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She's shy, she's a friend, and I want to ask her out

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Question - (15 February 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This may sound like a newbie question but I am a newbie so here goes.

So there's this girl I really like at uni and I really want to tell her how I feel. Problem being we're both quite shy and I've never asked anyone out to their face before

I'm not sure but people think she may be interested in me with how much we talk (we talk a lot, sometimes popping up to each other randomly) and when we talk face to face she has her feet pointed towards me. Could she like me?

More than anything, I want to remain friends with her because she's such a lovely person so I'm a bit afraid of barking up the wrong tree incase she may get a bit creeped out and not want to be friends. How could I go about asking her out without scaring her off?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 February 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntInstead of telling her how you feel why not gauge how she feels by asking her out....

I agree with Notsohappy.... "hey wanna go this weekend for a cup of coffee?"

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A male reader, garnetto United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2015):

garnetto agony aunti think notsohappy got it bob on. gently, no big deal goinf out once and see where it goes. she may actually like you back and be thinking the exact same issue through

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