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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Third option. Should I wait for more clear signs before reaching a decision on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

31 May 2016 (M) - I have fallen for a best friend of mine. I don’t know if his feelings are reciprocated, what I do know is that I am walking between the borderline of acting on my feelings and pursuing him as more than a friend or restraining myself altogether and ...

Should I tell how I feel, even though she is not gay and has a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - So i've really liked this girl for four years from college. I am certain she did had some feelings for me. However, She has a boyfriend, and ive just left college and dont think i will ever see her or speak to her again. I am not looking for ...

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work ...

We had our problems. Now its much later and I've moved on. Should I unblock him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm new to this website so sorry if i make any mistakes. There is this guy I know that is the most confusing... one day my friends and i were playing a game where we had to tell everyone who we liked (on facebook messenger). i liked him bu...

She's engaged but my boyfriend checks out her facebook page every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My bf n I have been dating for about 4 yrs now. We r both college grads n about to start professional schools. We have a solid relationship but one thing has always bothered me. My bf either has a crush or really really likes one of his friends from ...

Do I have a chance? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

29 May 2016 (M) - Background: I'm a 13 yr old boy of Sierra Leonean descent(African) who lives in a south London flat, and I go to a private secondary boys school on a bursary in the center of London. I'm an only child and I never really knew my dad but that's beside ...

Sexual tension you could cut with a knife... But we're both married. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - So I have an issue at work that I need some help dealing with. There is this guy a few years older (married with kids) who has always on and off lightly flirted with me. I ignore him because I'm married as well. Over the past couple of months...

He is the best friend of a guy I used to like. Does the best friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3088 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - So basically, about 2 years ago, I moved to a new college and so did a new friend that I had made. We both ended up really liking each other. His bestfriend also came to this new college too. At the beginning the bestfriend and I really got along. ...

Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...

He ignores me and treats me like I don't exist ever since we had a one night stand. How can I better handle this rejection?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hi there, I'm married with 10 childrens and had an affair with a man that has 4 Children. We go to the same church and that's where everything happened. He smiled at me all the time and then it ended up into a one night stand we met up and ha...

What can or should I do? I can't stop thinking about another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I'm in big trouble. I haven't been happy in my marriage for years now. I still love my husband and like him but not like I used to, he is an alright person but does some questionable things. He has been unfaithful with another woman. However he ...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

Does he still like me? Friends think yes. I thought so too, but now I don't know

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I like this guy in a bar and he's working there and for the past few weeks whenever he's there he always looks at me and tries to strike up a conversation, but I'm always with my friends and it's kinda hard to have a decent conversation with so ...

I can't imagine breaking up with him, and I can't live with my married lover. How do I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 3 years this June. He has told me he does not love me. But he loves having sex with me. The passion we share and the sex we have is out of this world. Even after 3 years, we continue to reac...

I asked her about meeting up but she's gone cold. How can I become friends with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - I became friends with this girl I liked at work and also on social media right away. We get on well with each other and she always finds the time to talk to me. The only problem I have is. That I worry I say the wrong things to her and can't re...

He said I was 'the one' but I found out he has a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - my ex and I have been having a fling for a couple years, I had hopes and though it would lead us back together. he would say I love you but I don't want to settle just yet but when I do your the one. I always had the impression we were very clo...

He wont talk to me after a fight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I've been talking with this guy for months now, but lately I'm juSt having difficulty dealing with him. He was really caring, and acts nice and always tries to keep the conversation going. We had a fight a 2 weeks ago, and I hurt him with my ...

Chance to see a girl at a party who I talked to online, before she rejected me. Do I try to speak to her? Do I just pretend it never happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

23 May 2016 (M) - This is quite embarrassing but I met a girl online. I found out recently I have the chance to meet her. Really random and unlikely, so maybe its a sign we are meant to be? Either way all this time I still have not moved on and forgot about her...

Is he interested and should I wait for him to make a move or do it myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - (I’ve just realized I wrote such a long post! Sorry and thanx for reading!) There’s this guy I like very much. We are both divorced. He has kids. I think he may be interested in me. We haven’t exchanged phone numbers, we see each other at our fri...

Is wanting a relationship normal, even if you don't even know what it's like to be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys! So I haven't been on this site in years but I find myself needing advice again. My birthday is in a couple of days and im just feeling so lonely, just another year passing without any change. I've never been in love or had a boyfriend ...

Feeling confused over a crush. What can I do, to overcome the crush, without cutting ties with this man, who has been so kind to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - I am looking for advice on this I have became friendly with a man who is 20 years older than myself. He has always helped me out with DIY and other things and been really nice. He is married with a family. I have a boyfriend who travels a lot wi...

I have a crush on my coach but does he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a massive crush on my coach for a specific sport and I'm wondering if he likes me back or if it is all in my head? I just started a few weeks ago and I've learned his name and a bit about him, what school he went to, how old ...

If he wants to treat me like a friend then why is he also flirting with me? Is he interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3099 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - Hi, dear agony aunts! Moving straight to the issue- I was in a relationship with this man during the middle of the last year. He decided to break up with me as he was not "mentally detached" from his ex flames. And that too over a silly text me...

Does he want a committed relationship? Or production of more children? Or the chance to meet me for sex to make babies? Confused by him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - I am a muslim lady 30yrs of age. Recently got talking to an older guy of around 51 yrs.actually he is a family friend, got to know him the past 5 yrs but nothing was between us til recently, he started picking interest in me. Its now 6 months sin...

How can I re-establish a bond with this guy I'm crushing for? He seems indifferent to me now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - i am a girl who has a lot of guy friends. i flirt with them a lot. Among my guy friends, there's one that i have crush on since a few months ago. we used to talk a lot and he would act so nice to me, he made me smile a lot too. unfortunately, i...

Am I playing with fire?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - I'm wondering if my male coworker is attracted to me. Here's how it is: He constantly teases me and tries to get me to smile, which isn't hard because he's funny and our job sucks. Sometimes he comes up behind me and whispers "Boo!" in m...

How can I be less sensitive and toughen up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

18 May 2016 (M) - OK so I have this thing that shouldn't be a problem but it is. My teeth are a mess. Not so much an overbite but my back teeth close but my front teeth don't. They're all really crowded and I have this bottom tooth that sits way out so I look like a ...

I have trust issues. Should I trust a man who I have never met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - Hi so i met this guy online, cute, funny lots in common, he asked me out Friday but also wanted to meet me today then again friday. I'm busy so cant. But I keep seeing him online on this date site we met on and Yesterday he said he got spam (I d...

Full of doubts about him. Feeling less trusting about him. Am I being too distrustful? Can I trust him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

16 May 2016 (F) - hey guys am in a relationship with this guy for three months now. i love him a lot and he says he also loves me a lot. he says i make him happy every time and so on. But the problem is one night when we were talking on phone and i asked him to g...

He sent a false rumor around that I sucked him off. (I'm 14) Yet I still think he is gorgeous. I need your help, please? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - Hey , This is kinda embarresing but there's this guy who I've liked for YEARS now literally and he knows that I've liked him for that long. I think about him ALL the time. He makes me so nervous and everyone else blurs and I only see him. But he's...

Met this guy and he has a Gf. What should I do? I am yet to tell me that I'm divorcing my husband.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - My husband I have agreed to divorce. We still live together because it's convenient but we treat each other as roommates and I will probably stay at our house for at least next three months. About two months ago I met a guy through mutual friends....

Have I given him a bad impression by allowing this kiss to happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - So last night was my first kiss with nu bf. We've been seeing for about 4 weeks and me and some friends went to his place (were 14) and I was bored so I went behind his sofa to lie down and text people. He got a blanket and put it over my head then...

I still have feelings for him, but don't feel we have a future together. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - Hi Cupid, I was in love with a man who divorced 3 years ago. We had known each other for more than 2 years at school. Before our relationship started, by reading comments on his social media accounts, i already suspected that he had a number of ...

Who do I choose? My best friend or my crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - there is a boy in my class and i really and i really like him but i know my friend does too. i know if i try telling him i love him then my friend will get mad at me and fall out with me. who do i choose my best freind or the boy i love...

To her it was just a kiss. Should I talk to her about it? The kiss made a big impact on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

14 May 2016 (M) - Hung out with a good friend last week, and I ended up with my first kiss which lead to some more kissing as well. Granted, a lot of alcohol was involved, and we both knew something may happen if we spent the night drinking. Nonetheless, we had fun, ...

Can I keep talking to him, even though I now know that he is not interested? Would that be too awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - Alright so I had a huge crush on a friend of mine. I would talk to him about everyday, and it made me feel jittery and alive. I had dreamt about him near nightly, and felt nearly in love. He decided to talk to someone who we both know, and told them...

I don't know how to let down my emotional barrier.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - Hi so you're probably thinking how couhaveld trust issues with guys I'm too young or whatever. I've never had a boyfriend but I've seen those close to me being taken for a mug on a relationship including my mum. So now whenever I find myself getting ...

I like him but don't want to waste my emotions only to find out he doesn't feel the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - I have been battling depression for a couple of years, I have never dated because I'm always too scared. I always cut them off as soon as possible. Recently I met this guy, he is one hell of a something, he is always happy and full of life, unlike ...

Am I over-reacting? Is this girl trying to cause trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3106 days ago

11 May 2016 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I are both in our 30's. We have been together a few years. There is one particular woman I have been having an issue with for a couple of years. I don't know their relationship, I suspect he cheated on me with her though he ...

I should go at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - So I really liked this guy, who at first liked me too, but who now has feelings for my best friend instead. My best friend isn't into him in that way because she has someone she already really likes but on my end it still kind of hurts and is weird...

Not sure if this is a crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - Hi, so I've recently become sort of friends with this guy in one of my college classes. We make each other laugh and he's just a great guy to talk to and be around. I'm having feelings and I don't know what kind of feelings they are. Either I...

Is this synchronicity? Should I contact her or let her be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3106 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - I have a few questions that I need help with. I am 40, I am attracted to woman and my husband knows. I have been waiting on a female, the right one so to speak. I found her, I think but its complicated. I have not talked with her for abou...

Is he faking his love for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now, he had always been a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He spends hours talking to me non stop. He always flirt with me and always opens up to me and shows me how deep and how sensitiv...

Why? He seemed interested. Then he dissed me to my coworkers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - There's a guy at my work place who I had a crush on who seemed to like me too. Most of my coworkers pointed it out and has been talking about it for weeks. He would flirt with me, playfully push or tease me and go out of his way to talk to me which...

Did I make a mistake telling his friend that I'm interested in him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - So there's a guy I find attractive in one of my classes (who shall be named N). Naturally I sneak peeks at N and it seems like he does the same (but they say infatuated people misinterpret things so this could just be me getting my hopes up). ...

Should I consider this relationship as a possible LDR? How would I raise this with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

7 May 2016 (F) - I met a great guy on an online dating site last summer. We only went out once, but I liked him. He's everything I'm looking for in a guy - Tall, Smart (med student), Asian, caring, compassionate, etc... The only problem is...he goes to school in...

My ex acts like he's interested but he does not want to break up with his Girlfriend. Is he playing both of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - In my opinion, I am in a very unstable relationship with my ex boyfriend. As much as I love him and want to be with him, i think he's not being fair to me and being very sketchy. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me but he's putting ...

My ex is flirting with me. How do I keep the friendship but not resume the relationship with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - A few years ago I was in a bad group of friends. Drinking, smoking weed, job after job, no hope for the future, and I was with a guy who back then seemed perfect but now not so much. When my Nan died, I got myself together, went back to college w...

Why do I have this school girl type of crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - I have a boyfriend but have a secret crush on a man that sometimes comes into my workplace.i also see him out and about regularly. It has been a bit of an obsession of mine for about six months now. I am literally crazy about this guy although I ...

Does my fiance's female friend fancy him? Should I be concerned? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

4 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice please I feel awful. My boyfriend and I got engaged recently and I couldnt be happier about it, there is just one thing that is really getting me down and making ne question everything. He has a female school friend w...