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anonymous
writes:I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl and never had sex and i have only hugged 3 girls my entire life. After talking with my friends and observing people i feel like a lost cause. One guy called himself a late bloomer because he lost his virginity at 14, i am 22 and this just makes me feel sad. I don't like the thought of doing anything physical with a girl that i don't like. i don't want to sow wild oats. I wonder if my feelings towards girls have made me to over hype relationships? and if so how can i change my mind set?
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reader, Problemsofateen  +, writes (22 February 2013):
My advise is to not think of relationships as soon as you see a girl. Be friendly and make friends! Then see if feeling develop, if they do just be honest with her. When feeling come naturally the 'physical' side will also come naturally. There in no need to stress! Losing your virginity to someone you like will be 100000 times better and it will be worth the wait. It is not a race!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (22 February 2013):
 There are still many people in this world who remain a virgin past the age of 21. And there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right woman to come around. And if the timing is right... and you feel comfortable with her... for you to lose your virginity then. But it's entirely up to you. You shouldn't feel feel pressured because of the media- and people around you who may have lost their virginity sooner. You are your own person- and you deserve to make your own decisions. Now with all of that being said... let me ask you... are you ready for a relationship? Do you want a woman in your life right now? Would like to learn how to meet women, date, and maintain a healthy relationship with them? Then NOW is your chance to get educated about what women want- and how to attract them. Speak with some of your female relatives, friends, and/or acquaintances to get their thoughts on how to meet and date women. And also read some of my below articles. Those links should help you out some.Best!http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/what--women-want-most-from-a-guy.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-a-confidence-booster.html
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