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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

Didn't think he was the cheating type but I've caught him in lies and strange women answering his voice in the early am!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I feel like im going insane. I do. I come from a conservative family and always thought I would be with (in regards to sex) one man. I like about the idea of only knowing one person intimately and vice versa. Me and my current boyfriend wen...

In love with the wrong person again and it's my professor this time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! I don't know exactly what I am looking for,some kind of solace for the way I am feeling right now.I'm 22 and I'm in love with my college teacher.I recently found out that he has someone,he's not married to that person and he doesn't ...

Does he actually like me and wants me to stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Basically I was seeing a guy I started to like to be honest he's the first guy iv liked for ages. We got on really well I met his family an he told me I'm the first girl he's brought to his familys house since his ex. He was really nice to me did t...

"My feelings haven't changed!" he said. What does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - So, went for a Chinese with work colleagues, one man got rather drunk and tried to kiss me at the bus stop, I pulled away and was stunned; gave him a lecture about how we were colleagues etc last night was the first time I've seen him since the ...

He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him...

I thought he liked me but now I think he's avoiding me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hi guys I wanted to ask how to stop thinking a lot about someone you have a crush on but the thing is I don't actually know this person I know it sounds creepy but he goes to my school and I think it was a love at first sight type of thing. This has ...

Is it acceptable or reasonable to have a crush on someone else whilst in a committed longterm relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I basically just wanted to ask if it is ever acceptable or reasonable to have feelings for someone else (or a "crush", for want of a better word) whilst in a committed, long term relationship? Would this mean that the current rela...

Help me understand him. Is he a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Dear lovely aunts, I need your help.. I've known this guy for 20 years, not close friends but families are close friends, his mom always wanted us together ever since we were kids. I was always emotionally unavailable and never considered him. We ...

Relationship Questions. Here are a few to answer or ponder on. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi folks,could you please answer the following questions? 1. Do you agree with this statement? -- "Men do not want female friends. They have their friends, and aren't on the lookout for new females to add to their circle, unless, of cours...

I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. How do I get over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - So I'm in my late twenties and I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. Whether he feels the same as me is immaterial at the moment as he is seeing someone else, but I could really do with some tips as to how to get over him. ...

I introduced the girl to my best friend. Now they are together. Trouble is I have fallen in love with the girl. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I'm 17 years old, male, and I've been best friends with this guy since elementary school. Lately I've gone insane with envy for certain aspects of his life. A key component, his relationship with his girlfriend, whom I've fallen in love with ove...

She gives me butterflies. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Hi friends. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them? I occasionally seem to think of this particular girl I met a couple of times before and she STILL seems to cross my ...

Should I call him and tell him how I really feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - okay so..here it is under an unusual planetary alignment i meet the most amazing man it was strange i felt a deep connection with him when we shook hands i will never forget gazing into his eyes when i met him. i could not describe the pow...

What girls mean when they say and how to work on to show how good I am?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - hi little about me : (not boasting) I am confident, easy to approach and Like jokes and talented. I play sports (four currently at campus) , write , and down to earth and honest. Helpful and kind with people. I have lots of other hobbies to...

Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our ...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

What does it mean when a girl uses exclamation marks in her messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - There's this girl I like. I only got back in contact with her recently after 2 years. I know she had a crush on me last time I saw her. She uses exclamation marks at the end of all her sentences. I know it's speculating, but what does this mean? ...

He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) - I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they ...

Please can someone explain this man's behaviour to me? So confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I really need the advice of someone objective! Basically I really liked this guy, and he told me he liked me too (more than once). He used to message me, offer to walk me places and would talk to me whenever he got the chance telling me how b...

I don't know how to handle myself around an older coworker.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3853 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl and in need of some advice. I work part time and a man works there also. He's in his twenties and seems like a very friendly genuine person. I have a large teenage crush on him, I go all red around him and can't seem to ...

Could he possibly be flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) - Ok, so theres this guy i know really well. He used to date my cosin up north now, i only see him on facebook cause he is all the way up north. Now he always likes or comments on my status and pictures on FB. This last summerhe came down and stayed ...

Is it illegal to date second cousins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is my second cousin 3 we love each other so much but people judge us and our family doesnt know yet... is it illegal to date him in australia?!? help me plz he is my true love xxxx...

How can I tell if a girl with a boyfriend also likes me? NO intention of making a move as she has a Bf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When I first met this girl over a year ago, I asked her out but she told me she has a boyfriend. She was really nice about it though and said we could hang out and be friends. I was ok with that because I just wanted to get to know her. Over th...

How can I progress this? And, how do I ask the younger brother out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone. I am stuck. Properly stuck. My story is this. Two brothers. When I met the elder, he liked me and wanted to date me, but I decided he wasn't the guy for me. We set up a bit of a flirtation but only that. He has a girlf...

Do you think this girl at the store likes me? or has a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - There’s this girl I always see at the store, she always smiles at me and asks me if I found everything ok.....and she just keeps smiling at me and staring.... Well a few days ago I seen her and I got into another lane and she was there, but at a dif...

How do you cut someone you see frequently out of your life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I need to cut someone out of my life because I believe that is the only way to get them off my mind. I've had a crush on this person for a terribly long time and they give less than a damn about me. They may not be aware that I still like them (I do ...

Can my GF and I really get back together after this break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - Hey everyone. My girldfriend of 9 months asked for space and time apart for a month. We had a great relationship for the first 6 months then some arguments and a fight happened. I apologized sincerely. We haven't spoken in 3 weeks. She conta...

Does my crush like me or is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - So i have another problem this one is to do with my ex-crush... Last year i told him i liked him but then he said he aint ready for a relationship and what not so in short he rejected me.. But we continued our friendship and acted as if nothi...

Did I ruin things? How can I get things back to the way we were at the start, flirting and saying nice things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Dating advice needed! Recently my school talent show was on and I took part in it! I became really close to this boy, the DJ, and I slowly started to love him. We got so close at the show and I was disappointed when it was over because I thought we ...

Was a Bj the first night too soon? Do you think we have a chance at dating and him respecting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 27 years old and a few weeks ago I met a man at a party. We hit it off right away and spent the entire night talking and drinking, he got tipsy and invited me to stay the night there with him but I laughed it off and offered ...

Two days ago my online guy was distant. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and we hit it off immediately. He would text me everyday and our conversations lasted all day and all night. He works, goes to school, and has an 8 year old son. For the first month he was off of work ...

What strategies will help me identify a good man who will step up and stay around like my husband, who accepted my bisexuality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I'm a single mother of two, separated from my husband of 19 years two years ago, finally dating, can't seem to find and keep a good man, a man like my husband who accepted that Im bisexual and will allow me to have flings with women while he stays...

Based on the rules in my workplace: If we just go out on a date here and there, would that be what they call a relationship? Could our employment be terminated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - I work at a private school. There are rules of conduct for the staff. One of the rules is relationships are not permitted between staff. I am very attracted to a co worker and I can tell she has a serious interest in me. I know why these rules ...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

Why does he keep on playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Why does he keep playing games? I'm so upset:(? So I really like this quiet, cute shy guy. and I thought we were getting on really well. All the signs are there that he likes me. He made me a mix CD for valentine’s day. I thought that...

Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I think my partner has some sort of personality disorder. We have know each other yrs and have a couple of kids together. We have had a volatile relationship in the past as he was a bit of a mummy's boy. He is 44 and we only started living p...

Boy has girlfriend but stares at me in class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - There is a boy in my university class and for the past 6 weeks we have been making eye contact. I found out he has a girlfriend. I haven't had a full blown conversation with him just a simple "hello" every now and then. When we lock eyes, we both ...

Do I need a change of mind set? Or just some patience and confidence, before I connect with a girl I like in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl and never had sex and i have only hugged 3 girls my entire life. After talking with my friends and observing people i feel like a lost cause. One guy called himself a late bloomer because he l...

I loved her since 6th grade. Now is my shot, should I take it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Okay, so here is my story. Back in 7th grade (we are sophomores in college now) my best friend and I had huge crushes on one another. We talked 24/7 and couldn't get enough of each other. Out of me being a scared little kid, I missed my shot with ...

Six years since I saw her and now old crush is commenting on my face book?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Probably one of the stupidest and ridiculous things to be writing on here about, but I'm just not thinking straight right now. Female friend I crushed on in high school. Never took a chance, I went to a college far, far away, and contacted her vi...

What can I do to make things better with a guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I've been in love with a guy during like my whole entire life. I've started loving him since I'm three years old, I know it's really early but I couldn't control it. Now, twelve years later, I still love him but he never knew it. I tried getting ...

Am I pervert because I have fantasies/crushes on younger girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - Hey Guys ever since i can remember i have had fantasy/crushes on "youthful cute girls" Im 21 and this still remains, Although the problem is this trait is mainly in younger girls(not preteens I'm not a pedo) with the exception of a few in there 21+! ...

I don't want to start anything with a much older co worker but want to see where it goes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I've been flirting with a man at work for several months now, he flirts back and has openly told me he likes me, hes quite a bit older tho, im 22 and he is 54, he bought me 12 roses for Valentines day this year, we worked together last night and I ...

How do I speak to this guy without being too forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - The guy I like has just broken up with his girlfriend. We don't speak, only ever see each other around college however I want to start speaking to him, I don't want to straight away as he has just come out of a relationship and I'm not the sort to ...

What does it mean if I am attracted to a girl but don't immediately want to sleep with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3849 days ago

18 February 2013 (M) - I was having an argument with a guy about attraction and I was saying that physical attraction does not always equate to sexual attraction and wanting to bed a girl. When I crush/like a girl it's not her panties that I am after her body is not ...

Will I ever have a chance with this guy or am I always destined to be in the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I'm a 17 year-old girl and I've had a crush on a guy for almost three years. We met at a summer camp in 2010, on the way there in the bus. We talked a lot, joked and he seemed really sweet. I was instantly attracted to him. Although he ha...

Did I mess up with my crush by this stupid "love calculator" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

17 February 2013 (M) - Hello dear aunts and uncles. Unfortunately, like most of us here, I've made a huge mistake. There's this freshman (I'm a sophomore) girl in my High School that I think it pretty. I was looking at her instagram profile and then checked out one ...

What am I doing wrong? Why doesn't she like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

17 February 2013 (M) - It will sound a little wierd. I am a little possesive by nature. I have a huge crush on a girl. She is my junior.she is realy open and friendly with everyone. We have spent quality time together. I make her laugh a lot and she is realy happy around ...

I signed up to personal training with him and I feel there's something there. What are my chances that he might like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - So I really like this guy at my gym and he's always looking at me whenever I look up and my thought is that he might like me because I don't think it's a coincidence that a guy would be staring at me for seven months. Anyway I signed up to per...