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male
age
26-29,
*ohn pall
writes:Hi guiz..I am a 16 year old male...i love a girl of my neighbourhood ..i love her very much..but she is two years older then me. I have never talk to her becoz im afraid.but i think she love me because she always looks into my eyes very deeply and it seems that she wants to talk with me but i ignores her attention because i was ashamed.. when i am around her she often try to stay close to me.....i have not even talked with her even tho she has been in my neighbourhood since last 3 years......she dont have a boyfriend because no one ever dare to propose her becoZ she always complain to her mother if someone do so.. I am totally confused what to do now...please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2020):
If you love her
from heart just tell her. If you get negetive tell that you are just kidding. Remmember true love never fails.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2015): You don't "love" the girl, and she doesn't love you.
I know English is your second language; so the appropriate word is "like." Or, you are "fond" of her. This is mainly because she is pretty; but you really don't know her at all.
You "like" her, and you "think" she "likes" you. Love is a very powerful word! Two people have to really know each other very very well; and they have to exchange their feelings between them; before believing it is "love." Love grows from liking someone. You have to meet them first!
If you don't say anything to her, she will not know anything except a shy goofy-looking boy is staring at her.
Say hello, and tell her your name. If she tells her mother, so what? You just said "hello," and told her your name. You're her neighbor anyway. She probably tells her mother, only if boys are fresh or rude.
I don't want to hurt your feelings; but she might prefer a boy a little older than you. If you're too shy to even talk to her, you're definitely too young.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (24 February 2015):
You do NOT love this girl. You've never even spoken to her. For all you know she may hate everything that you love. She could even be a complete b*tch!
You will never know unless you make an effort to get to know her. So open up your mouth and say hello! Ask her what her name is. Introduce yourself.
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