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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, I've met this guy at a party that I recently went to and we hit it off immediately. He is a very close friend of my friend C. I really liked him right from the start but I didn't really think of it much, but we started to talk a little bit more and I could see a nice thing developing. Throughout the party we kinda just interacted with each other quite a lot. I was asking him questions and listening to his answers and I felt that he was doing that a lot too. After the party we went towards town walking together just talking about different things he seemed very interested in my person and we had a great laugh. As you would expect I kind of thought that it wouldn't been totally wrong if I spent more time with him but obviously I wasn't too forward or overbearing. Night was progressing very nicely and we just started to hug a lot and talk to each other in the club. He wasn't sober at that time but he wasn't too drunk either. We left the club and went to get some food. He waited for me to get my coat from the bar and walked me out. We sat waiting for our friends on a bench and we just cuddled and laughed for a long while and then he kissed me. I was very happy because I really wanted that to happen at some point but I'm not a kind of girl that is just kissed a lot of guys. But he made me feel very secure just as if I was on a night out with my boyfriend. Then we left in a taxi and he took me home, hugged me goodbye and said: take care. I have seen him the next day but we have not said a word to each other. Just yesterday after he left home (he lives far away from where I study) he added me on fb and few hours after messaged me saying that he apologizes for being too drunk and that he was surprised that I spent so much time with him, to which I replied that there is no reason for him to apologize and that I had a great time with him. He then said that he will be coming back around Easter and 'maybe we'll meet again'. I said that we are having a party at my house around Easter so it would be cool to see him there. He then said that he will ask C and sort something out. I don't know whether he forgot about the nice time we had time together and just being nice or does he actually want to see me again and pick up from where we left off. I don't know if I accidentally not made a fool out of myself in case we was just being nice. I really want to see him again because I'm hoping it going to be even better than few nights ago but maybe he just isn't interested at all. Please help :)
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reader, Kingu +, writes (5 September 2015):
 I think you had what many of us romantic women would deem the perfect date and I am positive by the sound of it you really made a connection. But I get the feeling from what you said that it is one of those ships passing in the night moments.
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