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writes:Hey friendsplease help me in understanding whats this going on in my life n what is this guy actually uptoam a college girlone of my classmate behaves in a very weird manner with meIts been two years and we are just friends He reads all my posts on Facebook but never likes anywhenever am around him he gets very nervoushe would shake alotI have seen him and his friends starring at me keeping complete watchsometimes he shows me like he is madly in love with me and sometimes he completely ignores meThe thing is I like his friendship it gives me strenght I feel positivitybut his weird behavior makes me upsetI dnt know whether he doubts I like himDoes he really loves meis he just doing time passhow can I actually ignore himhow do I stop bothering about him please help please
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (29 July 2014):
 His behavior is odd and immature if I'm being honest. All you should do is don't pay him much mind. Don't show him that you care either. You shouldn't worry about what he does or doesn't do. He seems a bit ridiculous in the way that he carries on. If he likes you then he should grow a pair and tell you but either way I say move on with your life and focus on the things that need focusing on because he doesn't seem like someone you should be focusing on. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2014): You should go about your life and ignore him like he doesn't exist. Direct your time and attention on someone who will appreciate it, without all the foolishness.
In time, he will go away. He sounds much too childish to deal with; and you seem to be offering him more attention and concern than he actually deserves.
You're wasting time trying to figure-out illogical behavior, and your intense feelings for him seem just as odd. He is socially-awkward, and it sounds like he might be incapable of offering you the type of emotional response you're looking for. He sounds a bit goofy. Maybe that's the charm he has on you.
Don't try to build a friendship or romance with someone who isn't able to, or doesn't reciprocate the effort. He is even making you behave a little silly yourself, by getting so upset. You make him uncomfortable.
There is a possibility that he has a social disorder that impedes his interpersonal-skills and social-interaction with others. Your description of his behavior sound as if he has some sort of social impediment.
More likely, he is just a silly boy; and you're wasting your time in frustration. Moving on is the best remedy in these situations.
By the way, "love" is not the issue here. The emotion "love" is being used out of context. When do you have time to develop such strong feelings for him; if he doesn't return them, or he's so erratic?
You are crushing on him, and infatuated with him. He is just too immature to know what to do with your feelings for him. Go find another guy. Getting angry with him is just as immature.
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