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writes:Probably one of the stupidest and ridiculous things to be writing on here about, but I'm just not thinking straight right now.Female friend I crushed on in high school. Never took a chance, I went to a college far, far away, and contacted her via facebook 3 years later. Talked for a little bit that year, subtly showed my former interest in her on how I loved her smile. She never replied and seldom used FB after that. Now, two years later, she's liking and commenting on my posts. I know I am being ridiculous in that this is what social network friends...do. You have to understand, I was crushed the rest of that year after high school because of this girl and because of my foolish mistake. I hated feeling like that. It drove me mad. Of course, I was able to get over her. Now, 6 years since I last saw her. Here she is back on Facebook. I don't know what she looks like now, let alone, how much she has changed. I can't see her as a friend, just as someone I liked or still like, I don't know...Why do these things come back to me? I'm going to take an aspirin for this future headache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2013): Oh just get the courage and ask her out as its six years later and you still want her.... snooze and you will lose
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 February 2013):
What's your question? If it's "What is she doing this for?" Maybe the answer is that she liked you too, or that she just read your message and she thought it was nice. It's hard to say.
What is stopping you from talking to her?
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reader, justaguy71  +, writes (21 February 2013):
Find out what she looks like FIRST, you know how you remember things when you were younger and they are different? lol
then go for it, why not, maybe its meant to be.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 February 2013):
 So because you don't have the guts to contact her and ask her out, you've been torturing yourself for 6 years.
Why wonder why she's giving you Facebook attention? Who cares! You either are going to do something about how you feel, or you won't. If you have a girlfriend or are in a relationship, you shouldn't be worrying about her anyways. Otherwise, if you're still single and you still carry a torch for her, stop acting like the high school kid you were and start acting like the fully grown MAN you are now.
Stop subtly hinting and ask her out. If she turns you down, you can get over her once and for all. But if she accepts, you'll stop wasting time pining for her from afar and start living the dream.
No more high school kiddie crushes for you.
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