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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like him, he likes me, but he used to go out with one of my good friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - i like this boy a lot. and he's told me he does also. but one of my good friends use to go out with him, and i know she likes him. but i know he doesn't like her. but i don't like to be with her at school because when he's around i can't really go ...

I'm not going to ask him out, but how do I get him to ask me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - hello. there's this boy at my school. we went out a couple years back but it wasn't anything serious, i mean we were like 11-12? so yeah. but this year i started to like him so much. and he talked to me first. so we've been talking since and he's ...

I interviewed her for a job, does she seem interested in me? And if so, how do I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - Hello to all! A young lady applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. I call her later to clarify stuff on the CV and she...

How often is it okay to text her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and still in school, but have a massive crush on a girl in my year. I think about her all the time..and I was wondering how often it is ok to text her? Is once a night to much? She never blows me off and always seems to give in...

How can I stop the way I feel about him without stopping the friendship? I'm married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Im married and have a terrible crush on someone who is 20years younger than me! I have tried stop how I feel and thought I I was over it but it started up again. I really enjoy his company and like how I feel with him but know it's wrong. How can ...

How can I drop hints that I like him?

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12 September 2008 (F) - hi there. well i really need some advice. lets cuts straight to the story then, erm well ive liked this lad only recently and he is in the year below me. how can i drop hints to make him get the idea i like him? nothing to major cause im quite sh...

Is he with her because she's pregnant or does he really want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Okay here is the problem: I am 23 yrs old so this goes back 6 yrs ago. I dated a guy in high school basically all four years - we had rough times, but always wanted to be together. We broke up in 05' - I jumped immediately into a relation...

I can't see him for another month! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend got grounded earlier today for a month, when i get ungrounded on monday, we both have strict parents and don't deserve to be punnished as we've done nothing wrong (both for different reasons btw) meaning i can't see him, or talk to him ...

Likes me, likes me not?

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12 September 2008 (F) - my childhood friend is also my crush and his friends tease me and says he likes me. Does he? Okay, i'll go into details. His friends always say he likes me, his sms replys are becoming more and more "instant" than usual, i caught him starring at me ...

Did he cheat? Or is he mad at me for making the acusation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 4 months had just broke up.He broke it off with me cause i questioned if he was cheating which he denied. I told him his friend told me and he said i was tring to get him mad at his friend.Of course he denied it and said a ...

He is threatening to take away my child once it is born!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - What do i do my boyfriend physically and mentally abuses me. Im pregnant now with his kid and he is threatening to take my kid and leave me and get me for child support... weve been dating since i turned 16. i got pregnant about 8 weeks ago. i just ...

Suggestions on starting a conversation with a girl please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - Hi. I like this girl, blah blah blah, I'm sure you've heard it before. I'd just like some suggestions for conversation. If I know what I'm going to say, I can be a lively conversationalist. If I don't know what I'm going to say, I'll just sit there ...

Where can I meet a potential date? I dislike clubbing, and joining a club is not a good idea as all my interests are mainly "girly".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - I need some ideas of where I could meet some guys and hopefully one turn into a bf. Im not into the whole clubbing scene, and besides most people who do that typicall only want one night stands. So that is out of the question. My work is mainly a...

How much longer can I act cold towards him after his asking me out? Am I strong? We're coworkers, I don't know if I fancy him? Will I be misinterpreted if I ask to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Hi. Any other women had this issue? I've been friendly with a guy at work for about 3 years. As far as I am concerned I've treated him just like any other guy at work i.e. professionally. So, we are not friends as such, but certainly friendly ...

I don't want to push him into a relationship (he's freshly divorced) but I can't "hang around" indefinitely. He said while drunk that he didn't want to make me suffer. We haven't had sex yet. Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy now and again for the past year. It started out as a friendship but last year was difficult because he was going through a difficult divorce and he was quite distressed about everything. His wife told him that he had made ...

How can I tell if he is (not) interested? I'm afraid I will scare him away if I express my interest in him!

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12 September 2008 (F) - There is someone i am intrested in but i just don't know how 2 go about it..i don't know that if i say anything it will scare him away i just want to know how can u tell if a guy is intrested in u or not? Will there be any signs? Certain thing...

She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been ...

I hurt my soulmate because of talking to my ex. How do I get him to trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - I'm having a problem with my boyfriend whom i really love and at one time we felt like soul mates we would finish each others sentences, he made my heart skip a beat every time he called me or came around my heart would race. but like a dickhead i ...

My mood swings are killing me since he cheated! I just don't know what to do....

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12 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We are both young-he is 23 and I am 21. He cheated on me in December last year 2-3 months into our relationship. I found out exactly three weeks ago. I was completely shocked and heartbro...

Do you think her brother will harm me after I pushed her too far?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (?) - My girlfriend(my best friends sister) is a shy qutie around me, we were sitting at in my room yesterday, just softly kissing each other on the mouth and I started getting rough with her, kissing her all over and fast and I kinda forced her to do it ...

Am I the bad guy or is she manipulating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - I am not sure if I am the bad guy or it is just her manipulating me. She has bad past experiences. Knowing that, I always assure her and do things her way. Is it wrong that I fulfill her need before mine? Sometimes, she is nice to me a...

I'm going crazy! I can't help but think that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so I can't help but think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me! And in all reality, there is absolutly NO reason for me to be feeling that way. He has never done it before, and he always tells me how much he loves me and how I am the best ...

What do I do? My ex is 28 yrs older and doesn't want to have kids, my boyfriend is 40 and wants kids in the future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - My ex bf and me have never broken up, well we split up, but he has always been there for me, helping me economically. I have a new bf since Feb, he does not know I date both, neither does my ex bf. Right now I feel dirty and desperate, I think I lo...

My friend told me my boyfriend invited her over to his house, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Is it ok if my boyfriend asks my friend which is a girl to go over his place? he never told me but my friend told me that he invited her over. so what should i do ?? honestly i wasn't ok with it, and she didn't go! but should i confront him and ...

How can I cheer my friend up? She's distraught because she cheated, but then so did her boyfriend, but his was just a one nighter.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - Hey there, this is more of a problem about one of my friends and i need advice on how to help her out. A few weeks ago, my best friend (let's call her Stacy) went away for a few days. She has a boyfriend (let's call him John) and they both get alon...