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30-35,
anonymous
writes:When I was at school, over 6 years ago there was this girl that I was friends with. However, she was bisexual but leaned towards girls. I really liked her and we flirted a lot during school and outside of school. We never were anything more. We never spoke of any feelings, because we sort of drifted apart, as I deleted my social media and disappeared of the radar really.I've recently searched her, and she looks so stunning and unfortunately she doesn't live in the immediate area anymore, therefore I am finding it hard to try to rekindle our 'knowing' because I don't want to add her as I haven't spoken since school so it would look a bit weird, especially as I barely have anyone from school and like it that way. Also, if she rejects me! It's disappointing as she doesn't live here so I can't randomly try to see her.Those feelings for her are still there and id love to be friends again, maybe more, I just don't know how to? I really can't get her out of my head at all lately.
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reader, babalou +, writes (14 February 2015):
 It's up to you whether you want to take the chance on this. If you do, just start by messaging her on social media and seeing what she's been up to. Just say she came across your mind at some point and you had been wondering how things were going with her. I don't think it would be a big deal, honestly. My mother (40ish years) added a bunch of people she had never seen or talked too since high school and people seem to enjoy catching up. They don't think it's weird if you actually strike up a conversation with them. If you just add them and don't speak, however, it seems a bit creepy as though you're just being nosy or just want to keep an eye on what they're doing after a long time. If, and only if, you guys can become close again (don't force it), you should try to plan meeting up with her.
However she could very well be in a relationship so don't get your hopes up. And most likely, she's nothing like she was six years ago and you're holding on to the thought of how things were with you such a long time ago. That person probably doesn't exist anymore.
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