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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I a bad person because I either want everything or nothing at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - I've been moved reassigned from LDR to "friend" and she can't understand why my attitude towards her has changed. She's been hinting at it for a couple weeks now by telling me what she wants in a man (none of which I am) and the other night she ...

It turns me on to think of my girlfriend having sex with other guys! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - hello cupid site. i am 19 a male and i have been dating my gf for a good amount of time now. i dont know what to say but i have a really odd question. we broke up before and got back together but for some reason it turned me on so bad to think about ...

Is he losing interest in me? He has trouble staying erect...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I am 23 years old and engaged to a man who is 30. We have been together for 4 years and have had a good sex life until recently. About a month ago we start having problems, where my sex drive is a lot higher than his and he is not satisfying me. ...

He acts like we are a couple even though he has a girlfriend! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Right, I'll start at the beginning. I'm 15, very nearly 16, a Christian, and go to church. There is a big youth group there, and the minister's children go to this. They are L, 23, R, 21, N, 17, and C, 13. My problem is with R. He'...

If my ex is not the real father, is it wrong to have a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - i was with my ex boyfriend for a year and 7 months. i broke up with him because my mom doesnt approove of his age, since he is 24 and im only 17. i immediatly got into another relationship, and accidently got pregnent. i am now 4 months pregnent...

Having a girlfriend is stressful for him right now so how should I support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a healthy and supportive relationship. We don't really fight much. I've helped him through his academy. He's helped me through school for the past year. When the program for school ...

I can't seem to find other girls that even compare to my ex! It's depressing...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - A couple of months back I met MY perfect girl, it was an utter freak to find such a match. Her age, rare interests, personality and passions were also mine. We are both known to be extremely thoughtful and nice people, though me being pretty damn ...

My desire for a relationship is strong but I think my size is an issue! How can I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and love...

Am I being selfish for wanting him to pleasure me? Should he always use a condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 7 months. We have taken it slow and respect each other sexually; we are still virgins as well but I am on birth control and we are working on sex (he's too be for me). When we fool around though, ...

I have a friend I like, and I feel threatened by this female friend of his, what do yous uggest that I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I am currently in the friendship stages with a nice guy who lives in staffordshire we get on well and have met once.He has several female friends one of which he is visiting at the moment, he says there is nothing sexual between them. She has just...

Scared to tell him I love him in case he doesn't say it back, and I don't know how to tell him either.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, You'll probably think me silly for writing about this but i feel so miserable. Been with my boyfriend for a while now, i am so so happy we've both met each others family and all that stuff the problem is im falling in love with him and it s...

Men do seek me but they only want sex. This guy wants emotional bonding with me but at his terms. Do you think he's taking me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I am a separated woman in a relationship with a separated man.Both of us dont want to get back in our tragic marriages. He is the shy types and i am a hard die romantic but both of us like each other as we are simple honest people. I have met all ...

I want us to last but we argue alot and he seems to still want to be with his wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I am confused.ive been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. He is still married but seperated and has kids.I love him but we have alot of money problems and we argue alot. I also think he still gets together with his wife and im not sure i can ...

Should we break the law and date if we are really in love??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - hi, I'm only 13 years old and theres this guy; hes 17. I went out with him at the beginning of the summer then we broke up cause we didnt want to get in trouble and im still in love with him. I think about him 24 7 and i recently found out he lik...

Shoud I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - Hi Dear Cupid, I feel that I am a bit lost at the moment. I met a girl at uni last year and we became really good friends, we would hang out together almost everyday and talk to each other everynight online. I became really attracted to her...

Am I too old for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - help i like a lad who i have known for over a year who is 14, he has told my best friend that he likes me but i am 19 what shall i do am i too old!?...

What should I say? Does he like me? How should I approach him? Please help I feel like I am going insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (?) - In January I met somebody who I was not particularly interested in - at the time I was hopelessly 'in love' with my married art teacher whose wife is now pregnant. He was 17 at the time and I was 14. We went on a theatre trip together and he seemed ...

How can I subtly hint I like him too??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - Okay so im going to sound like such a loser but oh well. I am 15 and go to an all girls school, and i have a few good guy friends but not that many although ive got off with a few people at parties when ive been drunk i havent had a serious boyfrien...

I don't know if he ever liked me but I have this feeling that he did, because of all his hints. Is there a chance he still does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I've known this guy just over 10 years (since high school, we're both 25 now). Back at school we used to flirt all the time and we went to the school dance together but nothing ever happened between us. At school I had this stupid crush on an older ...

I lied to make it seem I was thinking about her, she's mad, I want to fix it because I'm in love with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - i went out with this girl who i was madly in love with and she broke up with me and went back to her ex who treated her very poorly. she now left her ex in hopes of going back out with me but i messed it up. one night we were talking on the phone ...

My parents think it's wrong for me to date a black guy, is this racist?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - My mom and dad are soo protective. i like this black guy...alot and he likes me. but my parents think it is wrong for a white girl to date a black boy. i think thats racsism. but me and this boy have been talking for a year and we tell each other ...

She's against me going down on her or fingering her. How can I boost her confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - Hi, really needing some advice, I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and she is happy to give me head and says she will have sex soon if i want it but she is very against me giving her head and/or fingering her and won't tell me why. We ...

Should I ask him if he's seeing other girls? He said he's not ready for a commitment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for awhile now but he's long distance and we only see each other about once a month. He told me at the beginning that he's not in a place in his life to commit to anyone and I said ok but we still go out and things have ...

How does a player act when he finally falls in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - Does anyone out there know how a "player" acts when he finally falls in love? I think I'm being pursued by one who in the past has had women pursuing him. I really need to know the answer to this question because it will help me decide what I need ...

Is my mental health damaging my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I'm worried that my mental health issues are affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. He's very, very supportive, loving and kind, and he encourages me to talk about my feelings - he's even told me to phone him, no matter what time of day or n...

His family doesn't like me so what should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - Okay I'm bi and there's this boy I like. We're pretty good friends, and I know he likes me. My mom has no problem with it, but his mom and his sister do. Another problem is there's a bit of an age difference between me and him. I'm 16 and he's ...

How do I break the ice? I told him I had a crush and now things seem different.

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14 September 2008 (?) - Sorry, this is so long. My now ex-fiance and I moved to a 2-family house 2 yrs ago and his best friend lives right upstairs. Naturally, his friend is here a lot and usually has breakfast with us and comes over after work - basically all his free ...

My partner went to prison for attacking me and then I had an affair. Should I break up our family for this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him John) for 5 years, we have 2 children together. Last year he went to prison for 4 months for attacking me . I held out and was faithful to him but since he's been home I just don't fancy him. We n...

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

Do I need to wait for more signals that he's interested or should I just go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - So there is this guy im somewhat intrested in..we met at school and we instantly clicked however we are just friends. We always talk at school and even hang afterschool 2 study sometimes..we text eachother back and forth almost..well pretty much ...