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26-29,
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writes:There's a very cute guy in my college ..he has had crush on me since the beginning of the college and its been almost a year ... we just used to chat very rarely but now we've started chatting almost every day.. but he takes a very long time to reply during the day but texts fast at night ... I also think i have a crush on him too but there are many boys who text me day and night and he takes hours to reply.. 5his makes me question whether he loves me or not.. also he asked my number and its been about 5 days we exchanged phone numbersbut he hasnt called or texted.. should I take the initiative or wait for him to?? How do i know if he is the right guy for me
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reader, Mistresskiki  +, writes (24 July 2014):
Stop stressing about this one guy - he'll either call or he won't. You don't love him, you have a crush, and he probably is the same.
If he's at college during the day he probably doesn't have time to reply much because of studying; more time at night after college. Perhaps he likes you enough to text when he has time, just not enough to make the effort when he is busy.
I wouldn't sit around, not talking to other boys waiting for this one to show an interest; if he IS interested he'll call regardless of how many other boys there are that interest you.
If you want a definite yes or no then sure ask him, but only if you feel able to take whichever answer he gives!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2014): Don't use the word "love" when you're just messaging and getting to know each other. It has only been five days!
No, he doesn't "love" you; even if he says he does. That's a very serious word, and you should be very careful about saying it to boys. You "love" your family; because they love you back. You can't "love" a boy who hardly has the nerve to tell you how he feels.
Yes, you can text him first, but don't get spoiled about messages. If there are "many other boys" who are texting day and night; that's why he isn't (and shouldn't) go rushing to get back to you. He thinks you're too popular and a little conceited.
When he knows it's more about him, and less about other boys; maybe he'll get back a little sooner. He doesn't have to rush around like it's an emergency to get back to you anyway.
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