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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should I give up on this girl? She's come up with all kinds of excuses for why we can't get together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

30 July 2014 (M) - I am very close to giving up on this girl and I just want to see if I should or if there is still hope. I met her a couple months ago at Wondercon, we connected well and I got her number. After a couple text exchanges (with very delayed response...

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also...

Help please... does my coworker like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy at work and started working quite closely with him about a month ago. He is a warm, friendly person and helps me out all the time at work. One time because I did something wrong at work, he had to wait for me to fix it for three...

The more I talk to her the stronger my feelings grow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3759 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - a girl has come in my life and she is like my best friend.she said we can only be best friends and i respect that and dont have any problems with it. we been talking to each other over phone regularly for past couple of months. i can live as a fri...

This guy is making me mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey friends please help me in understanding whats this going on in my life n what is this guy actually upto am a college girl one of my classmate behaves in a very weird manner with me Its been two years and we are just friends He reads all ...

Would you interpret this as he now just sees us as friends or still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi, my question is, how to interpret a text from a guy that has in the past said he definitely likes me. I texted him Happy Birthday and he texted back 'thank you my sweet friend :) xx I hope to see you soon'. Would you interpret this as he now ...

I want to catch this guy's attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - This good looking guy moved into my building about a month ago. A couple of weeks back, we arrived at home at the same time. We park diagonally across from each other. He was ahead of me by about 10 meters, but turned to look behind him. He n...

He likes me! But am I over thinking? What if I do later change my mind about having children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hello dear cupid'ers! I'm head over heels in love and it's absolutely wonderful, this guy is officially the cats pyjamas. We have been in a relationship for around 9 months now, and we are looking at getting a place together. I know we make eac...

Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even ...

Did I miss the boat? Should I reply to his message brushing me off?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about this. I contacted a guy last night. I only met him once and it was a while ago. I had a night out with a friend and I met him then. I sent a friend request last night and sent him a message just asking if he remembered ...

I've fallen for my mate, but don't want to ruin the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I have strong feelings for my mate and he doesnt know and I don't know if he feels the same should I tell him yes or no if yes should I tell him over internet or face to face I don't want things to be awquard or weird and most of all I don't wanna ...

He's a shy guy, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - There is this guy I work with that is always talking to me and pretty much only me, and he always has this look in his eyes when he sees me. He is alwayyyys trying to make me laugh and tells me funny stories all the time..he always keeps the ...

He doesn't seem to fit the stereotype of a guy who likes fighting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I'm a college student and I volunteer in a biology lab. For the past 8 weeks we've had a physics and math major helping us out doing some calculations. This is his final week in our lab as the project is just about finished and I really like him. ...

It's been 2 days since he sent an email, what is he playing at and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that i really like and we just broke up for the summer hols. He took my email before we left and signed my shirt as we are leaving school. He sent an emmediate email to me with a load of random letters. I replied saying what ...

What's my next step with him? Not sure how to read him due to my Aspergers.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I just recently found out I have Asperger's. One symptom is that I am useless with guys and dating - I cannot read the signs at all. I think men think I'm above average intelligence and that I am pretty, but it is very, very hard to 'process' that ...

Am I flirting wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have never been good at flirting, first of all, but recently I don't know what has come over me with this new guy I know... It started with me and another girl getting him to promise to buy us ice cream because the weather was so hot. Then, a ...

She's come back into my life, but she has a Bf. Should I tell her my feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

24 July 2014 (M) - Too make a long story short. A girl who ive really liked has come back into my life, I've liked her since 7th grade and that was 9 years ago. I'm a college junior now and a lot has changed from then, she is still amazing to me, when i first saw her ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

I'm confused about this attraction to this girl, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him to pieces. But for years, since I started secondary school I have always fancied girls and guys. It started by having crushes on girl teachers. I met my boyfrie...

I am so fond of him, Does he not notice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I fancy this fella 25. We get on so well. I don't know if he fancies me. We hadn't since each other in a few weeks; when we met he said its hard to forget a pretty face. I was like thank you. He likes all my stuff on fb. But he would never ask ...

Dating my landlord: is that a bad idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - Hello everyone! I just moved back to the city and found a flatshare in a great location, all bills included for 400. The tenants are wonderful and the landlord when I first met him was great. I am 23 and my landlord is 29 so quite young. Th...

She recently broke up with her Bf, so is it too early to as her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

22 July 2014 (M) - Hi, bit of a lengthy question here. About 2 years ago at college I ended up getting paired with this girl for a school project and ended up liking her, but at the time, she had a boyfriend so obviously I couldn't do anything about my feelings for ...

I only have a week to tell her how I feel -- if I even should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Hi Guys I knew a girl from my dance lessons a coupe of years ago. We shared an unusual chemistry and did seem to get along real well. But I did not ask her out cause I was then involved with someone else. I met her yesterday after almost a year and...

He love me not ... he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - ok, i'm trying to think less about boys and i'm getting out more because i know it's good for me, but the guy i really like is next door and we're kinda like best friends (we knew about each other since we were little but rarely got to see each ...

Is he telling friends those things because he knows I'm over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Therrs this guy who ive known for a year and its like...we made out alot and I used to have like a huge crush on him. I even told him. But there was a few times he has kissed me cheek, but there was this time where he kissed me for no reason out of ...

I'm older now so how and where should I meet this guy I used to talk to online? What's a way to make it safe and get to know him better in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hello everybody. Hope we are all well! A quick question really, if anyone is able to let me know their opinions? Right, I'll try and keep this as short as I can. Basically, a few years ago I did meet a guy online. We hit it off, yeah, bu...

Should I give it time to develop? I feel confused about my Online long distance friend. I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - Hi everyone Sorry, new to this site so not exactly sure how it works but I'll just ask away. Well basically I'm in a sort of confusing position with this girl who is my best friend. She's from Taiwan and we've been talking (online) for at ...

Is there any way to find out if she has feelings for me without making our friendship awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - I've known this girl Katie since I was 12 years old (she was 8). She was the younger sister to my best friend. As we got older the two of us became extremely close. We became best friend , hanging out every day after school, having sleep,overs with ...

In love with my English teacher but now find she likes another. How do I manage this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - i am 14 now,in love with my english teacher. Actually i really care for her. I feel for her. Her sadness makes me sad too. Whenever i see her there are butterflies in my stomach.i stammer while talking to her.i just want her to be my best friend...

Tongue-tied around my crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

17 July 2014 (M) - So I want to start a conversation with a girl but I don't know how to start it. The problem is that I have a little bit of a crush on her and when I try to talk to her I just stare at her and its very weird. Please help me!...

Are people more likely to speak their minds when they are drunk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - So ive got the inevitable question. Are people (espeically guys who are kinda of shy but just in general as well) more likely to tell their true feelings, and speak their mind when they're drunk or after even drinks? Is it true what they say th...

I have a crush on her. How do I tell her without ruining the friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

15 July 2014 (M) - hi am 25 theres is a woman who is 30 she sent me a friend request on facebook so i acceptd without knowin her. we both speak the same language. at first i thought myb i know her bt i realisd we dont know each other,so she stays next to my town its ...

In Love: At what point can I make a move on my University Lecturer? After I finish my MA?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - First post in here, I really need help. I'll get straight to the point; I'm in love with my university lecturer. He's introduced me into a whole new world of my subject area that has inspired me to carry on my education and we can have conversatio...

How do I get over this crush on my girlfriend's brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 July 2014 (M) - I have asked before but it has been a while. Quick update: me and my girlfriend have been together for eight years and I have a crush on her brother. So as of now I have lots of sex dreams about him. I'm still trying to get over him. He used to show ...

Am I just being a typical bloke?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

13 July 2014 (M) - New to this everyone. How is everyone? I'm just a young lad. Started a new job a few months ago. I'm really enjoying it. I've maybe got this totally wrong. Picking up the wrong signals. So there's this really attractive girl. She's 2...

I like the same guy my bestfriend does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

13 July 2014 (F) - Hey, So I like this guy, and we get on really well and I think he likes me back. The problem is my best friend likes him too. She liked him first but she doesn't know I like him, but she has her suspicions. My (other) friend has told me that she...

How could I possibly tell this girl that the reason we can't be friends right now is because I still have feelings for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

13 July 2014 (M) - There's this girl that goes to the same classes as I do. At first I had a major crush on her and couldn't stop thinking of her. I told her how I felt but she said that she didn't feel the same and she wasn't ready to be with anyone else as she just ...

Do girls REALLY fondle each other to attract male attention?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

13 July 2014 (M) - There is this guy at work, who I will call "John". John is a real chick magnet. Every girl, whether workmate or customer, is attracted to him. E.g. while I am talking to a female customer, she snatches looks at John, and many times smiles to him. ...

I have a B/f but is it normal to be completely and utterly drawn to another person without being able to put your finger on the reason why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Hi all! I want some clarification into my situation! I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years! He's 23! I have always been totally in love with him, he can wind me up most days due to the maturity difference in us, but I sti...

I am unsure what to do. How can I reconnect with a Gf from many years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (M) - I had a girlfriend many years ago and about 2 years ago i found her on facebook and she added me, but she not remember me, Now here is the twist: my mum goes shopping where she works on the tills and every time she asks how i am. I am not sure if ...

I've met my soulmate and am ready to settle down, but she says she doesn't feel like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (M) - So, I think that its time for me to settle down with my soulmate. I met this girl - five times. She is a shy and reserved. Unfortunately, I get told that she feels 'neutral' about me and that she does not 'feel like it.' I would really like to u...

I'm lovelorn ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Dear Agony aunt, There is a guy I like. I know this is a sort of cliche story, but he is popular and I'm known by people but not popular on a hotness scale. Him and I talk a lot but aren't Best friends. He often flirts with me but also does wi...

I told her I love her and now things have changed, I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

11 July 2014 (M) - I have told the girl that i love her but she didnot given me any answer for that ,also i had a small fight with her .now how to bring the old relation back on track since she is not happy with me.also she has never refused or said no to my ...

I still like girls but find myself drawn to him ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - Hello, all! Recently, I have found myself falling for a good friend of mine. We've been friends for a little over a year, but we just got super close about 6 months ago. He had a girlfriend for a while, but she was terrible to him- he is such a ...

I want my crush to notice me more and talk to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping you can help me out. I'm 15 years old and there's this boy in my year. I don't really know him that well but we have mutual friends. The craziest thing is I can't stop thinking about him, I get butterflies everytime I see him and I ...

I feel the need to talk to him to see if there is anything there ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3778 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - i met this boy when I was in my senior year of high school and we really hit it off. It seemed like we were the perfect match for each other, until one day he told me he was moving away after that school year and he will be leaving the school. I ...

Lost contact with my crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - I'm preoccupied about a man I used to work with. We were good friends and he showed me many signs that he was interested. We talked a few months after I left. However, since then - we have lost contact. We have no way to talk. I can't look h...

Prom is next year and I have no date! Should I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - Here goes. I'm in year 10 and so next year it will be my prom and at the moment I have no date. I really want to ask this guy but I am way too worried about the things that could go wrong to ask him. We are friends and I'm scared that if I ask him ...

Guys, would you initiate/maintain physical contact with a girl you aren't interested in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - I am not sure what to make of my crush's physical signals. Guys, would you initiate/maintain physical contact with a girl you aren't interested in? This guy I like is sort of a friend of a friend, so I know him, and we've gotten to know each oth...

Should I take the initiative ... or wait for him to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - There's a very cute guy in my college ..he has had crush on me since the beginning of the college and its been almost a year ... we just used to chat very rarely but now we've started chatting almost every day.. but he takes a very long time to ...