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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should I tell the guy I love that I love him? - long back story urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3551 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Hey girls and guys . Heres the back story to my problem. I've been in love with the same guy (my best guy friend) since I met him 3/4 years ago. However our relationship is not what I wish it could have been. The first time I tried to tell him...

She is seeing someone else, should I continue with her or not bother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

28 February 2015 (M) - I met this incredible girl we share a lot of the same interests. From the beginning she stared she is seeing someone else, we spent Valentine's Day together and then spent the following Saturday cuddling and watching movies. Then broke contact for a ...

Four years ago I had a crush on her, should I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3553 days ago

27 February 2015 (M) - So their's this girl she sits next to me in highschool ... I kinda liked her for me we had a connection and my friends teased us too but she had this boyfriend and i was a geek in highschool (paper editor and no social life)... And when we went ...

I'm fine with being friends, but he is sending mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I have had this guy friend for about 4 months. We are just good friends that hangout and have a good time together, and great friends that we have classes together at school (college). I had begin to develops feelings for him because we were ...

He is Armenian and I am Chinese, should I bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I met a guy, and think I am starting to like him. But the problem is thate we're of different races. I'm Chinese and he's Armenian. I've heard that Armenians are against dating outside their own race. I live in an Asian community and he lives in an ...

My boyfriend and I are going to try swinging, will it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have decided that are both going to try swinging, or whatever works for us. Not often, but sometimes .. maybe a few times a year if even. Anyway, we broke up last year for two months (something totally unrelated). Duri...

I have a crush on a girl 2 years older than me, but I have never talked to her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - Hi guiz..I am a 16 year old male...i love a girl of my neighbourhood ..i love her very much..but she is two years older then me. I have never talk to her becoz im afraid.but i think she love me because she always looks into my eyes very deeply a...

How do I make it work with a 24 year old man I met in Cuba?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I am a 16 (nearly 17) year old girl from London, UK... I have visited Cuba 7 times and I have some very good friends there. In June I met a guy aged 24 who worked at the hotel I stay in who was very sweet. I didn't stay in touch with him but ...

I'm worried I'm only falling for who I think he is and not who he really is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - hi, i really need some advice because i think i am falling for a guy i don't even know… my friend set me up with him, he goes to a different school, is in the year above and lives quite nearby. we have been texting non stop but only for around ...

Will my professor notice if I stop admiring him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

22 February 2015 (?) - hi! I am a student n I have a huge crush on a professor. He has come to know dat i like him .He also knows that i look at him. He is single n he is 5 years elder to me. By any chance will it affect him if i stop looking at him ? Will he notice that ...

Interested in a co-worker. Last week, she was playful and fun. This week, she's snapping and short-answered.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

22 February 2015 (M) - I work with this girl on a bar. She is attractive, and met her a couple weeks ago while working. There was so real playfulness between us and I thought that there could be something. Fast forward to last night. Coming off the back if a great week,...

I'm in a bit of a predicament ......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Ok so I'm in a little bit of a predicament. I really like this guy that works down the street from me at this food place and we do text each other and tease one another playfully when we see each other around town. Hes ridiculously shy and has told ...

Emailed a co-worker my feelings for her after she quit. It's been seven days.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

21 February 2015 (M) - Hello, I had a girl in my office to whom i love, I was never ever able to tell her about my feelings and one day she left the company and after she left i still have feelings for her. So i wrote a love letter after a one year since she left the ...

How do I get over 10 years older than me crush and give the guy a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - I've been question my sexuality for about 7/8 years now - since I was around 9 years old. I gradually came to accept that whatever happens will happen, and I'll fall for who I fall for. I've never had physical attraction to guys, yet I have women ...

Do I answer her or not? She messages me, I ignore her. She keeps messaging. How to get her to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

19 February 2015 (?) - Do I answer to this girl or not. We were family friends and became closer two years ago and at first she thought I was a player but as we got closer realized that I was far from it. I was trying to go from a "nice guy" to a jerk and she told me not ...

I'm too shy to talk to him so how do I get him to make a move? If he likes me, that is. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Let me begin by saying I possess poor social skills. We sit far away and I catch him staring at me a lot -- or maybe he's just blankly staring. His eyes are wide open and his mouth is in a straight line. His eyebrows are sometimes raised...

Am I obsessed because I love her, and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (M) - so lately i have been very very possesive about a girl, we became friends about a year ago ,and i knew we will never get married and also i wasnt lookin for a gf, everything was fine, but after 6 months she told me she had a bf before for 5 years, ...

Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (?) - Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. When...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

I really want to get to know her, but need some effective strategies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - I'm a 20-year-old university student studying Psychology in London. Recently I have been able to get back into lectures after being off for nearly a month with a chest inefection and intermittent bouts of depression. Prior to that, I have always ...

What do I about the woman I can't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - i have no idea what to do! a week ago, i began a course and on it are some great people. but one of them i really like. the issue is she is engaged. i am usually slow to trust people and even once i trust people, am never comfortable with them. i ...

Would it be wrong to tell my cousin's ex-crush that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - I have this huge crush on a guy in my class. I've liked him on and off for 5-6 months now. We met through my cousin and he's a really sweet guy. First thing's first, I'm nervous about telling him how I feel. I've dropped hints about it, pretty ...

She's shy, she's a friend, and I want to ask her out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - This may sound like a newbie question but I am a newbie so here goes. So there's this girl I really like at uni and I really want to tell her how I feel. Problem being we're both quite shy and I've never asked anyone out to their face before I...

Is there any point in me telling him how much I love and admire him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - If you like/love someone, should you tell them how you feel even if you KNOW 100% that nothing will happen between you? Like is there any point? Only asking because I have feelings for someone and the only reason I want to tell them is because I ...

We keep talking about meeting up but nothing comes of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a while and we always talk about metting up but nothing ever becomes of it. We go to different schools so I see him once a week in the bus and even at that he smiles and then sits with his friends. We talk all the ...

I fell for the cousin of a girl who rejected me two years ago.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, I have just experienced a weird experience. So I would love to hear your opinions. I met a girl yesterday during a journey. She was sitting next to me in the bus. We kept talking the most of the time during the journey. I thin...

I think I like him, but he might be starting to like somebody else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3566 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - So there's this guy in my class. He was my partner for a leadership position for the last year. (We're not holding those positions now) apparently this year, I found out from his close friends and rumors and ships that he likes me. At first, I was ...

She's falling for my ex-crush. How can I deal with this and not lose friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Hey guys, so I'm in a pretty complicated spot here. My best friend and I are very close, but them last week something happened. She's falling head over heels in love with my ex-crush. I have a boyfriend, yes, but she feels like she shouldn't go...

In love with a very famous professional athlete

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - I had a chance encounter with a world famous professional athlete last summer on social media. I began tweeting him cute silly things figuring he'd never notice me because he gets virtually thousands of tweets everyday, especially from women. Thin...

Fallen for one guy. Like another guy, as just a friend. Both flirting with me. How do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I have ran into a dilemma. I broke up a guy I've fallen for a boy a year older than me, in my band, and he's the nicest person I've ever met. He's helped me through some pretty harsh times. And there's his friend. In my view, we're like siblings....

Did the new girl's attention make me realize the relationship that I'm in is bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

11 February 2015 (M) - Hi, My name's Dirk, I'm going on 24 next week and I'm in a bit of a pickle. A bit of background story: I have a bad relationship with my parents, have had a decent if not awesome relationship with my girlfriend, Sarah for 4 years no...

Is my crush being polite or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - There's this cute guy in my swimming class. I think i'm starting to like him, but I don't know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, but ...

Barely a month together. Yet his ex still visits his parents? What can I do about this situation, because I do love him?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - hello, really bothered about this. My bf and I have been dating for barely one month now. he told me about his ex who he dated for about two years but said he is no longer interested in her because her dad doesn't seem to like him and some other r...

What strategy would be best to deal with my flirty boss? It has never gone beyond flirting.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - Hi dear aunts and uncles, I need your advice for a simple situation that I Am not sure how to handle it because of my lack of experince in situations like this due to my past life. I really apprecite your help. I worked with my boss for some...

I like him a lot but he never initiates contact

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - I met a guy through mutual friends a month ago. The first time we met, I felt an instant attraction towards him and I felt that he was attracted to me too. A week later, I found out through a mutual friend that he is in a relationship wit...

I don't want to chase but I really like this man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I met an amazing man on an online dating site, who coincidentally works in my office (we are both academics, same school, different departments). We had a coffee date last week and it was the best date ever! We had so ...

What do men think when the girl makes the first move? Is his silence the response?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - So if you live in a different country but kept in touch with a group of friends, one of whom, is a crush, in a group setting kind of thing on Facebook. You exchanged pleasantries with this guy and have tons of things in common, like finishing each ...

Realised I have still feelings for my married crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - I had what can be called an emotional affair with a married man for two years... very strong feelings on my side, (sexual) flirting from his side and even some love confessions (feelings). I guess we were both obsessed with each other. We see ...

Should I make an excuse or tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3364 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - A very close friend of mine from work has expressed interest in moving in with my roommate and I, as we have always gotten along great in a group. The two of us have been spending a lot of time together and think we would be great roommates. The ...

When I admire nude women does that mean I am objecrifying them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

7 February 2015 (M) - I sometimes admire the female shape in nude pictures...mostly artistic photography but sometimes more erotic glamour pics. The elegant lines and curves are beautiful and endlessly fascinating. Usually I'd rather look at an excellent body than at ...

Did this girl play me? What should I do? She knows I was definitely interested in her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3574 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - So I met this girl out one night with mutual friends. We used to speak every day for quite some months, flirting and we seemed to have become comfortable around each other and developing a friendship too. I gave an interest in her family and frie...

What's his message here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, When I was 15 I had a huge crush on a guy who all the girls liked. We dated a bit, we never slept together. We nearly did but due to my age he behaved (he was 19 at the time). His on/ off girlfriend got jealous and we lost touch. I'm ...

Was he just being nice, did I make a fool out of myself, or does he want to see me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3364 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I've met this guy at a party that I recently went to and we hit it off immediately. He is a very close friend of my friend C. I really liked him right from the start but I didn't really think of it much, but we started to talk a little bit ...

My crush knows I like him. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

5 February 2015 (?) - I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He got to know about this from some source. Whenever we come across each other he glances at me. What shall I infer from his behavior? Will it be weird if a smile at him??...

What to do when there are mutual feelings of trust and attraction......but he's married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I can not believe, me of all people, would have this sort of dilemma, but here goes... I work with this guy, and he's like the male version of me. I could sit here and talk him up, but I'll spare my readers. I like him wayyy more than I should, ...

Crushes. What can I do? Did she ask me this question just to see if I would say yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

4 February 2015 (M) - She and I have been friends for going on to seven months now. Ever since we met, I always though she was beautiful but I never felt a real attraction to her. I thought this would be my first platonic relationship with a girl without either o...

I like his goofy personality. if you were a guy would you feel weird if a girl from your past asked you out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - Ok, so here's the thing. I've never been close with guys before and so never had a guy friend. I'm also pretty sure I'm asexual, so that makes my love life kind of difficult. But i do want to experience relationships and everyone tells me "sometim...

He's my Best friend's brother and 3-4 years younger than me (I'm 19) and I'm falling for him. How can I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - Hi I am in a dilemma. A while back my friend had a birthday party, which we all had alcohol. I had just a bit too much and started hanging all over my friend's brother, crying into his shoulder. It ended with us almost making out, but she w...

Why did I dream about him after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3576 days ago

3 February 2015 (F) - I used to be friends with this guy online for about three years. He was a nice friend and a great way to pass time, and we grew closer, though in a strictly platonic sense. We were very similar in personalities, headstrong, stubborn and as a result ...

How do I approach my crush from six years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3568 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - When I was at school, over 6 years ago there was this girl that I was friends with. However, she was bisexual but leaned towards girls. I really liked her and we flirted a lot during school and outside of school. We never were anything more. We ...