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writes:I have a boyfriend but have a secret crush on a man that sometimes comes into my workplace.i also see him out and about regularly. It has been a bit of an obsession of mine for about six months now. I am literally crazy about this guy although I know very little about him including if he has a partner. I think about him non stop and crave to see him. When I do see him I feel giddy. It's crazy. I have a wonderful partner and don't know what's going on its like a school girl crush
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 May 2016):
 Try and think about what it is you are obsessing over? Is it his looks? His personality? Try and think deep, then ask yourself are you really happy with your current boyfriend or is your mind trying to tell you otherwise.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (5 May 2016):
 Its OK to have a crush but an obsession...that doesn't sound normal. Are you sure you're happy in your present relationship? Does this wonderful partner of yours know about this obsession of yours? How would you feel if he was "obsessed" with another girl at his place of work?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 May 2016):
 Nothing is wrong here we all feel that rush of secret crush from time to time just be careful and don't act on it. Once the "secret" part is gone it is no longer a crush and you'll not like what happens next just let the secret remain a secret so that it's titillating.
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