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writes: Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me.He got to know that I like him from some source. Whenever we come across each other he glances at me. What shall I infer from this behavior of his? Will it be weird if a smile at him?? Please suggest and help me!
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reader, dayvide  +, writes (18 February 2015):
 It is not a bad thing to have a crush on someone the most important thing is to determine if this crush would negatively affect people close to you both. You can find out if he's married or not before you decide if to smile back at him or not. But smiling back at him is not bad but it could send lots of signals to him and it could make him think about somethings so generally if you feel genuine feelings for him and it checks out he's single go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2015): Hmmm, it depends, have you had bf before? Are you already sexually active? Is he married? Are you looking for a fling or something serious? Chances are big that you two might hook up, this is if you start flirting and take things to the next step. And I know the tension that builds because it is semi forbidden. As someone who has had experience with a lot of sexual drama, I would advice for you to wait it out, observe this person and see if there is anything you might not like before proceeding with flirting. Sometimes these crushes are momentary, an effect of our hormones, and if you do nothing, you might say one day that you dodged that bullet.
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reader, Midnight Shadow  +, writes (18 February 2015):
 By the way, when I said "he's your teacher" I mean that he's a teacher where you study, so I think he can't still get in trouble and even lose his job for dating a student where he works. Please don't jeopardisers for him by making it more known that you have a crush on him. Crushes fade, but his career is bound to be important to him.
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (18 February 2015):
He's your teacher, so you need to treat him as such - not as a potential boyfriend.
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reader, dayvide +, writes (18 February 2015):
It is not a bad thing to have a crush on someone the most important thing is to determine if this crush would negatively affect people close to you both. You can find out if he's married or not before you decide if to smile back at him or not. But smiling back at him is not bad but it could send lots of signals to him and it could make him think about somethings so generally if you feel genuine feelings for him and it checks out he's single go for it
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