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30-35,
*ello world
writes:Well i tryed giving my boyfriend a bj and hj but its like im hurting him but yet its not my first time doing this and i have no clue what to do! i want to give him the best cause thats what he does for me but it seems im just hurting him everytime...what should i do?! Reply to this Question
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reader, breathless  +, writes (29 September 2008):
educate yourself with books,internet etc then go for it,if he still complains he is at fault not you
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 About the only way that you could be "hurting him" is that your teeth are scraping the shaft, although another possibility is that your grip on the penis is too tight and pulling down too forcefully as you bob up and down. Of course, you might first consider asking him if you are doing something that makes him uncomfortable. It might be good first not to grip his penis at the base at all - primarily just using your mouth and lips - while being very careful with your teeth. There are other alternatives, such as laying back with your head resting on a couple of pillows and allow him to insert from above as he prefers. This allows him to control. Usually, all you have to do in that position is suck and keep your lips as tight as possible.
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