was put into this place with this girl ive never seen (im new to the place) and she asked ...