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female
age
36-40,
*ipsydoodlenoodle
writes:Well here goes; Me and my bf have been together almost two and a half years now. In that length of time he has never given me an orgasm (I’m not complaining by the way), but yesterday he got really upset about it, and I would like him to be able to give me one, for his sake and not mine. I don’t really agree with the whole masturbation thing, I have tried a few times but always gotten bored after about 10mins of getting no where. My bf can hit the spot, through oral and rubbing etc but within a minute he has lost it (also my experience). We’ve tried different positions and stuff but nothing works. I really don’t want to fake one for him, because I don’t want to lie to him. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions to try please? I know people say give it time but it’s been 2 and a half years. I mean I’ve been getting there before but never a full one, because people always say you just know when you have had one…and I am pretty sure that I never have done; I’ve gotten tingly and shaky a couple of times but mostly its just the feeling of needing to pee…I always go before sex so its not like its that. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008): Get on top and just let yourself go. I am always on top , and that is the only way I have ever been able to orgasm and I have been having sex for 15 years. Don't think about him just move the way that feels best for you.
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