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writes:I have been talking to this guy for a while and we always talk about metting up but nothing ever becomes of it. We go to different schools so I see him once a week in the bus and even at that he smiles and then sits with his friends. We talk all the time but I don't want a relationship with my phone. I can't decide whether I should keep talking to him and hope that something more will become of it or just give up. Also yesterday (Valentine's Day) he messaged me saying "happy valentines fgt xxx" I don't know if he means this in a friendly way or more than friends please help me decide and explain his Valentine's Day message thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 February 2015):
 fgt can mean feeling great today. I say this to anyone. Sometimes people say it back, some feel awkward and just chuckled. It only has meaning when you say it to your significant other. There is a possibility that he wants to see your response to gauge your interest. When you say you want to meet up and nothing comes of it. It could mean there is not enough interest or he's not able to travel to you/pay for activities, etc. I would feel that if he wants something more he would make a date possible. So that rules out he's shy because he knew you wanted to go out with him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 February 2015):
 Doesn't FGT mean faggot? ( Yeah, I actually asked my 12 year old lol)
I would just ask him. You can ask him in a text what he meant, because the message wasn't clear to you.
Then judge if you want to continue to chat or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2015): You are 15, enjoy being a young person. There will be plenty of time for serious relationships. Now is the time to have lots of good friends, learn new things, think about where you will go to college, what new discoveries await you in the world.
If this young man wants to be your friend, then it is up to him to behave in a proper way and treat you with respect and friendship.
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (15 February 2015):
 My Facebook was bombarded with "Happy Valentine's Day" messages and posts, so I think it was likely just to be friendly, or light-hearted.
If nothing is coming of it, it may just be a fantasy thing.
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